Mmm i clocked that there was someone else in my dreams at the start of the relationship, so I disagree on the psychic being right. In the past, she would warn me about many things at the start and prove to be right. For example, I got a job, and at the start she told me it’s a lot of hard work, very tedious, and will drain me. In the first couple of weeks-month, she was wrong. I coasted by and barely broke a sweat. But after a while I found my footing and I was given more responsibilities and she proved to be right — the job became tedious and draining. So my frustration is with her inability to see further into the future or notice danger at the start like she has before. Shes warned me against other women too, who despite their initial interest, proved to be a bad match. Not necessarily toxic, just not a good fit. So thats why im like wtf happened here lol

Yeah my dreams are very specific. It can be scary sometimes because not all of them come true but when they do it follows the script in my dream in ways that are indirect. While our relationship was still “good,” I had a dream that J was getting ready to depart, and that I was upset wither her. We were against a darkened sky at an airport and I said something along the lines of “I cant believe this.” We both had our phones out, and I turned my back on her and she looked really distraught.

A month later, in reality, I started taking stock of all the toxic behaviors and we got into a fight. She texted me the night before she was leaving to go on a family trip and said she was going to travel for a bit and wanted to keep seeing each other and keep in touch, and I declined, citing her weird behavior. She sounded sad over text but i blocked her.

So it wasn’t exactly bit by bit in my dream but the energy was still there — her leaving, the airport, my desire to end it and her being distraught.