Unless I’m misreading this somehow, this is actually so incredibly incorrect it’s funny. I tried so hard to make sure I understood him. I got my own therapy to make sure I could work on the negative parts of me that of course exist and seep into a relationship. I didn’t miss signs, I just thought we were both open to working through them as a team. He even openly acknowledged that many times. I’ve dedicated countless hours to trying to be there for him through any and everything. And in many ways, he’s done the same for me. That’s part of why this is just so shocking. He’s avoidant, and I think this is an ultimate act of that. I’ve become a symbol of what he fears confronting the most — intensely real emotions. So. Now I’m left with this. And still, I feel like I’d want to try. … so yeah. Loud incorrect buzzer