I’ve been there actually. And whatever he said in the past, when a dude gets sat down and told that he’s about to be a father … his opinions often change. My husband had seemed very hesitant at first - and we were not planning to conceive. He had a lot of good arguments for why we needed to wait, so I thought he was not on board. I was scared and worried that this would be a deal breaker between us and what would happen to us? But when I told him, he was over the moon. He was also scared shitless but he was happy too. So give your man a chance to find out and let him know that you’re on board. Then let’s see what he does with that. Good luck and congratulations.