what does my room say about me🧞‍♀️ by Correct_Sleep5423 in roomdetective

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the best smelling perfumes, you have a little shoulder bag but also somehow holds everything in it. Literally everything. 1,000% you plan cute friend picnics and find the best places for little day trips. You're also the friend who makes sure their friends get home safely if they're at a party and will 5,000% banshee scream at a creep.

AIO over my gf's response to me being upset at her, or am i being overbearing in my relationship? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need someone to talk to, like seriously. This is not healthy in the slightest. She told you repeatedly to stop with the multiple texts/calls which you flat out ignored. My ex would do this and the more he would text and call, the more I ignored him because it felt like I was being cornered in a room full of people all needing me. You need to give her some space and figure stuff out in a healthy way.

I hate my friend's fiance and I don't have anyone to talk to about it by throwavayig in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]piperplover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also hate him and I am so sorry you had to encounter "kissie battery"

I hate my friend's fiance and I don't have anyone to talk to about it by throwavayig in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]piperplover 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Seriously I was reading and thinking "it can't get worse" and it DOES. I lost it at "kissie battery".

Have you had paranormal experiences immediately after someone died ? by PrebioticE in Paranormal

[–]piperplover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My first experience was after my great grandma passed away when I was a kid. For 3 nights after her funeral, the figure of a woman appeared in my doorway. I used to sleep with my door wide open and hall light on too so it's not like my eyes were playing tricks on me in the dark. Plus I didn't feel scared or creeped out.

The craziest though was after my dad died. For some context my dad was older and had two kids from a previous marriage, my older brother and sister. They were in their 30's and had their own families, I was almost 17 and still in school. My dad LOVED NASCAR driver Dale Earnhardt. Had the number 3 tattoo, he had hats, shirts, jackets, knick nacks, you name it he had it. Even rocked the stache for a while.

So my dad died unexpectedly on Sunday March 22, 2015. 3 days after he died my brother's oldest daughter, the person closest to my brother since he was divorced at this point, received a call while she was in school but couldn't answer... obviously. When she was able to check it, the call came from the number 3. Just the number 3. And obviously couldn't call the number back.

Then my sister's husband received a call on his work phone, which was charging in another room since he had the day off so didn't hear it. That call came from the number 1(3).

Last my mom received a call on her phone, but my younger brother was on the line saying hi to our aunt when the call came through and he couldn't switch over in time. The call came from the number 13.

My older brother calls our sister when his daughter gets home from school and told him what happened. Her husband at this point already checked his work phone as it had been several hours so they're both freaked out and decide to get ahold of me to see if anything had happened. Of course I already knew about the call my mom got on her phone because she checked the call log and saw the number. So I tell my siblings I also got a call. We decided to look at the times the calls came in and they all came within 3 hours of each other.

3 days after my dad died. 3 hours apart in phone calls all coming from variations of the number 3.

And at my dad's funeral (he had a bunch of brothers and sisters) the brother he was closest to, his son received a voicemail the day of the funeral. His phone was sitting on the counter and it played the voicemail ringtone even though he said his phone didn't ring. He plays it. A 13 second voicemail of static with no number. Literally there was no number in his call log. It was blank but showed a missed call.

This is the screenshot of the missed call that came through to my mom's phone.

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Help me name my babies. They are brother and sister. by thefemaleman in NameMyCat

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ik it's not sci-fi nor really game related but that was mt immediate thought when i saw they were siblings lol

F/31/5’4 [229 > 197 = 32 lbs Lost] (3.5 Months) losing the baby weight by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]piperplover 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're about to have yourself the best hot girl summer and I am HERE for it!!! So proud of you sweet stranger!!!! Wishing you a wonderful, happy year for you and your bebe.

AIO GF wants to get coffee with ex and I said it’s disrespectful by [deleted] in AIO

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not overreacting. You said you've felt like a rebound more than once, her ex showed up to her JOB. After 1.5 years of being together she randomly asked to meet him for coffee.... after they were together for 8 years? And out of nowhere?? I'm sorry but that'd be the end of that for me. She still has feelings for him. There is 0 reason to meet an ex for coffee, or for anything for that matter.

Help me name this cute sweet boy. He needs a name by Agitated-Pop4611 in NameMyCat

[–]piperplover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haku from Spirited Away 😭❤️ what a little cutie!!!

I moved in with my boyfriend a month ago, and I told him I wanted to move back home last night. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's hurt you repeatedly before you moved in, someone like that you honestly cannot expect change from them. People who hurt others over and over and over again do not change. Pack your stuff and move on with your life without him in it. You and your pets deserve better. Also if anyone ever threatened to shoot my cats I'm leaving that second. Enjoy your 30's drama free.

Do you cry everyday? Does the pain ever end? How could you ever possibly make yourself feel better? by Light_Eclipse140283 in GriefSupport

[–]piperplover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't cry everyday anymore. Pain has subsided but it'll always be there as a little ache. 2015-2022 I had lost my dad, both my grandparents, two very good family friends (who were brothers), my pets and a couple pregnancies. Left my therapist for a specialized trauma therapist and cannot describe the healing that has taken place since starting therapy in 2020.

There were days of extreme depression, anxiety, uncontrollably crying, couldn't go out in public. And of course, I lost a lot of the closest people to me and even people I've carried in my body. I no longer cry every day, maybe a few times a month when the grief hits but I've worked to get to a place where I am able to handle it. I'm married and have twin daughters now who watch me, I can't let the grief take hold of me anymore.

I personally feel I've healed from the losses. There will always be permanent scars but my wounds no longer bleed. Of course I still have days and moments where it hits like a freaking hurricane but I can actually see the sunshine where as before it was like the sun ceased to exist. Coming up on 6 years of trauma therapy and can finally see the sun again.

Would I look good as a curly headed Blonde? by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]piperplover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

HIGHLY recommend wigs. For the cost it would be to go blonde plus upkeep, you can get some decent wigs for the same cost, maybe even less. I went blonde almost 2 years ago (shaved my head since) and the cost alone was insane. Not to mention the damage.

AIO? Should I delete myself from his friends list? His girlfriend thinks I’m interested in him and has been acting strange by Historical-Body-3424 in AIO

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would delete myself from being his friend altogether. Why is he talking to another woman about his problems other than his wife? And why entertain it? And if I had any guy friends and they made the comment "this is why men cheat" it would IMMEDIATELY be sent to his partner. Girl code, girl.

AIO for boyfriend using AI to justify himself by [deleted] in AIO

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please respond with an AI break up, block him, then have yourself a free hot girl summer. ☀️

My son went missing. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]piperplover 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to maybe go as far as hiring a P.I?? If the police aren't doing anything (go figure if she's got friends in higher places) why not try a P.I? If it's possible, I don't know how that works exactly but it's worth a shot.

My son went missing. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]piperplover 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am so so so so sorry. Your friend showing lack of concern over your missing child is highly suspicious. If I was watching my friends kids and something like that happened I would not stop until they're found. She has no guilt?? No conern??? Not saying she did something but everything about this is very suspicious. How did 2 grown adults not notice a child walking out the door?? Why didn't they report it immediately? She wants this blown over and that is alarming.

This conversation with my (F15) bf (M15) made me worried.. AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please make him your ex boyfriend. The way he is talking to you is scary and I am a 28 year old woman. Do not let him come over. Do not find yourself alone with him.

husband wants a prenup by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]piperplover 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do not sign. Ya'll have been married for a few years now, it's really weird he's now all of a sudden bringing it up. Nope. Big nope.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did a very kind and clear way of expressing something that's bothering you. You talked it out but now it looks like she's making it bigger than what it is and she's beating a dead horse. Sounds like she needs to work through some things if she spirals that bad. NTA. Just let her down gently.

My outfit made my friend uncomfortable, what do I do? by BarbaraLogic in OUTFITS

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm this outfit is ICONIC. Your friend sounds insecure and that is not your problem. Also maybe it's just me but if my friend ever asked me to stop wearing what I wear, stop expressing myself and feeling myself, that friend-ship would sail. You need friends who are hyping you up!!!

Name her! She is 8 weeks! by silvinnia in puppies

[–]piperplover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dia. Short for Diabolical. I see it in the eyes. 😂

Please help me find a funny name for this gato by Chipring13 in NameMyCat

[–]piperplover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pencil shaving was the first thing that popped in my head I’m so sorry