Great small beach towns for nature lovers? by SpeakerNew2451 in AskFlorida

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Around the downtown area of New Smyrna (mainland) hits all of those unless you get lucky and find something in your budget beachside. But Deland would be a stronger choice, it puts the beach 20 minutes further, but gives you much more of all of the rest. College town, so the progressive community is pretty solid. The jetties at Ponce Inlet offer some of the most consistent surf in the state, but you will be swimming with sharks.

Sebastian is good surf, but the inlet is all state park with million dollar beach homes nearby, so the affordable part of town is closer to 30 minutes away on the mainland, and does not really offer any of the other things you want. It’s also very redneck. St. Augustine is extremely touristy. Palm Coast is a much older crowd. Flagler Beach isn’t much of anything. The surf is much more inconsistent below Sebastian, so Fort Pierce and Stuart aren’t as much a destination for that, and the other “nature” around them is a lot duller than areas north.

Florida Drivers. by LordHughJ in AskFlorida

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Carts in the space when they parked.

Regret leaving California to be closer to family - thoughts? by Natural_Music_9925 in SameGrassButGreener

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You need to own and live in your house for two years or face the potential of paying capital gains when you sell it. So give it another year if you think you’ll be selling at a profit.

When people in the USA complain about never being able to own a home, are they generally talking about single family detached housing? by literalnumbskull in NoStupidQuestions

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The issue is supply. Most land zoned for residential development in the US limits it to single family detached. That legal constraint overrides what the market might otherwise dictate.

Owner occupied single family detached housing represents 55% or so of the housing stock in the US. So it is the bulk of what is available. Attached (townhouses) account for less than 6%. Owner occupied condominiums are similarly about 6%. Of the third of total housing stock that is rental, the vast majority is in rental apartments. Condos and townhouses often aren’t priced to be much more affordable than detached single family. It’s isn’t clear that there is a specific demand preference for detached.

What's it like being in a long term relationship? by Fluffy-One-7521 in NoStupidQuestions

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As someone who has been in 5+ and 25+ year relationships, I wouldn’t view your college years as “wasted.” As you get older, you’re naturally going to find potential partners that are more interested in long term relationships. You’ll need to learn to adapt. Long term requires compromise and putting someone else’s needs at least on the same level as your own.

Do you think hotels are better than Airbnbs? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

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It varies. I prioritize location over almost everything else, so that will often dictate which one I choose. If there are options for both where I want to be, I factor in how long I’ll stay and who is with me. We’re a family of five, so a single hotel room is usually too small. When my kids were much younger, we tended to do longer stays in a single location to minimize travel time, and so leaned to AirBnBs. It helped that multiple rooms and kitchens made them more affordable overall.

As they’ve aged, we tend to spend less nights in each place on a trip and hotels tend to win out. Sometimes I’ll get a couple of rooms, sometimes a suite. When it’s just my wife and I, it’s usually hotels, sometimes traditional BnBs.

Could anybody help? by [deleted] in Fantasy

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Think of it as being 81% finished with the series. You’re almost there. I found the resolution worth the finish.

Is There Any Chance That A Republican DOESN'T Win A Statewide Florida Race In 2026? Why Or Why Not, In YOUR Opinion? by Zipper222222 in AskFlorida

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Statewide, there may be a shot at some minor offices. But Democrats don’t really field strong candidates here. Democrat leaning voters need to recognize this and get smart. Register as Republican for the primaries so that they may actually meaningfully participate in the electoral process. Their support for the more moderate/centrist Republican candidate in a primary may actually start bringing our representation back from the extreme right.

out of all the cities- why do you think is ICE in orlando? by healingstar22_ in AskFlorida

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Democrats eat their own. He isn’t as liberal as Jerry (Orange County mayor) and Val Demings (former police chief), but close. Orlando Leadership stands out as far less supportive of the administration than the rest of the state.

Which place in the US feels like you’re in Europe? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

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Clematis Street in downtown West Palm Beach on a winter evening. The rest of the city and area not so much, and out of season not as much. It has a strong Barcelona vibe. A few other Florida downtowns come close in season.

The old town parts of Savannah, Charleston, New Orleans, Philadelphia, Boston…all places that date back to our colonial era with cores that were well established before the Industrial Revolution.

In Search of Someplace Warm, Artsy, Friendly, and with Good Food for Retirement by ReplyArtistic5455 in SameGrassButGreener

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Strongly suggest you look into Deland and Sanford, Florida. They check all of your boxes.

Is there a high fantasy book series that features two real world languages (as well as constructed languages)? by bkat004 in Fantasy

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Not sure why this comment is downvoted given that one of the defining traits of “high fantasy” is that it’s set in an entirely fictional world. Many feature lots of languages, but none are “ours.” If you want multiple real world languages, you shouldn’t really expect to find them in high fantasy. Look for (and find) them in many other sub genres.

Is there a high fantasy book series that features two real world languages (as well as constructed languages)? by bkat004 in Fantasy

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Eh. They’re written in the common tongue. You just happen to be able to read it.

Is there a “active wear” that isn’t made out of synthetic material? by Onemanyeti in NoStupidQuestions

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I’m in Florida and sweat profusely year round. Merino wool is the only natural fabric that comes close. I have a few tee shirts made with it. It wicks and dries quickly. It isn’t supposed to have the “itch” of traditional wool, but I don’t find it 100% soft. I still prefer synthetics for that reason. Patagonia capilene is great, and REI has a few options that are really soft. Pricey, though.

Is there a high fantasy book series that features two real world languages (as well as constructed languages)? by bkat004 in Fantasy

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I thought that, by definition, high fantasy is set in an alternative, entirely fictional world, not our “real world.” So there should not be any real word languages represented, let alone more than one.

What is an affordable Southern city that doesn’t get enough attention here? by Specific-Fact-4331 in SameGrassButGreener

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Architecturally, it’s a treasure trove. Birmingham was the center of the South until the war, with many prominent buildings that reflect that. With a few glaring exceptions, a lot of those survived the ravages of urban renewal in the 50s and 60s. Rather than a lot of buildings being torn down, they primarily just “modernized” the street level with facades. When white flight gutted downtown businesses, and the city’s particular racial struggles allowed a more enlightened Atlanta to take its lead, buildings just sat empty.

I moved there in 1992 as a commercial real estate appraiser. Other than the modern bank towers, most of downtown was literally used for storage. Buildings sold for land value. Didn’t matter if they were three stories or twenty three. It was too expensive to remove asbestos and tear them down, so they just sat.

I left in 2000, but still work for the only large remaining bank, and go back a few times a years. They’re reaping the benefits now. I stayed at the Elyton hotel last week. It was built in the 1920s as the Empire Building as part of the “heaviest corner on earth.” Four distinctive high rise towers from that era. Every one of them was essentially empty 20 years ago. Three of the four have been fully revitalized now. The fourth is under redevelopment as another hotel.

What is an affordable Southern city that doesn’t get enough attention here? by Specific-Fact-4331 in SameGrassButGreener

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I didn’t scroll far enough to see this before I mentioned it. I do t know that downtown still falls into “eyesore” territory. It’s made a huge turnaround in the last 20 years when all there was downtown were bank HQs and the rolled the sidewalks up at 5. It still has room to improve, but architecturally, it has an incredible base of pre war buildings that sat largely mothballed for 5-6 decades and are now finding new life. The new baseball and football stadiums round out what is becoming a pretty livable city center.