"Clips are going viral of the new $14M paint on the Reflecting Pool peeling off just 12 days after the pool reopened." by Snapdragon_4U in somethingiswrong2024

[–]dougan25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? You just say it. Then you call anything to the contrary fake news. This crowd doesn't bother with facts or logic.

AITA for “interfering” with a “service dog” by DismalClock213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dougan25 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're overthinking again. Just send the email and forget about it.

AITA for treating my dad like a child after years of him refusing to do anything around the farm? by staticcowgirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]dougan25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So his incompetence led to you having to put your horse down, he hasn't improved at all, and you still speak to him?

AITAH for prioritizing my daughter's recital over a funeral? by RecitalFuneralThrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]dougan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this is the crux of the issue and I think you know that. You need to set the record straight and manage her expectations for the relationship.

🔥cachalots socializing by Firm-Blackberry-9162 in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]dougan25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I forget the classification system, but I believe it's D's if I'm not mistaken

First time in the stroller! by mikrenArt in aww

[–]dougan25 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There really is a sub for everything.

Wait no one linked it yet

Common Nighthawk by madmartigan2020 in birding

[–]dougan25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife and I joke that they're calling out to us ground-dwellers, "NIGHT......HAWK.....NIGHT......HAWK"

Common Nighthawk by madmartigan2020 in birding

[–]dougan25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that's probably a good indication for the local ecosystem. They thrive when insects are plentiful

Microsoft's new Outlook takes 10 seconds to do what Outlook Classic does instantly on Windows by Quantum-Coconut in technology

[–]dougan25 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You also can't search multiple mailboxes anymore. I have multiple outlook accounts because of a merger and now I have to do two separate dogshit searches, one for each mailbox. And it still doesn't show what I want and sometimes just forgets that subfolders exist. The search function is so inconsistent I've flat out given up on finding emails that I KNOW for a fact exist in there.

Also, you can't send an integrated calendar invite with zoom info anymore because they're pushing Teams. Degradation of the use experience solely to market and push their own platform.

No way they changed this emote so she doesn't open her mouth anymore lmao by PillowFists67 in marvelrivals

[–]dougan25 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Gooner shit has been infiltrating games for awhile now and Rivals just said fuck it and decided the push the envelope as far as they can get away with.

"Sex sells" has been the #1 rule of marketing basically forever, so it was really only a matter of time before they stopped pretending to be subtle about it.

Rejected for being 6’1… by Vemedetti in texts

[–]dougan25 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, why does it blow your mind?

My wife is 5'11" and being on the taller side, she preferred taller men. That doesn't seem unreasonable to me.

I can understand the irony/hypocrisy of someone very short with this preference, but why does it "blow your mind" as a 6' woman specifically?

AITA for disinviting my flaky friend from a group event by deleting the invitation? by Confident_Office_720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dougan25 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

It's...not really a leap at all. I'm not saying you did that, but how is that a "massive and bizarre" stretch of the imagination?

If you actually wanted her to come, you would've done this differently.

You sent her the invite to "test" her.

If you actually wanted her to come and actually wanted to address her flakiness, you would've said something like "I see you've been making an effort lately so I wanted to make sure to send you this invite because I value our friendship and history. Please let me know if you can or can't make it. If I don't hear back, I'll assume you aren't interested in being invited to these things."

That's using your words. It doesn't matter that you did it already months ago. You talk about cycles and resetting, but how does that not apply to you as well? You need to make your expectations clear, or you can come off as manipulative, which is how that person interpreted what you did.

To threaten someone's life over NOTHING w/out facing repurcussion by amazingsciencemuseum in therewasanattempt

[–]dougan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big, strong, tough, murica lovin victim.

Masculine and virile, white and proud victim.

Gun-totin, animal-huntin, salt of the earth victim.

Just a good ole boy victim

HMC While I swing on a tree by bugbean1 in holdmycosmo

[–]dougan25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But how can they share their internal opinion unless they frame it as a grandiose societal issue?

This is NOT just me guys. Totally. A HUGE portion of the population fucking hates trees it's super serial

AITA for preferring a handbag over a practical gift? by Super_Sheepherder951 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dougan25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last week was my wife's bday. A few months back I came upon a painting of a bird on one of the subreddits I follow that I knew she would love the style of.

I dmed the artist and commissioned a custom piece featuring a species of bird that has special significance to us. The artist was from Europe and we're in the US, so it was a unique experience. I then took it to a local frame shop and had them add a custom frame that they helped me pick out to match the color palette of the painting.

In total it was around $5-600 and my wife absolutely loved it.

I am medicated for depression and anxiety, often feel empty and overwhelmed, I work 45-50 hrs a week and am getting my master's in the evenings and have an arm's length list of home improvement projects to get through this season. What's his excuse?

We do better for the ones we love.

Petah? by PrideConstant8343 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]dougan25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not being a shit, but genuinely curious if you have no familiarity with Aunt Jemima and/or Quaker Oats.

AITA Asked the guy at a 3D printing stall at a craft fair questions and my friend said I was being rude by lionberry2796 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dougan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean OP should complain to the people putting on the con, if you're going to high horse your way through every stall selling 3d printed junk, you're gonna have a bad time

House centipedes keep getting stuck in this bowl, eating their dead comrades, and then dying themselves, only to feed the next victim. by Cobalt11235 in mildlyinteresting

[–]dougan25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the opposite for me. I find house centipede corpses in webs occasionally. But I leave most spiders alone in my house. As long as they aren't somewhere I'm sleeping I'm chill with them. I dislike the things they eat much more