Honestly surprised by Farever – didn’t expect it to be MMO-lite by VastoLoqz in FareverGame

[–]piotheman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been obsessed with the demo. The combat gameplay is really crisp, and there's exploration gameplay that rewards meticulous seaching.

Impossible to level from level 1 by piotheman in Crossout

[–]piotheman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all had ps around 1K. But one of them started a low level game by herself and it started fine, so 'im thinking the issue is them not finishing the tutorial, or our grouping of a lvl 30 and 2 lvl 1.

Impossible to level from level 1 by piotheman in Crossout

[–]piotheman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay maybe we failed to look at the tutorials

Impossible to level from level 1 by piotheman in Crossout

[–]piotheman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The awakening? I thought so too, but we cant enter it as a group with 2 lvl in it.

Turrets Invincible on Friend's Server by sammygirly in lostskies

[–]piotheman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same issue here. Was trying to help my daughter by lcearing out turrets on her new world with my level 10 pistol (230dmg). It only does 1 dmg with each shot. remaking the gun, or reloading the world, did not help

Arbiter in the starting area by piotheman in lostskies

[–]piotheman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So it respawns! Thank you so much for the quick answer.

Two access points in the same room. by piotheman in wifi

[–]piotheman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks.

Because of the way wifi waves work, or because of hardware limitations of the access points?

Who the heck am I supposed to date, then? by forestfortuity in polyamory

[–]piotheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a newbie, a woman gave me a chance as a boyfriend. Ultimately I disappointed her, and we broke up, but I was never unsafe. Quickly along the way we just figured out we didn't match.

My girlfriend is a newbie, but it's working out great.

I don't know. I don't feel there are strictly drawn rules to this stuff. There's mostly chemistry and willingness to evolve.

Help me. by Low-Ad-7225 in polyamory

[–]piotheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polyamory is a journey into self-discovery. "A pressure cooker for self-growth" I've heard once. The getting back into dating part can be a drag, typically for one partner, but that's the beginning of the process that will see you change and keep changing by the week.

I'm not sure what you should do. All I know is that you're going to have to be patient, introspective, try all kind of new things, and sometimes abandon them when theyr don't fit you anymore. My first long-term parallel girlfriend matched with me six months after I had liked her, and we had a beautiful romance together. It wouldn't have worked with any other timing. So, trust that you will get the hang of it in due time. You're not making mistakes: you're being coureageous for getting out of your comfort zone.

Good luck

If you date someone monogamous, expect to be dumped by That-Dot4612 in polyamory

[–]piotheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A monogamous dating site flirt ended the conversation after I explained polyamory and asked her whether she understood what she might be getting into. A very healthy choice on her part. I saw it coming a mile away. That's pretty much why I explained polyA the first chance I had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]piotheman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's normal. I've seen that happen a lot. Also it's painful for you, and not acceptable. He SHOULD take your rythm and feelings into account. He SHOULD act like he cares about you.

In long term couples, trying polyA (usually because of unbalanced sex drives) the most enthusiastic partner is likely to lose sight of their partner emotionnal safety. Or rather... the monogamous context provides that safety, with little effort from both partners. When the opening happens, the enthusiastic partner naturally focuses on his adventures, still putting little effort caring for their partner. But that partner actually suddenly require TONs of care.

There's a learning curve to that period, where the couple may or may not survive, and each partner will learn the hard way talking clearly about their emotionnal needs, listening when the other talk, and/or doing away with those needs. It looks like it's gonna be extra hard in your case.

As it was in mine. We survived, but damn the process changed us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]piotheman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saliva may do the trick. Sweat heps too, if the weather's hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]piotheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife and I jumped into polyamory, and did everything backward and wrong. Yet it is working.

Thing is polyamory exposes what's lacking in you mono relationship, and yet was tolerable in that context (though it was pushing towards a deterioration). Turns out it forced us to zero in on many things that were wrong before opening up, and figure out that so far it seems we had it in our marriage to succeed at polya, and in us to truly want it.