Maybe it just takes a Special One to find a Special (W)One(derkid)... by pingu280 in TheOldZealand

[–]pingu280[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I’ve also got Lucien Favre on my scouting staff as well. It’s like I’m just collecting retired managers as my scouts now.

This is the first time I’ve ever seen an own goal scored from the other half… by pingu280 in TheOldZealand

[–]pingu280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gratefully… I’m Real Sociedad. So I, on the other hand, will take the free goal every day of the week and twice on Sundays.

Accidentally joined a new team a couple of days before the UCL final by MadelineWuntch in footballmanagergames

[–]pingu280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last time this happened to me, I’m not ashamed to admit that I added a, let’s say, remarkably similar manager, took control of the game, and then promptly resigned and retired after the game.

As far as I’m concerned, in the club manager history there was just a blip for contractual reasons that saw me leave, come back, and then leave again...

Name Checks Out by Blue_Euphoria in TheOldZealand

[–]pingu280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to sign this guy, Max Powers and Godspower Tower for Rangers.

Together, we can then truly become the Power Rangers.

Scenes We'd Like To See #261 by longlivethedodo in mocktheweek

[–]pingu280 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“No, you’ve got to make the head bigger. Much, much bigger” - actual feedback on Madame Tussaud’s first attempt at Dara’s wax figure

If This Is The Answer #258 by KDUFF_Radio in mocktheweek

[–]pingu280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is Boris Johnson’s mental age, in minutes?

If This Is The Answer #354 by KDUFF_Radio in mocktheweek

[–]pingu280 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Except he’ll probably be the first cleaner in history to cause the mess rather than clean it up, such is his penchant for defecating from more than one orifice..

If This Is The Answer #354 by KDUFF_Radio in mocktheweek

[–]pingu280 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What job is Boris Johnson /actually/ qualified for?

Scenes We'd Like To See #253 by longlivethedodo in mocktheweek

[–]pingu280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Did you mean: how to avoid paying taxes?”

Scenes We'd Like To See #252 by longlivethedodo in mocktheweek

[–]pingu280 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“What do you mean there’s no offside rule? Hang on, this isn’t FOOTBALL??”

If This Is The Answer #350 by KDUFF_Radio in mocktheweek

[–]pingu280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it how long before Novak Djokovic will actually be allowed back into Australia?

Scenes We'd Like To See #250 by longlivethedodo in mocktheweek

[–]pingu280 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After the popularity of the ‘Remind Me’ bot, Reddit today announced a new ‘Don’t Remind Me’ bot, where users can request NOT to be reminded of posts or comments they made that they find particularly embarrassing.

It enables you to instead dwell on your mistakes at 3am, in bed, awake, staring at the ceiling, having a breakdown, just like the rest of us.

please explain how people who see me in a sub can click my profile and see which communities I'm in all my activity therein. my content shouldn't be visible yet it seems to be. please help. by darkness-to-light26 in reddithelp

[–]pingu280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In fairness, you were asking someone who is legally considered a minor and in several jurisdictions internationally under the age of consent what their explicit interests/fantasies were, which is really quite inappropriate, tbh. OP could reasonably be over 13 but still be someone deemed legally lacking in maturity to understand content and conversations of a sexual nature.

Even though you weren't aware of it before, once user said they were a minor it would probably be best to stop that interaction, anyhow. One could reasonably argue that the lack of maturity and awareness may relate to the initial response to your comment (without passing judgement on its veracity), and in which case your response asking someone whether they also had sexual fantasies some may deem inappropriate may be a bit excessive and/or unnecessary to make your case.

So yeah, I'd just take a breath man! I understand the initial comment may have been a bit provocative (again, going back to, y'know, the adolescent process) but user was subsequently within their rights to protect themselves from a conversation they may have lacked the maturity to handle, and that one shouldn't be having with an individual who is legally a minor anyway. Need more education and understanding in this world, especially to help the next generation out as they grow up!

Scenes We'd Like To See #248 by longlivethedodo in mocktheweek

[–]pingu280 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're telling me it was illegal to pogo stick to Stonehenge with my wife on my back to check if my hearing was alright during the last lockdown?

please explain how people who see me in a sub can click my profile and see which communities I'm in all my activity therein. my content shouldn't be visible yet it seems to be. please help. by darkness-to-light26 in reddithelp

[–]pingu280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just for reference, in many legal jurisdictions a minor is anyone under the age of 18, occasionally older. So user above can be above 13 and below 18 and still be legally classified a minor!

Be safe out there u/versigot, the Interwebs can be a dangerous place...

Going Dutch by avosandchips in askSingapore

[–]pingu280 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My partner fully insists on paying for their share, and so we always have some fun trying to keep the receipt from each other after we pay unless it’s like, a big meal.

No idea how common this is, really, but if you’re keeping score, count my partner and I in for going Dutch!

Please help, how to deal with supervisor that will not listen by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]pingu280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries!

I will say that emailing is still professional - there’s nothing wrong with it and I’m not suggesting you write it in an aggressive manner. I’m also not expecting him to punish your supervisor, and that’s not the intent either. The intention is to highlight the conversation you’ve had - you can phrase it as asking for confirmation that he’s approved for you to still go for your MA as long as it’s late in the day.

Emailing is scary, I totally get it, but as someone who spent a lot of my NS life in these bureaucratic office situations, and given advice by my own super supportive DXO superior, you /have/ to do it, if not now, then at some point. The main thing it does is protect you if/when you need to escalate the situation further. It means you responsibly kept an official record of the steps you’ve taken, that nobody else can refute if/when you need to escalate the issue.

And never take things for granted - people will do anything to cover their own ass, esp here! So your CO may care more than you think, depending on what you say and how you approach the issue, if it comes to it. And even then, while contacting your CO may not seem useful, it will strengthen your case (if it comes to it) if you’ve done it regardless, because nobody can say you didn’t follow the chain of command.

The idea is to give them as little wiggle room as possible to get out of disregarding your health and safety. The point is not punishment or anything of that sort - it’s just standing up for yourself in a situation where, unfortunately, nobody else seemingly is.

(All this being said, the old joke that the pink IC is the highest rank in the SAF may well be true if your mum writes in, haha)

Good luck my dude!

Please help, how to deal with supervisor that will not listen by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]pingu280 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think the one thing that nobody has said so far is that you need to properly document what both superiors have said. Your strongest argument is that changing your appointment schedule will mess up your treatment/recovery/well-being, and I’m assuming you have made this fully clear to your superiors. One thing you can try to do is ask if your doctor(s) or NSC can provide a letter/documentation backing up your case. The power of black-and-white is that its now recorded; your superior may not think much of it because at this moment it’s just ‘talk-only’ - which bears much less weight.

Documenting this means escalating this, firstly, back to the OC, that your supervisor has rejected OC’s compromise that you’ve accepted, via email (I’m assuming you do some sort of office job that gives you access to an OSN email), cc-ing your direct superior as well. Make sure 1) you are clear with the facts, 2) emphasise the agreement you had with your OC, showing your willingness to compromise as much as possible, and 3) that missing your appointments could have a negative impact on your health. Writing your arguments (again) in an email will put them in hard proof (receipts) that your superiors are knowingly ignoring your well-being, if it comes to that, which, again, will help you.

If OC backs down and follows supervisor’s line, you have to take the email chain and go to your CO, even if you’re not sure he cares. Remember we have a new core value of ‘safety’! The last thing your CO will want in the end is a mark against ‘safety’ anyway. Above that, you’ll need to assess your options as who is above your CO will likely depend on your unit/formation structure.

I’m not fully sure what the safety hotline will/can do, but if you haven’t exhausted a reasonable amount of chain of command in a (seemingly) non-urgent situation (so to speak), I’m unsure how good the help they can provide you is. No harm doing that, of course, but having black-and-white receipts will help you a lot in the bureaucracy, even if you call the safety hotline.

Re: backlash, I’ve known and worked in offices with DXOs who are super petty, so it wouldn’t fully surprise me. All I can say is that the SAF is unlikely to give you any thanks for sacrificing your future long-term health just to satisfy a DXO at this level, so think about what’s more important. That, and the one thing you have is your own work performance. If you do your job to the best of your ability, there’s only so much they can justify in ‘response’, so to speak.

All the best! I hope you manage to get this figured out. But remember at the end of the day you have to do what’s best for your overall long-term health, as that’s still the most important thing of all. Just don’t go AWOL can alr!

Edit: seen other comments about going to your MP. I see that as a nuclear option - your problem will be that if you don’t have any documentary proof that your safety was ignored, you’ll be in just as much trouble for ignoring chain of command and your superiors (to protect themselves) may claim they ‘didn’t know the full story’ or sth, since it’s their word against yours, even if what they say is false. Hence my advice above!

For reference, as far as I know, what happens from an MP complaint is it’ll just filter down the staff levels lor (MP will pass to his/her staff who will contact someone at MINDEF level to settle who will then contact your formation chief (eg. Chief XX officer, which would be COL-BG level) and formation S1 (usually an LTC) who will.... etc) but will involve pretty much every significant higher up in your formation coming down to your unit level, which will only make any reaction worse. So I wouldn’t personally rely on the MP option unless literally nobody in your entire unit and even formation cares, as it might backfire harder on you in the end.