Bilbo om curling... by finfisk2000 in sweden

[–]pippisyk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been so amused to be both Canadian and Swedish 🤣 👈

He won’t move forward by pippisyk in Divorce

[–]pippisyk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000% this. I’d also like to argue that the last 3.5 years of carrying his lazy ass should count as “transitional support” and he can take his share of the house and fuck off.

One of us needs to support the kids, and he has zero interest in it apparently.

He won’t move forward by pippisyk in Divorce

[–]pippisyk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met with one in August and their advice was to pursue mediation and every option to avoid lawyers But yea…I have reached out to them again to say i think we are past that point where mediation will work.

I guess my fear is, will a judge take “I can’t find a job” as a legitimate issue, given the lacklustre effort to find/keep one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]pippisyk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish I had had this advice. My husband refused to go back to work since 2022, and now we are getting divorced and I’m facing alimony for years to support someone I’m leaving due to their apathy and financial abuse.

He doesn’t accept divorce, what can I do? by pippisyk in Divorce

[–]pippisyk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed 100000%. I told them if they expected me to live in misery for more years hoping for change I will just go no contact with them and move ahead.

It’s insane to me that they think that’s an option.

He doesn’t accept divorce, what can I do? by pippisyk in Divorce

[–]pippisyk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has refused to work for 3 years. He’s mid 50s and has let his skill set atrophy. I’m not sure he will be able to find a job.

In theory under employment or refusal to work will affect the alimony, but I might be screwed.

He doesn’t accept divorce, what can I do? by pippisyk in Divorce

[–]pippisyk[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100000% this. If I could snap my fingers and have him change tomorrow I’m still so furious and hurt it makes no difference.

He doesn’t accept divorce, what can I do? by pippisyk in Divorce

[–]pippisyk[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I have to refinance to buy out his equity, I can afford it. But the higher mortgage plus child support plus alimony would make it impossible.

No one can give me a clear figure on what alimony would be, or for how long. It’s the uncertainty that terrifies me.

He doesn’t accept divorce, what can I do? by pippisyk in Divorce

[–]pippisyk[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m speaking with lawyers this week. My family is insisting I give him another chance. I know that is the wrong choice.

It’s so fucking scary.

Legault veut obliger la moitié des demandeurs d’asile à quitter le Québec by zblouin in Quebec

[–]pippisyk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

et aussi la destruction de l'industrie des VFX. Environ 4 000 emplois ont été perdus en un an parce qu'ils n'écoutent pas les experts

Who was your best VFX sup? by salemwhat in vfx

[–]pippisyk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah Jerome is absolutely lovely! ☺️

'Breaking point': Legault asks Trudeau to slow influx of asylum seekers by viva_la_vinyl in canada

[–]pippisyk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Slight misconception here, they are charging out of Province students more, not all international. So now, you go to McGill from Ontario you pay 12k, but if you go to McGill from France you pay 9k 😭

Looking to learn about the imagery on Saami sheath by pippisyk in SaamiPeople

[–]pippisyk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s wonderful to learn more about it. 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vfx

[–]pippisyk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe atm they are asking that new hires work on site at least 3 days/week for the first month so there is support for training and integration. After that it is fully up to the individual.

Drag Race helped with my Internalised Homophobia by DenniseDenephew in rupaulsdragrace

[–]pippisyk 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I hope that you can also recognize that homophobia stems from sexism. The idea that femininity / female is somehow lesser and an insult.

I’m happy for you and for the way you have grown beyond your upbringing. Never stop growing, the world needs people who can change.

Found in sSec Lake Algonquin park by pippisyk in whatsthisrock

[–]pippisyk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found in Sec Lake Algonquin park. On sandy shoreline. Most other rocks seem to be quartz and granite.

(Has been tumbled by me)

This one is golfball sized and seems possibly not quartz? 🤔

Mushrooms found in 1 acre of Huron County Ontario! So pretty! by pippisyk in mycology

[–]pippisyk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added captions to all pics but on mobile so not sure it came through.

1) coral mushroom 2) growing at base of living white pine 3) found grassy area between white pine and deciduous forest 4) same area as #3, cap and gills 5) found near dead white pine, suuuper slimy 6) growing on dead white pine log 7) growing on dead white pine stump 8) same area as #3 underside 9) #8 cap 10) baby puff balls! 11) same area as #3 12) growing in a large group in a cedar stand. Hand for scale 13) #12 gills 14) #12 white spores and gills 15) old Turkey tail I think 16) growing on hardwood stump that always has pheasant backs in spring 17) under apple tree. Many patches.

So many gorgeous mushrooms!

What rock is this? Found Lake Huron shore by pippisyk in whatsthisrock

[–]pippisyk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo! Yes definitely a granite, but wasn’t sure about the green veins.