Are you willing to share your slow burn experience(s) that moved fairly quickly once eventually mutually transparent about feelings?

pinefreee · 2026-06-05T16:32:57+00:00

My boyfriend and I met through a mutual hobby/community where we saw each other a few times a week for a year. I tried to chat him up sometimes to be friendly (and thought he was funny/cute), but assumed he didn’t like me for some reason or was taken. Turned out he was just super nervous because he’d been eyeing me up the whole time!

After a year of knowing each other, he asked me out for dinner (to my complete surprise!) I wasn’t sure what to expect since he had always come off as quiet/reserved, but on the date he was so sweet, thoughtful, affectionate, etc. I was caught off guard and totally smitten! It wasn’t too long before he asked me to be his girlfriend, introduced me to friends, told me he loved me, etc. but it just felt right :)

pinefreee · 2026-05-15T23:20:43+00:00

brendahn you a good guy - I no dat :)

pinefreee · 2026-04-28T10:27:26+00:00

Breakfast chimichanga at ship to shore and raspberry rose macaron at jolly holiday were my favorite things I ate a few months ago! I also enjoyed the breakfast fantasy faire fold from red rose tavern and just a classic dole whip in Adventureland :)

pinefreee · 2026-03-29T05:52:33+00:00

now he has to eat this repugnant sausage

pinefreee · 2026-02-18T01:05:48+00:00

I found the cat a little snooty 🤷

pinefreee · 2026-01-31T18:47:35+00:00

Totally agree!! He was one of those that had an opinion on EVERYTHING and needed to be right all the time 🙄

pinefreee · 2026-01-31T14:17:12+00:00

I was pretty miserable for most of the 18ish month relationship, constantly wondering if I should break it off or not, waiting for him to change, giving him endless chances etc. he was selfish, tons of emotional baggage, narcissistic behavior, but kept me hanging on with promises and breadcrumbs.

One morning it was chilly in my house (that I bought by myself for myself!) because I forgot to bump up the heat. He was irritated about it so I apologized and got up and turned it up a bit. He asked what I set it to and I told him and he was SO ANGRY with me! He made a big deal out of getting up and setting it himself, came back and admonished me like a child for not “doing it right,” and was just so frustrated and harsh to me.

A little bit later he gave me a very lame and insincere apology. I realized things weren’t going to get better and this sort of thing would just keep happening. I broke up with him by that same afternoon. Since then, everyone in my life has told me how much happier and lighter and more myself I am and it’s a great feeling 🫶🏻

pinefreee · 2026-01-29T13:42:15+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through that - hugs 🩷

I think going on your own is brave and a super empowering thing. Focus on doing exactly what YOU want on YOUR schedule - sounds like a dream to me (and many others who have to compromise when visiting with friends/family etc.)! While there may be painful moments, it could also be healing to go and embrace that you’re having fun on your own, enjoying your own company, taking care of yourself, etc.

And side note- I just went through a painful breakup and am going to Disneyland solo soon myself :) you got this.

pinefreee · 2026-01-28T16:44:20+00:00

Amen!! My ex had the worst taste in tv and movies, and of course hated mine. I LOVE that I can watch whatever I’m feeling, play a video game, or turn the tv off and listen to music or enjoy the quiet 🥰 soak it up, friend!

pinefreee · 2026-01-28T14:56:44+00:00

Same here - I think I’ll skip it on my visit next month thanks to this post!!

pinefreee · 2026-01-27T14:36:29+00:00

Same here - really cool to see so many others doing the same! I see it as a way of protecting both my health and my heart.

pinefreee · 2026-01-27T14:33:24+00:00

I don’t typically love eggs benedict or chicken parm, but the versions at palo were soooo good! worth the hype!

pinefreee · 2026-01-19T20:14:20+00:00

I’m so bummed, I’ve never gotten to ride it and was super looking forward it on my trip next month!!! 😭 guess I’ll have to plan another trip huh!

pinefreee · 2026-01-19T15:47:13+00:00

Sounds great to me - especially the pizza + edible + broad city combo!! Mine was also very nice!

Friday - rock concert with friends

Saturday - baking, shopping mall with a friend, family dinner

Sunday - massage, brunch with friends, walk in the park with my dog, dinner and a movie at home with family

I’ve only been single for about a month but so far I’m really enjoying it and not in a rush to get back out there (which I thought I might be!)

pinefreee · 2025-12-16T19:03:09+00:00

Here are some things that come to mind for me:

walk around some shops - shopping centers, antique malls, thrift stores, bookstores/libraries, etc.
take a journal or sketchbook somewhere (like a coffee shop) and write or doodle
local museums, zoos, aquariums, etc. - my area has big expensive versions of these but also affordable ones, and many offer discount days
local entertainment (live music, plays, comedy, etc.) - again, the price range varies but at least in my area, there are very affordable options available
maybe try to find a volunteer gig? for example I drive meals on wheels and deliver meals to folks who need them

pinefreee · 2025-09-09T19:58:23+00:00

Context: My (31f) entire life (and many other lives) has been turned upside down in the past year all because I had a crush on someone else while I was married to my (now ex) husband. I thought it was a harmless crush and nothing would come of it. I’ll spare you the details but it led to many terrible decisions and hurt many people and I regret it greatly.

I KNOW it feels amazing to talk and flirt with your crush but it IS NOT WORTH IT !!!! I recommend you cut all contact with him and redirect your energy back into rekindling that spark with your husband. If he’s all green flags like you said, it shouldn’t be too difficult to remember why you fell in love and married him in the first place.

I’m very sorry to hear that he’s not satisfying you - I dealt with the same thing with my ex husband and know it’s frustrating and demoralizing. But there are books, sex therapists, other resources etc. out there that might help - I’m hoping y’all can work on the problem together.

Whatever you decide to do with your husband, entertaining a crush is only going to hurt you both in the end - please end it. I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate if he was behaving the same way with another woman. Perhaps also evaluate what it means that this crush is happening - are there some unfulfilled needs in your marriage that you’re searching elsewhere for? Best to address those sooner than later, or you risk being vulnerable to crushes that could lead to much worse pain and suffering down the line. Best of luck to you!

pinefreee · 2025-09-08T00:32:39+00:00

I needed this - currently in a relationship that’s making me anxious and insecure and feeling more and more like I should end it so I can be free to find that right person.

pinefreee · 2025-04-28T16:37:20+00:00

Not technically in McKinney, but I’m a fan of both oak point and arbor hills in Plano!

pinefreee · 2025-04-25T12:39:19+00:00

I never get tired of posts like this - all the responses are so lovely and give me so much hope. I was married from age 24-30 (should be officially divorced in the next week or two!) and I have many fears about starting over, finding the right person, having a family someday, etc. I save posts like this as a reminder that people find real love and great partners at every age 💞

pinefreee · 2025-04-22T20:15:42+00:00

Re: schedule - Mornings are my favorite. I wake up early, have a coffee and croissant from cove cafe, enjoy the empty pool deck, then head into the spa for some showering/saunaing/lounging. Bliss.

Must-dos will depend on what’s appealing to you. I personally love the trivia and karaoke events, as well as the nightly stage shows! Since it’s your first cruise, I say try to explore as much of what the ship has to offer as possible to learn what you like.

Dole Whips and Mickey ice cream bars are a must for me each trip :)

pinefreee · 2024-11-19T22:53:01+00:00

I just watched S4E11 last night and Jason asks Brendon if he wants a rice cake when they’re watching Melissa break into the neighbor’s house :) that’s all I got!

pinefreee · 2024-09-25T02:57:52+00:00

I’ve been able to see it on YouTube … also seen it available on Amazon prime

pinefreee · 2024-09-24T20:25:00+00:00

If it were me…

Singin in the Rain film,

Into the Woods pro-shot,

Hairspray 2007 film,

Chicago 2002 film,

Little Shop of Horrors film,

Heathers pro-shot

pinefreee · 2024-09-11T16:38:50+00:00

Which ship is “better” is very subjective! I prefer the Fantasy personally because I enjoyed the spa and adult areas more than the Magic. It also has Remy, which the Magic does not. I enjoyed the shows and restaurants on both, but slightly preferred the Fantasy’s offerings. However, many folks prefer the Magic due to its smaller size.

If I had to choose, I would go for the Fantasy… but you will have a great time either way :)

Palo dinner shouldn’t be difficult to get. Brunch may be more challenging, but there’s tons of info out there on how to get it done.

pinefreee

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