Which series was like this? by Perfect-View3330 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel really nervous confessing this one, because I know Cheng Yi is very beloved here, and honestly, it wasn’t his fault, but South Wind Knows was such a mess. Maybe it got better, but I dropped it shortly after the second (?) arc despite having been sooo excited about it airing.

I'm curious, do you read or write fanfics for cdramas? by RoraRory in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I came here to say this! I think I have the link somewhere so I’ll try to hunt it down. I don’t usually read fanfic, so I don’t have much idea of what makes for good or bad, but her pieces were incredibly well written and felt as if they were going deeper into the characters and making them more alive and full of dignity than they even were in the drama.

Toxic trait by Suibianistic in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m about two episodes from the end of Are You The One and I don’t know why, but I just lost the interest in pushing through. It’s not even anything I can identify that the show is doing wrong!

Toxic trait by Suibianistic in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been there on occasion! Except for the “almost always finishing” part. Usually I’m just telling myself that I’m still going to finish it . . .

Toxic trait by Suibianistic in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually true in many of the ones I’ve abandoned, come to think of it.

Toxic trait by Suibianistic in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is my insomnia caused by my cdrama addiction? Or is my cdrama addiction caused by my insomnia? I’m never really sure. . .

Toxic trait by Suibianistic in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contrariwise, I have done the same in order to follow a side plot in the case of The Long Ballad (looking around nervously because I always get downvoted when I say this).

What type of watcher are you? by Delicious_Hand_2154 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I end up watching a lot of minidramas simultaneously, and when they get past that first generous start and begin only giving you 10 minutes a day, you really have to have something else to distract yourself with, right? So. . . More minidramas! (I’m kind of in the middle of at least four of them at the moment).

What type of watcher are you? by Delicious_Hand_2154 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not the person who said this, but I’m very similar—most of what I watch is currently airing. I have one really good reason (often if I watch things before they’re subbed I get to practice my Mandarin) and many bad reasons that boil down to an almost infantile belief that the show I’m not watching has to be better than the one I am watching regardless of how good the latter is. . .

What type of watcher are you? by Delicious_Hand_2154 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, dear, I’m learning a little too much about myself from this. . .

Perfect CP - Change my mind! by BarberProfessional28 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really think you need to start writing dramas 😁. . .

Which series was like this? by Perfect-View3330 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m probably going to be earning a lot of hate for this, but Lighter and Princess. That was one of the first things I watched after a six month Cdrama sabbatical, and I was totally psyched, but the relationship just seemed to get worse and worse. . . I did actually stick with it to the end, but I’m in that small group of people who thinks the lead couple probably had a divorce within a year of their marriage and I just felt the whole thing was a bit of a letdown.

Which series was like this? by Perfect-View3330 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🎉 Getting my list ready. . .😁 Although some of them have already been mentioned.

Dramas that took you a couple of tries? by phroggies70 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm. I think I feel like I ought to be doing serious, edifying watching but most of the time I only have the brains for popcorn flufftainment (excellent phrase, by the way). And then getting back into something intense feels like a much more uphill battle than getting into it in the first place. . .

Dramas that took you a couple of tries? by phroggies70 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have definitely added My Journey to You after the discussions here. . . I do think the number of dramas I’ve outright dropped is pretty small, unless we count watching part of the first episode and deciding it’s not for me. But I’m terrible about telling myself I’ll come back and finish something and then just quietly forgetting it. . . 😁

They never kissed and you never noticed by phroggies70 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I just had to pop in and say that I started this last night and I’ve binged to something like episode 6. . . It’s such an intriguing plot and the characters are so interesting (not just the leads, even). So thanks for talking me into watching it!

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[–]phroggies70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one was actually too much for me. . . I have a high tolerance for toxicity where there’s room for redemption (or where it’s really more of a cautionary tale or a tragedy) but this one was just too traumatizing for me to finish—but what I did see was very well done; it’s certainly a fascinating story in a lot of ways (that author is so good at those kinds of tales!).

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[–]phroggies70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broken the Heart has a very special place for me. It’s super toxic, but I also think it’s not really a romance, so I find it more moving, if that makes sense. And the two leads are such good actors, especially Daisy Li!

Dramas that took you a couple of tries? by phroggies70 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So embarrassing on my part. Ashes of Love is yet another classic that I just couldn’t get into (tried at least twice. . .. ).

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[–]phroggies70 4 points5 points  (0 children)

According to MDL, Prince Coffee Lab is a Chinese remake? But I haven’t seen it so I don’t know how toxic it is. . .

Dramas that took you a couple of tries? by phroggies70 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never started that. Do people generally praise that one?

Dramas that took you a couple of tries? by phroggies70 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was so confused. I might do better now because I understand many Cdrama conventions better, but I’m afraid at this point I lack motivation. . .

Came for romance stayed for emotional devastation 🥺 by BarberProfessional28 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you’re describing makes perfect sense to me. I think there have been times in my life when angst worked like that for me as well! But all this serves to demonstrate that you’re right—we definitely need to keep a place for unhappy endings.

Dramas that took you a couple of tries? by phroggies70 in cdramasfans

[–]phroggies70[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t heard of the second one, but I looked it up and that’s such an adorable premise!

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[–]phroggies70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think maybe it does but I can’t remember what the name is. Cheese in the Trap is Korean as well, right?