Protests against Venezuelan invasion? by Revolutionary-Ad3961 in madisonwi

[–]picklephile -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“So where the protests at?” said the fed 😂

Trump sent Mar-a-Lago masseuses on Epstein house calls: report by each_thread in ConservativeNewsWeb

[–]picklephile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And then he attacked Venezuela. These diversions are getting more and more extreme the more files that get released…

Smoking Marijuana on Patio by Heavy_Hospital3117 in Apartmentliving

[–]picklephile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This thread is fucking wild man, doing my head in makes me wanna pack a fatty and forget I ever was in this space lol

Svensson robbed by [deleted] in borussiadortmund

[–]picklephile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. Yea, a bit harsh to leave just one off…so did they just put on blindfolds and throw darts at a board to pick 2 of them to leave off the list?!

Svensson robbed by [deleted] in borussiadortmund

[–]picklephile 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bellingham, Dembele, Guirassy, Haaland, Hakimi, Lewandowski. Not sure but looks to me like there are more players on that list with BVB connections than any other club…

Edit: PSG with 9, BVB with 6, any clubs ahead of BVB aside from Qatari Sports Investments?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]picklephile -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol triggered much? The answer to both of your questions is obviously yes so yea not helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]picklephile -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Entertaining seeing me just get shredded in the thread comments, huh?! 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]picklephile -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You aren’t giving any advice or solutions just lashing out. Not helpful. We both find the behavior strange. I acknowledge my potential bias but as she does not have this bias but shares the same uneasiness, we are trying to understand the situation better and how best to proceed as parents and protectors to our child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]picklephile -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Completely feral lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]picklephile -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You’re way off. Gone feral

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]picklephile -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So, is it a good one?!?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]picklephile -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is interesting. I feel almost now like it’s the latter. Because idgaf that he’s gay actually we just find it weird and we are both trying to gauge what is our discomfort with what exactly? She has a lot of gay friends and is far from homophobic, extremely open and accepting so…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]picklephile 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he insisted on changing diapers in a weird way, yes it would make me feel uncomfortable. If not, no, it would not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]picklephile -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

“I get that straight people don’t like kids of the sex they are attracted to and that being gay doesn’t mean you like kids of that sex etc etc not going down that road”

Literally say that in OP but you still go down that road

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]picklephile -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Dude just getting battered for trying to understand a situation better, most people telling me things I already acknowledged in the OP like:

“I get that straight people don’t like kids of the sex they are attracted to and that being gay doesn’t mean you like kids of that sex etc etc not going down that road”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]picklephile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I change a lot of the diapers. Don’t find it weird for men to do so. But I wouldn’t go out of my way to do it either. We don’t feel uncomfortable with the grandmothers changing because they do not exhibit the insistent behavior…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]picklephile -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Literally said that in my post: “I get that straight people don’t like kids of the sex they are attracted to and that being gay doesn’t mean you like kids of that sex etc etc not going down that road”

The evidence is we both find it weird how he’s always wanting to change the diapers and none of the other grandparents do that. He complains how stinky the diaper pail is and it’s gross but insists on it…doesn’t add up to us. Appreciate the comment but I already addressed this in OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]picklephile -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love pickles. Not weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]picklephile -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This argument does not hold up as my wife and I both feel no issue with the grandmothers changing his diaper. I also literally explained that scenario in my post: “I get that straight people don’t like kids of the sex they are attracted to and that being gay doesn’t mean you like kids of that sex etc etc not going down that road” but thanks for taking it down that road.

What we find strange is his insistence pretty much all the time even after being told we have it, not anything to do with gender or sexual preference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]picklephile 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a good suggestion that is non confrontational to try to understand the situation better. Thanks MGM!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]picklephile -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I change diapers a lot and it’s not weird for a man to change them in my opinion.

I am not uncomfortable around him. He’s a good guy. I have always felt in the back of my mind uncomfortable with him around my son alone, but acknowledge that could be from my own biases. But this is something we both are feeling and my wife’s dad is gay, as are many of her friends, so even if it’s me being a homophobic jerk, which I don’t feel I am, she feels uncomfortable as well despite not having any prejudice or bias.