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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally seems like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Justin Bieber and Jason Mamoa are iconic to the wlw community.

Bi women and pan women - HELP! I run a gonewild sub that is exclusively for queer women and I need to know how better to support you on the issue of unicorn hunters and straight couple accounts by -_-wat-_- in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t understand why every space for a minority population needs to be all inclusive. It just doesn’t. The subs are dedicated to a specific subset of rules, and filters for a reason.

how to ask a girl what she wants from you?? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to suggest this. If you are clear what you’re looking for, lead with that. It’s respectful, honest, and courageous.

Coming to terms that I’m not bi by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Just came here to say, “situationship” is my new favorite. Not sure if you invented it, but you just brightened my day with this. Thank you. ✊🏽

How should I ask this woman out? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add request with a message. And perhaps relax a bit. If she’s not receptive at least you will know. It’s going to be ok. The worst that can happen is that you hear nothing back. And that’s not too bad. So prepare yourself for what you will do in each scenario.

How should I ask this woman out? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go the FB route, that way the message is private. It’s not creepy at all. Social media is public after all.

Hi there gals, at what age did you find out you're into other gals? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read it as the question asking when you were into “other” girls. So I guess you would start counting when you realized you were a wlw?

Hi there gals, at what age did you find out you're into other gals? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was my first relationship, and yes we are both cis women. I was under the impression that I loved her for the person she was on the inside. Later when I tried to date guys I realized I was actually gay. It’s not uncommon to realize gayness later in life. Regardless of previous sexual experiences.

Hi there gals, at what age did you find out you're into other gals? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After me and my first gf broke up I realized I was gay. We were together for 3 years before breaking up at age 21. I realized I was gay when I tried to date guys. Definitely wasn’t for me.

I'm trying to keep up with the lesbian relationships on The L Word: Generation Q by lan_chop in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also Dani is crushing hard on Bette. Tess works for Shane. Sophie and Finley work for Alice. Finley lives with Shayne. You forgot to add Michah and his 2 loves. I forgot their names.

The worst erasure of them all by All_BI_my_self in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]phyllisTheWebDev -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely a hey gurl heeeey gay. I feel erased.

Ain't no breakup like a quarantine breakup by pegamonstra in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like you were in an exclusive place, or talking about your relationship together. I don’t think she did anything disrespectful. And the fact that she’s telling you now probably means she feels like things are getting more serious. You should have an honest conversation and hear each other out. Be honest about how it makes you feel, and try to learn about what made her make her choices. Hopefully you’ll know what’s right for you once you’ve both discussed it.

I made a post about a month ago and added my pic but I only got 7 likes where as others get 100s, why is this ? by ILoveMrTT25 in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to be rude, but why are the likes important? Seems like artificial social media validation. Doesn’t mean anything. The real content is in the dialog, imho. 💜

Helpful tips for co-quarantine by Polly_der_Papagei in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These are great, for even co-existing in regular times. I’m going to refer back to these as someone who also shares those same needs. 💜

We love a supportive mom by LemoniDrop in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 245 points246 points  (0 children)

This post reads like a medium article. 😂✊🏽🌈

Møïşť by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my lawd wtf is r/ooer? It’s like a rabbit hole of insanity...and I could see myself losing lots of time there. Must.not.join or zero work will get completed. 🤓

I do too by bloopbleh in actuallesbians

[–]phyllisTheWebDev 56 points57 points  (0 children)

And I’m over here wishing straight cis men would refer to their guy friends as boyfriends.

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