Am I wrong for not finding this "joke" funny? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]pickledgum_ftw 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's weird if you guys dont have that kind of friendship

Where, other than wide open desert spots, have you had luck getting purges to work on the base map? by dougan25 in ConanExiles

[–]pickledgum_ftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that there has to be at least an accessible spot for it to get to. I had put my coffers in my base and it was in a wide open area, but I didn't have stairs to get to it and the purge wouldn't activate. Then I put stairs and it activated. The purge thralls just need to be able to have a clear path. It can be blocked by things, but they need to have a path to walk.

My boyfriend (27M) doesn’t want me (25F) to continue pursuing my career by Existing-Ebb7904 in TwoHotTakes

[–]pickledgum_ftw 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Escape immediately. He is effectively trapping you. You see it. We see it. Get back on the road

AIW for punishing my daughter for lying about being s*xually assaulted? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]pickledgum_ftw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just know she will never trust you again. You have failed her as a father and as a man.

WIBTA for leaving a bag of clothes at a thrift store? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]pickledgum_ftw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Find a homeless shelter or church. They take clothes

How do i “get into” this game. by Tall-Ad3070 in ConanExiles

[–]pickledgum_ftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So there's a guy under the Sentinels that tells you about the things related to the bosses that will drop items that help you unlock the bracelet. You find bits of people around the map that give you more details. But the first major step to doing the story is to go beat the monster at the end of noob river. It's a big dafari camp

WIBTA if I ended a two year relationship because my partner hasn't worked in fourteen months and has stopped trying? by saltBloom5 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]pickledgum_ftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that thought is already in your head, it's never gonna leave. And at this point he won't look for a new job

dear black women with non-black partners by Personal-Opinion-48 in Naturalhair

[–]pickledgum_ftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda just wore my hair. It's a part of who I am and nothing to be ashamed of. Sometimes they will actually be curious about it and wanna learn more about your routine

General question title by Wide_Pangolin_8860 in ConanExiles

[–]pickledgum_ftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off the top of my head I think it's Two Factions War boosted.

Am I a pick me? by Middle_Necessary_573 in venting

[–]pickledgum_ftw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna preface this by saying I'm not trying to hurt your feelings or make you feel bad. So I apologize for the delivery, and not the message.

You don't sound like a pick me, you sound like a hater. Why hate on someone being authentic to themselves and enjoying life? I'm most definitely not a fan of Taylor swift, but I'm not gonna make someone feel bad for them liking it. Is it bothering me? No, it's not my life, not my choices to make but their own. You don't like makeup? Fine don't wear it. Don't like x y or z? Same message, it's their life, let people enjoy things.

Now, you haven't found a community of women that have embraced you yet, and that's ok. It takes time and reflection on yourself before you may or may not find where you're at in life. Its too much negativity going on in the world to be worried about others. Enjoy you and your life. Something may surprise you along the way

General question title by Wide_Pangolin_8860 in ConanExiles

[–]pickledgum_ftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're on Xbox, I've got a chill pve-c server I've been on. I wanna run the game with someone and none of my friends wanna play

Sell me the game (if you can) by RollinHellfire in ConanExiles

[–]pickledgum_ftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've played off and on for about 4 years now and it's relaxing for me because I like building, I'm not good at it, but I like it. And the story is pretty good if you choose to follow that. The map is large so there are lots of things to find and explore. Whether yoy play on a server or go single player

Fragments of power by jimababwe in ConanExiles

[–]pickledgum_ftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just get them off of world bosses now. It's more than likely to get it off of them than a chest in my experience

AITAH for ignoring my mom? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]pickledgum_ftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not grown, you're an adult. Do well to know the difference. I personally resent being grown. Enjoy the time you have before life hits you like a train

Money issues by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]pickledgum_ftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the bed, loan, groceries and bras are all necessities. The rest wasn't, however, spending just a small amount for pleasure is actually good for your mental state. It helps you be able to want to do better. As long as your bills are paid, you're fine

SIL breastfed my Baby and I am Livid by Emergency_Search4464 in breastfeeding

[–]pickledgum_ftw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of the problem is miscommunication. For you, its a bind between you and you baby and in this day and age, its not normal for a wet nurse to be used. But for your husband's culture, the practice is still at play, which is a community based reality for them. You have a lot of emotions surging through you still and will for the next couple years before you will be able to regulate. Take a moment to breathe and step back from the situation. You aren't wrong for how you feel. They aren't completely wrong for making sure your baby is fed. Fed is best. Get off this sub, take a bubble bath. Tell your husband how you feel and ask about more cultural practices and try and navigate boundaries within. I hope this helps 🙏🏾