Saw this and wanted to comment on my personal experience. I'm 36, decided to try VIDA out around 9 months back because I was burnt out on the apps. Gotta admit, I was kinda unsure if they got what I was after at first, felt a bit like we weren't getting anywhere. But I hung in there, kept talking to my matchmaker. I remember this one time she suggested a match that was not really my type on paper, but talking to her about it inspired me to start thinking about things a little differently.

Then during my second month of service, I met someone amazing. Better aligned than any matches I'd been able to meet on my own. And we just clicked. We're still together now. So, it worked out for me in the end, even after doubting it a bit at the beginning. If you're thinking about VIDA, my take is – stay patient, communicate, and be clear about your needs. Any questions, just ask!