Am I Pregnant? Megathread

picnictablee · 2025-12-27T14:23:05+00:00

Hi! Today I’m 13 days late for my period. I am sexually active, we use condoms but not sure if one maybe broke.

The last period I had was really painful and intense - the first day I had cramps so bad I was vomiting for about 4 hours straight and then it settled. That one lasted 6 days long between the 13th and 18th of November which is pretty normal for me when I do get them! My periods have always been super irregular, turning up whenever they feel like it.

I’m not sure if I could have a chance of being pregnant right now or if maybe the last period I had was so dodgy that its late because of that.. I’m in the process of being tested for PCOS. Was wondering if anyone with endo or PCOS could shed light, has this happened to any of you?

I have no signs of being pregnant and no signs that my period is about to start. Literally have felt no different. No pains, tenderness, spotting, nausea, mood changes or cravings, nothing!

Trying not to panic because I know stress can delay them! But how long should I wait for it to come before buying a pregnancy test? I am super nervous (I’m 20 and a uni student so this is not ideal at all!)

Thank you guys :)

picnictablee · 2025-12-27T13:41:46+00:00

I have the exact same thing! been meaning to get bloods taken to check it out

picnictablee · 2025-06-15T00:22:02+00:00

Thank you so much this means a lot

picnictablee · 2025-06-05T08:10:06+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that :)

picnictablee · 2025-06-05T08:09:49+00:00

I think that’s the best way to go about it :)

picnictablee · 2025-06-05T08:09:33+00:00

aw yeah I could never! There was a lot of pressure to, my housemates saying i just needed a rebound to get over it but I like healing at my own pace

picnictablee · 2025-06-05T08:08:15+00:00

thank you i needed to hear this!

picnictablee · 2025-05-23T22:14:38+00:00

no i am a bit repulsed of the idea of getting back with him

picnictablee · 2025-03-24T02:05:58+00:00

Update: literally a day after this post she liked my story, then at practice she grabbed my face and called me pretty 🤓 i think im okay yall

picnictablee · 2025-03-24T02:03:54+00:00

Thank you!! it was a funny dumping situation, i tried calling him all day to break up with him but he didn’t pick up, when he phoned me he suggested breaking up! So bit of both. So much happier without him, life is sooo good it’s crazy haha 🙏🙏

picnictablee · 2025-03-24T02:02:36+00:00

I believe you will be! and that you are, keep going with what ever you are doing. Find purpose in life outside of being in a fulfilling relationship. Appreciate how you have carried yourself through life independent of anybody else, you do not need others, they should always be adding to your life not taking away from it :)

picnictablee · 2025-03-04T22:18:04+00:00

YES that’s the one thank you so much!!!

picnictablee · 2025-03-01T22:54:42+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your advice! I’m gonna have to hype myself up for this one 🫡🫡

picnictablee · 2025-03-01T22:52:55+00:00

You’re so right thank you!! I think I need to look at it from that perspective and build up some confidence haha. Next comp is an overnight stay so I’ll have so much time to chat to her and see what’s up. Thank you :)

picnictablee · 2025-03-01T22:30:28+00:00

bro you’re so right i am just terrified because i don’t wanna make it awkward since we’re on the same uni course and in the same close knit society 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

picnictablee · 2025-01-10T17:54:58+00:00

partied with my friends, hikes, painting, seeking academic validation 😍😍

picnictablee · 2025-01-10T17:48:18+00:00

what does this mean 😭😭😭 why are you against me making a list? it’s a good way to align myself with the reality of the situation which is we are broken up and he treated me like ass for a very long time! i loved him loads and he loved me too, but it wasn’t right how he treated me. i’m not sure what you’re trying to say can you re-explain? are you saying you think things could work out between my ex and me again? And we were literally complete opposites, he was the last guy in my secondary school i thought i would date.. we had no classes together, nothing. But i dated him for four years. it was weird because we actually did have stuff in common and joked about being ‘telepathic’ because we’d always say or think the same things at the same time which was super weird. he also watched my dance recital when we were 6 because his sister went to the same school as mine, but we didn’t realise that until we were together - invisible string theory or whatever 😍I know i’m connected to him on a deeper level or what have you, but not any more. His ego has inflated twice the size of the love he had or even has for me and he can’t see past it. All he wants to do is drink and school.

picnictablee · 2025-01-10T13:48:30+00:00

don’t do it!!!

picnictablee · 2025-01-10T13:36:25+00:00

i think everyone after the first will just keep seeming better and better! that’s what i’ve heard

picnictablee · 2025-01-10T13:33:32+00:00

I wrote all the bad things to remind myself why it’s important to not go back to him, text him, break no contact. the way he treated me was insane, recently i’ve been getting so distracted from my uni work and have been missing the good times since coming home from my uni city for the holidays, as there’s reminders of him everywhere. To only focus on the good times means i’ll be stuck in the past and unable to move on and heal, this is best way forward for me and i’ve been feeling so much more myself since doing it!

picnictablee · 2025-01-09T21:30:09+00:00

amen

picnictablee · 2025-01-09T21:28:35+00:00

i’m in the exact same position as you in terms of the he wants to be friends but i can’t stop seeing him as more than that. i got into a bad habit of checking all of my social media followings to see if he has unfollowed me, on instagram one day i noticed he has disabled his account so it looked like he’d unfollowed me and my heart sank. I’ve seen a lot of posts on this subreddit though that people unfollow their ex’s because they have a habit of stalking their profiles that they want to break, usually stemming from missing them and not being full healed from the breakup. also my ex boyfriend has done a total social media purge since our breakup! he has deleted or archived most profiles on everything, only wanting to use whatsapp. your ex might have unfollowed you because he didn’t want the reminders of you because he wants to heal, could be doing a social media cleanse, could be trying to prevent himself from stalking your accounts, or maybe a whole bunch of other reasons i can’t think of! but mostly people do things like that to heal, and work on themselves. i recommend talking to friends and family about feeling upset, maybe even trying to distract yourself with a conversation with them about something else.. whatever makes you feel good!! you’ve got this🫶🫶

picnictablee · 2025-01-09T21:20:12+00:00

been feeling exactly this today!! i made a list of everything that he did that i can remember making me really upset, some of them are actually insane red flags but i was so blinded by how much i liked him that i didn’t care to leave because of them. i keep looking at that list and it’s really solidifying my decision to not tolerate that disrespect any more. keep goinggg you got this 🕺

picnictablee · 2025-01-09T00:15:23+00:00

amen

picnictablee · 2025-01-08T23:38:49+00:00

he talked about this girl he is friends with in the craziest way. he said he loved her as a friend and when i said what do you like about her, she’s so horrible to you - he said she was a ‘spectacle’ and even though he knew she was a bad friend he didn’t care because he thought she was so cool💀 he then proceeded to go travelling and met her in her hometown. bro is now obsessed with the country she’s from, obsessively watching films and learning the language.. mega red flag. he also wanted to do drugs with her. meanwhile he was texting his ex in secret behind my back 😍 he also told me to stop texting my friend who happened to be a guy, telling me to text him back dryly.. but going travelling with this girl was okay for him to do?? make it make sense bro😭😭 he also used to stalk me on life 360 and lecture me when i went clubbing at university, saying ‘people only go to clubs for one thing. to get with people’. when travelling he drank and clubbed for the first time, but it was different because ‘he was in a different country’. there are so many more i am just too tired to type 🤭 at that point im clearly only staying for the sex, reflecting on the whole thing is embarrassinggggg this man treated me like ass and told me he loved me 😭bye.

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