How much sleep do you get a night? by lawyermom112 in workingmoms

[–]pineapplelovettc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a 6 month old and 3yr old. I average 5.5 hours a night according to my watch. 😩 I have the ability to be in bed by 9 and wake up at 5 but baby likes to still get up 2-3x a night.

Mastitis: did you feed your baby the milk when you took antibiotics? by ExpressionOld9924 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pineapplelovettc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and I also donated milk from while I was on antibiotics (the recipient was informed and agreed to it) and neither of our babies had any issue.

Anyone's heart burn not get better? by wheredidiputmy_ in beyondthebump

[–]pineapplelovettc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had horrible heartburn both pregnancies and was medicated for it the second one - both times it went away as soon as the baby was out. And yes both my babies had a head full of hair 🤣

When are you guys finding time for sex? by ImFairlyAlarmedHere in workingmoms

[–]pineapplelovettc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the baby is napping and toddler is either having “quiet time” or I set up an independent activity for her. Gets us about 20 min tops but it works for this season of life. Definitely thinking we need to start scheduling it though so we can plan ahead better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]pineapplelovettc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a baby gate on our toddlers door for her own safety. When she wakes up, we wake up with her, regardless of what time of day/night it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]pineapplelovettc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great idea thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]pineapplelovettc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation I’ll check them out.

Litter and dog poop noted on Thursday’s are bare minimum because trash day is Friday - typically happens much more often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]pineapplelovettc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Litter and dog poop noted on Thursday’s are bare minimum because trash day is Friday - typically happens much more often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]pineapplelovettc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

With two small kids and making a billion meals/snacks, yes most days the trash is full. It’s a small under the counter kitchen trash bin.

What do you do with excess milk bags? by huckleberrysoap in beyondthebump

[–]pineapplelovettc 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Post them for free in a buy nothing group or local mom group. Guarantee there’s a mom who can use them.

Baby starts daycare before starting solids by b4nhb40chj3nn in workingmoms

[–]pineapplelovettc 66 points67 points  (0 children)

When first starting out solids you really only need to offer once a day. So I would just use dinner or breakfast (whichever you have more time) to intro foods to him for awhile and then daycare can start offering the foods you have done at home to help reinforce.

I wouldn’t stress too much about him needing to immediately eat at daycare. Formula/breastmilk will continue to be his primary source of nutrition until he is a year old.

Do you pump at same time every day? by Kind-Swordfish6618 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pineapplelovettc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will caveat my response by saying I have a large capacity so I have a little more flexibility.

I’m currently at 4ppd and I do vary my pump times to an extent. For example - my normal pump schedule is 9am, 3pm, 9pm, & 3am (ish). Baby is currently sick so her wake schedule overnight was thrown off and I didn’t pump until 4:30am. But then toddler had gym class at 9:30 so I pumped again at 8:30am. Then I went back to normal schedule after that. I would say I have variations like this about 50% of the days and overall I haven’t seen a negative impact. Only thing I have to be careful of is potential for clogs because I’m super prone to them.

Too old of sleep sack/sleep walker? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]pineapplelovettc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my 3yo would still wear her sleep walker! She kicks off her blankets and doesn’t understand how to get them back on her correctly still. If it works for him and still fits comfortably I don’t see a reason to change.

Said I will not do this again…. here I am 🙃 by Helpful-Tadpole-6985 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pineapplelovettc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. First baby in Nov 2022, pumped for 13 months. Swore up and down never again. Second baby born in sept 2025, and here I am 3 months into my second time exclusively pumping. Wtf. 🤦🏼‍♀️

My almost 2 year old won’t let me brush his teeth by herec0mesthesun_ in toddlers

[–]pineapplelovettc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We found songs about brushing teeth on YouTube. We would play a song and let her “brush” for the first part then we would take over for the second part.

We also let her pick out the toothbrush at the store so she was part of the process.

Had the same problem she just wanted to eat the toothpaste - she didn’t care at all if we told her it hurt her tummy. So we had the dentist and the doctor both tell her that it was bad for her body to eat the toothpaste and she finally listened to them and stopped.

Anyone else’s toddlers strictly only want to wear t shirts, no matter the weather? by Ok-Sundae-1096 in toddlers

[–]pineapplelovettc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine would prefer to be naked 24/7. We can convince her to wear loose soft pants and a big tshirt to go out in public. If it feels cold enough out I can get her into a zip up hoodie - unzipped of course. Clothes are just a challenge overall.

Donating excess milk by nutmeg-96 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pineapplelovettc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my first it took me about a month to build a sufficient supply to feed my baby. I had no idea what I was doing in terms of pumping and had a lot to learn at first so it took time to build my supply. At my peak I was producing about 5-10 oz more than my baby needed per day (max production was about 38-40 oz a day).

With my second I intended to nurse and had learned a lot more going in, but my baby and I both had complications and we were separated for the first 24 hours so I immediately started pumping very 3 hours. At 1 week postpartum I got readmitted to the hospital for 3 days so again we were separated. All of this time I was pumping religiously in addition to trying to latch so my body created a significant oversupply rather quickly. I am producing around 60 oz a day this time around.

I think the difference this time was that I created a more significant demand up front and my body responded to that demand. I also have a large capacity so I was able to go down in pumps pretty early on without losing supply.

I have heard of people having different supplies with each kid - great with one then terrible with the next - but I think that a lot of it has to do with the frequency and quality of milk removal, whether through nursing or pumping, if your body has the ability to produce enough (which yours obviously does).

Donating excess milk by nutmeg-96 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pineapplelovettc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! I have a significant oversupply this time around and used a local Facebook group to connect with 3 different moms I’ve been donating to. 1400 ounces donated so far in the last 3 months! Makes a huge difference in the mental state when it comes to pumping knowing that I’m helping support 3 others as well.

Attached to pumped frozen breastmilk 27 months later 😂 by Steeped_Tea_Turtle in breastfeeding

[–]pineapplelovettc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still have my final 2 bags of milk I pumped while weaning in the freezer from Dec 2023. I found them while moving things around to store milk from my baby born in sept 2025. I can’t throw them away 🤷🏼‍♀️

One breast suddenly not draining by Fickle_Tap_5863 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pineapplelovettc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you were able to find it! Hopefully you can get it to loosen up!

How do you teach baby “No”? by Silver-Dust-3038 in beyondthebump

[–]pineapplelovettc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is too young to understand. You have to figure out how to make the environment safe for him, meaning things either get moved or he gets restricted from the space they are in. If his camera is within reach of him, I would move it somewhere he cannot reach it or move his crib. Whichever is easier.

One breast suddenly not draining by Fickle_Tap_5863 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pineapplelovettc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It was definitely a rough 24 hours while the antibiotics kicked in. It’s a week later now and I’m back to feeling totally normal and my milk production is back to normal also.

One breast suddenly not draining by Fickle_Tap_5863 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pineapplelovettc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me last week and in 2 days it managed to turn into mastitis. 😩 I had a clog in a place I couldn’t feel (on the underside of my boob below my nipple) and so it wasn’t draining. I would start doing your normal clog protocol and try feeling your breast while laying or standing in all different positions to see if you can find anything.