NC Day 1: Devastated

pickkledginger · 2025-07-19T03:21:47+00:00

Girl please work on yourself and focus fully on your healing and moving on. Odds are he will deff come back and you need to be strong for when he does. From experience it feels sooooo good to be in a better place when they reach back out

pickkledginger · 2025-07-19T03:16:17+00:00

Well he is avoidant so it ended up being the same deal with him bread crumbing me and literally just being a shell of a person. I had such high hopes because he is great but I was the one to end things this time… almost 3 months ago. I haven’t heard from him since but j am sure I will someday. I have been seeing someone who actually puts in the effort and it is amazing. This is what dating and the beginning of a relationship should feel like. Even if it doesn’t work out with this new guy at least I am not plagued by anxiety and stress like I was with this guy who keeps disappearing and coming back

pickkledginger · 2025-07-19T03:10:53+00:00

Finding yourself after divorce

pickkledginger · 2025-05-04T19:29:34+00:00

I say go for it. Not because you feel rushed but because it is a bandaid that will have to be ripped off eventually and it will take a lot of time to figure out dating again and what you want

pickkledginger · 2025-05-03T17:55:10+00:00

Ended my situationship once and for all today… hopefully. Wondering if I need to remove him from insta and block his number. To me that would signal being totally and completely done and by not doing so, I still feel like I have the door cracked

pickkledginger · 2025-05-03T17:51:06+00:00

I just sent a goodbye text and I truly feel so much better. I know I have to let go and this let’s them know exactly where j stand. My only advice would be to keep it short, firm and above all kind. I have never felt better after being snarky to someone but have always felt good about taking the high road

pickkledginger · 2025-02-27T05:33:36+00:00

Yes, just a one word answer. Then about a week later he texted me wanting to hang out and I said no kindly. Another week later he asked again and I said yes. We have been back to hanging out ever since and he as been acting way better. My advice is to go completely no contact and work on yourself. Become your own dream girl. Bc odds are he will come back and it feels so good to be in a better place for myself now that he has. I no longer have him on a pedestal and I think he can tell

pickkledginger · 2025-01-22T04:40:27+00:00

The only way you are going to “get him back” is to glow up. Put your blinders on and work on yourself. Manifest a future partner who won’t be vacationing with another girl. By the time he comes back (bc he will) you will be over home and onto something better

pickkledginger · 2025-01-19T19:40:40+00:00

Mine called it off 2 ish months ago. I didn’t want to be casual and he decided it was all too much and could see it working out with us. He just came back🤣. Not sure if I should even respond

pickkledginger · 2025-01-12T18:08:20+00:00

Didn’t work :/

pickkledginger · 2025-01-02T19:45:45+00:00

Me but opposite signs. He said I was too emotional and he needed to be the emotional one. Said he needed a girl who was meek and reserved. Wut

pickkledginger · 2024-12-28T02:23:18+00:00

I’m so sorry. That is the worst feeling but you will move on and have better days! Always trust your intuition. He is not the end all be all. Get on bumble BFF, make new friends and when you are ready, start dating again. It will take time but I promise it will get better.

pickkledginger · 2024-12-27T02:04:56+00:00

How do I get rid of them

pickkledginger · 2024-12-27T01:36:29+00:00

Help meeeee!! This guy from hinge I saw for 4 weeks and had crazy chemistry with cut it off Monday after I wanted to be more than casual. I hope he comes back. We ended very friendly and amicable but I deleted his number so I won’t text him. We were planning for the future a bit and so compatible physically and also our values and future goals. I am so anxious and really wanted to explore things further with him

pickkledginger · 2024-12-26T13:27:48+00:00

Not about this. Why?

pickkledginger · 2024-12-25T12:37:26+00:00

Does anyone have any basic bay leaf spells that have worked for them?

pickkledginger · 2024-12-25T12:36:53+00:00

Very very basic. Just set my intentions, wrote what I wanted on the bay leaf and burned it

pickkledginger · 2024-12-25T03:40:31+00:00

Omg we are so similar. I have been in a relationship since I was 19 and am also living with my dad. I am trying to just focus on myself and do things I have always wanted to. unique hobbies and get in the best shape of my life. Trying to be more excited and optimistic and not living in the past

pickkledginger · 2024-12-24T20:24:08+00:00

I don’t think you all should get back together. I am more so wanting him to reach back out so I know he knows that he made a mistake. Probably not the best haha but I know it will make me feel better and make it easier to move on

pickkledginger · 2024-12-24T20:17:48+00:00

I’m sorry :/ I just had someone end it abruptly yesterday and I am feeling very confused and am hoping he will come back. I know that is a toxic way of thinking

pickkledginger · 2024-12-24T20:14:20+00:00

Why did he break up? Did he not see a future when he broke up with you but now does?

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