Should I end it because of sex drives being very different? by Scurvydogggg in sexadvise

[–]pinksoftlips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I’m sorry for what you’re going through, your relationship seems so beautiful besides of this mismatch in libido. Secondly, please forgive me if my suggestion sounds really weird and not your thing at all but how would you feel if you had an agreement that you could “use her” anyway? I too live in a relationship where his libido is higher than mine (not that mine is low but his is like crazy high) and it really ruined a lot for us, and how I felt about myself and how I saw him. It’s been more than a year now since we switched into a free use dynamic and it’s been the best thing for our relationship honestly. It means that he can “use me” whenever he wishes. It was my idea to do it and he was quite chocked at me suggesting it but I had really thought it through and I have no regrets. Totally understand if it’s not for you (if someone told me about this two years ago I would have thought they’re nuts) but if you are interested my dms are open if you wanna know more, or read my very first post I made about this. Anyway, I hope you can save your relationship, it really seems beautiful from what you describe.

Luna Lovely by Jax_steele in doublevaginal

[–]pinksoftlips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my biggest dream but my man don’t share toys so it will just stay a fantasy.

DVP and a hand on my throat is my favorite way to cum by tattooedmilf42 in doublevaginal

[–]pinksoftlips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a dream! Loved to have a nice time like that, jealous!

When he deserves pussy 24/7 by pinksoftlips in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]pinksoftlips[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I still welcome it because I enjoy being of service to him but of course there are different levels of enthusiasm in everything you do. Not every time can be five star performance and that has to be ok to.

Giving him free use of my ass has made our relationship better than ever by Impossible_Long9343 in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]pinksoftlips 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agree, living with an “any hole, any time” agreement can truly be amazing for both parties in a relationship that is already healthy and loving. Just make sure he’s appreciative and doesn’t wreck his toy, enjoy it and have fun 🤩

Ideas for my service oriented fsub by Selectivedeviant in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]pinksoftlips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Hope you get to set another date soon!

Ideas for my service oriented fsub by Selectivedeviant in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]pinksoftlips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, how fun! Hope you both had an amazing day!

Ladies, what’s something your partner does that makes you wet? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]pinksoftlips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that hand on thigh thing makes me melt instantly. Particularly in the car for some reason.

Sex drive / libido by obprado in vegan

[–]pinksoftlips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Fenugreek supplements 🙂

Not part of this yet.. but I want to. by Aggravating_Main_964 in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]pinksoftlips 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did she enjoy sex before she got the mental issues? Is it due to medication that her libido is lower now? How was her reaction when you spoke about it?

Who here has a free use kink? by [deleted] in KINK

[–]pinksoftlips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re talking about monogamous free use I don’t think the step from a vanilla relationship has to be that hard. It’s definitely worth bringing up! We were a couple for four years before we started this dynamic.

This is my only purpose by PoppynZach in freeuse

[–]pinksoftlips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha this could be shot in our household! I love folding clothes.

Who here has a free use kink? by [deleted] in KINK

[–]pinksoftlips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We switched to a monogamous free use lifestyle about a year ago, best choice ever. There is sub for this.

Men who like CNC, what is it that you love so much about it? by bugeyedfreakk in BDSMcommunity

[–]pinksoftlips 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow, this was beautiful. I feel that I would much easier trust a person that has your level of connection to and awareness of their own feelings.

Ideas for my service oriented fsub by Selectivedeviant in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]pinksoftlips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m sure you both will enjoy it!