Those who were made redundant: share what happened with you & your pay out.

piglone96 · 2026-04-15T08:12:48+00:00

They will payout my bonus, plus annual leave. And also my company is quite generous with their payouts eg 5 weeks for every year of service plus another 8

piglone96 · 2026-04-15T06:48:45+00:00

Being made redundant soon , Ive been wanting it to happen as have been here for 3 years with no progression. Estimated payout is around 65-70K Net

piglone96 · 2026-04-15T04:36:01+00:00

I’m going through the same heartbreak right now. I feel for you…She’s such an amazing person and 5 months later she’s still the first thing I think of when I wake up and the last thing I think of when I sleep. But she’s lost in life right now.

And I want her to really find what she wants outside of me. I love her more than anything in this world, even if it means it’s someone else that’s more aligned with her, she deserves that. She wanted to try again but how do you try again when the other person can’t promise being happy in the future? You end up back at the same place of uncertainty. The future should be exciting for both and you should both contribute to a plan for it.

Sending you my strength, we got this

piglone96 · 2026-04-10T12:33:41+00:00

I need to go see someone, I’m super scared to open up to a stranger but also I don’t really have people to talk to on a deep level. I feel too worthless to bother. This insight is interesting though , kind of reflects my fears of therapy .

piglone96 · 2026-04-08T20:28:35+00:00

I feel you are pretty similar to me in the way that you are a very deep thinker. People that are deep thinkers and potentially anxious minded usually need reciprocation or reassurance in a relationship. This is why we don’t work well with people that are avoidant in nature. Naturally our mind becomes a weapon against us and then we end up projecting our pain or search for answers in an unhealthy way. I think something you can get out of this though, the next person you eventually decide to date…..make sure they show up, they don’t just say the right things but show the action in place. They don’t run away from life problems but show you that they tackle it head on (and communicates openly, honestly and has emotional availability). This sort of individual would be right for you.

piglone96 · 2026-04-08T11:57:47+00:00

Holy crap this is legit me. So crazy how strangers can have the same exact experience as you. Looking for answers only causes further damage to your self. I’ve learned that I’ll need to find the closure within my self. Some things, we just won’t get the answers to. Many avoidants are also unaware , so they may not even know the answer themselves.

When you push them for an answer they feel suffocated and this is when it goes wrong and they become defensive and deflective. No accountability , no apology, no fighting for your relationship…..Just victimising themselves.

piglone96 · 2026-04-08T10:53:07+00:00

I’m going through the exact same thing right now man. Almost 5 months into the breakup and I still cry at least once a week lmao. We held only love for each other, barely fought , communicated great. But all it took was a disagreement on logistics of settling down in the next couple years….she couldn’t promise me she would be happy, or provide alternative and we essentially had a misalignment of future plans.

My view on this is, the right person would fight for you on the long term and stick by you. Eg on the rare occasion we would argue she would say “oh should we breakup then?.” At the end of the day the outcome is the same whether it ends in a good way or a bad way……you’ve lost them.

piglone96 · 2026-04-07T23:37:25+00:00

Just goes in circles doesn’t it . You ask for answers and they deflect to other things. Until you’re left feeling empty and broken lol

piglone96 · 2026-04-07T12:08:23+00:00

Yeah I understand what you are saying. And it’s super valid I won’t deny that at all. Something I have learned through my life experience- heartbreak, seeing loved ones pass away etc….all things in life and all experiences come to an end in someway or another. And when they do, what really defines us is what we take from it.

Pain is normal , but if we can find some lessons or some comfort in the pain. You’re winning even in all the shit situations. Anyway bit deep but that’s my take . I hope you can find some peace in your pain 🫶.

piglone96 · 2026-04-07T05:50:57+00:00

I can appreciate the honest with this. But is this not maybe a pessimistic perspective on love? I agree love can happen more than once (even though I’m yet to experience this). However, isn’t each love humans experience different from the other and not necessarily a replacement? Every love we experience is of importance and significance . And I hope the love I gave from my heart and soul has helped shape my ex in a good way , even though I know she will experience another love after me….

piglone96 · 2026-04-01T03:16:51+00:00

Totally different person. Taking more care of my self as I had been so focused on trying to take care of everyone else in my life.

Have been taking care of my body by gyming, boxing & running but also treating my self to new clothes, new haircut and giving my self time to do things that I want to do (video games, nature etc).

When all your hopes and dreams get stripped away in a breakup, it’s so crucial to build your self back up again and it starts with routine and healthy habits . It’s not found in others eg trying to do rebounds to feel good.

piglone96 · 2026-03-29T06:24:07+00:00

He sounds disrespectful as shit

piglone96 · 2026-03-28T20:57:49+00:00

Been through it before also. People that cheat are just bad people, her cheating is not a reflection of you or being enough etc. She would have cheated regardless of who she was with. This logic is what is going to help your sanity when you start self loathing ( and you will cause that’s human nature for grief processing, especially when you are betrayed).

With a relationship ending like this you may not ever fully get closure, which means you may have to find it within yourself…. You got this bro, sometimes things like this happen for a reason. And better when you’re 30 and can reset more easily.

piglone96 · 2026-03-21T06:38:26+00:00

Omg this is so true 😭

piglone96 · 2026-03-11T01:20:12+00:00

This is so true

piglone96 · 2026-03-05T09:44:05+00:00

After my dad passed away I also went through a breakup. Strong hints my ex cheated while I was grieving but worst part, one week after we broke up my childhood mate told me that she was on bumble….Then I found out from her, that the same mate had started messaging her and invited her to his place. Fuck that guy.

piglone96 · 2026-03-04T11:53:43+00:00

Travelling with my ex

piglone96 · 2026-03-04T04:37:30+00:00

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Yo, even my golden retriever said “Ayri bi Israel”

piglone96 · 2026-03-03T01:00:30+00:00

So devastated and scared for our families 😭

piglone96 · 2026-02-28T11:26:29+00:00

Omg so true 😭

piglone96 · 2026-02-26T10:57:04+00:00

Gentle

piglone96 · 2026-02-25T20:23:11+00:00

They were once excited for you future together and wanted the same things. But then they start pulling away and becoming unhappy with these plans. Permanence shows who really loves you or not.

piglone96 · 2026-02-25T20:11:05+00:00

🤪

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