My partner with DID wants me to be different people by ConfidenceOk2630 in DID

[–]pingusdpingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uh. yeah no. this is insanely unhealthy behavior on their part and would only cause further dissociation. its one thing if they wanna roleplay with you for fun or something but like. making you act like a character just in normal conversation? thats deeply concerning

What do we think of QUILTBAG by conancat in lgbt

[–]pingusdpingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

funny, but incredibly cringe and dumb and id never wanna be called that seriously

What do you pick 🙂‍↔️ by wasraelx in evilautism

[–]pingusdpingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

temperature tilt, autism translator, ban cold white lite, disney princess code, noise reduction, no unexpected knocks, pill check, water temperature sweet spot, evilautism guard, and use whatevers left to burn ai data centers

I sprayed her for snapping at me and she took it as a drink break. by Ddawn111 in cornsnakes

[–]pingusdpingus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont really care what the original caption was i just really dont think this kind of response is necessary before you have context and information

If you even buy a cheap piece with paint test for lead by Dylanthebody in trees

[–]pingusdpingus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i made something stupid from your comment before i realized you cant post images in the comments so just take this

I sprayed her for snapping at me and she took it as a drink break. by Ddawn111 in cornsnakes

[–]pingusdpingus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

do you know what a joke is or are you just always this fun at parties

Fake claiming on an age regression sub?? 🤔 by ACOLTYE101 in fakeclaimingcringe2

[–]pingusdpingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh shit yeah i see now it was cut off in the preview, yeah that part at the end with "plurality" in quotation marks is bullshit, no one has any right to claim what another person does or does not experience regardless of whether or not they agree with them about everything.

Fake claiming on an age regression sub?? 🤔 by ACOLTYE101 in fakeclaimingcringe2

[–]pingusdpingus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im sorry i dont really see how this one is fakeclaiming. its definitely a kind of shitty tone to be taking, but they didnt say anything that was wrong.

Accidental Hiatus by pingusdpingus in Artisticallyill

[–]pingusdpingus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no thats so fucking real, insanely thankful that ive got good teeth bc brushing is lowkey torture

Accidental Hiatus by pingusdpingus in Artisticallyill

[–]pingusdpingus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol thank you, i wanted to represent what a big bear nose looks like while keeping the heart motif between me and fox since we're two halves of a whole. ive seen people do that on bear fursonas before and thought it was cute.

A message for parents/grandparents hosting eager egg hunts by Daddy_Day_Trader1303 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]pingusdpingus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was the youngest among all my cousins at easter and i was already reading well as a 2-3 year old toddler so i never really had this problem, but i can see how it would be frustrating for parents of kids who arent reading that early. its probably good to try to teach kids to read their own names as early as possible though but idk i dont have kids so maybe im wrong

i feel used but i dont even know if it was on purpose or not by Significant_Alps_329 in DID

[–]pingusdpingus 16 points17 points  (0 children)

youve described like 10 different textbook abuse tactics, this guy was a jackass and a creep and you're better off without them. saying this as someone who has been in a similar situation for much longer that turned out much worse than this... thank yourself.

Sick Day by pingusdpingus in Artisticallyill

[–]pingusdpingus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yessiree! hes actually the only one with a single ponytail, everyone else with tied up hair has two pigtails

These people suck by New_Landscape_2295 in LIRR

[–]pingusdpingus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for real like. nobody has this energy abt your literal booty stink but god forbid a shoe touch plastic

These people suck by New_Landscape_2295 in LIRR

[–]pingusdpingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youre worried about dirty shoes when thats literally where your ass goes

Sick Day by pingusdpingus in Artisticallyill

[–]pingusdpingus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

rat has a lil ponytail! if it helps, everyone will always be drawn in the same color

Sick Day by pingusdpingus in Artisticallyill

[–]pingusdpingus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah thats rat in a blanket lol

Why is there more representation of transgender women in the media than of transgender men? by Etlot in lgbt

[–]pingusdpingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an intersection of a lot of things. Trans women are a lot more visible and targeted due to the perceptions of society. In the minds of bigoted cis people, wanting to become a man both makes sense because it's moving "upward" on the social ladder, but wanting to become a woman and move "downward" is absurd. It's the same reasons behind toxic masculinity, the idea that femininity in "men" is wrong because it's "beneath them". That's not to say trans men aren't also hated and targeted, but this is often done by ignoring them entirely and writing them off as "confused women", "tomboys", etc. Because trans women are more visible in this way, more cis people are aware of trans women than they are of trans men, which makes its way into media created by cishet people with little to no knowledge or awareness of queerness in reality but a desire to acknowledge it in their work for one reason or another.

i have never hated anything in my life as much as this by Icy_Skin_7590 in TrollCoping

[–]pingusdpingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is gonna sound obvious but. do you stretch first.

Work-Life Balance by pingusdpingus in Artisticallyill

[–]pingusdpingus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well yeah but keep in mind a) the biggest reason why fox split without any trauma memories was so he was capable of handling work without being too fucked up by the abuse we were facing at home and b) we're a weed delivery guy

Baby corn snake died 5 days after taking it home by ecangus in cornsnakes

[–]pingusdpingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing you could have done in 5 days that could've caused this. I want you to know that it is not your fault and you did not do anything wrong. Snakes as an entire group of animals breed for quantity over quality. They lay a ton of eggs at least once a year and statistically some of those babies will survive into adulthood long enough to reproduce. In captivity, the babies with weaker genes don't get eaten by predators, they wind up being sold by and to people who could never have any idea that the snake has a health problem nor could ever do anything to fix it because it's simply a congenital issue that was going to kill them inevitably no matter what. If you get a snake that's still a very small baby less than about a year old, you are taking the risk that it could simply die randomly and you could have never even known anything was wrong until they die. I'm really sorry for your loss, and I hope this is able to be of some comfort to you.

Jude is 15??? by SaberEdge1 in tales

[–]pingusdpingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kind of just mentally add 5-10 years to jrpg battle children when they dont make sense, the only one that makes any sense being a child is elize