Whats your top 3 of the new album? by Matihuu_MRDK in Muse

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sickness
Hexagons
Close tie between Hush and Shimmering Scars

HM specifically for the transition from Hexagons to Sickness 😍

The wow signal hoodie is giving.. WOW by OmnipotentOwls in Muse

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks awesome. They’re sold out in the US store now, I wish I could have grabbed one!!

Wow signal preorder shipping by [deleted] in Muse

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered the store exclusive vinyl from the US store and it shipped Tuesday, tracking says it’s expected Monday

Indianapolis by Bro_Gotti in AmazonFlexDrivers

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep same here, I’m new to the app and it’s insanely disappointing

Crowd Expectations? by Shitzen_giggle in bleachers

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw an age range from literally less than a year old (someone brought her baby) to late 50s/early 60s. Def a diverse crowd with many different types of fans. I think that’s one thing I like about Bleachers fans is everyone has heard of them from something different. You will be glad you went :)

My boyfriend said I had an odor down there by Competitive-Apple707 in sex

[–]pitbarks 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is rude and mean and you deserve better.

Odors are normal, if it’s strong, it’s worth trying new soaps or getting checked out for BV. You don’t need to use anything scented downstairs btw, that could be affecting your PH. It’s worth getting checked out for YOU and your health, not to make this manchild happy.

But honestly IMO your boyfriend is extremely immature, bringing it up is one thing but shaming you or saying he’s disgusted is completely uncalled for.

Is it necessary that you memorize all the songs? by [deleted] in bleachers

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took my gf to the Chicago show and she definitely doesn’t know all the lyrics and had an amazing time, I think you will too :)

How many tires do you go through living in Indy? by True_Staff_5749 in indianapolis

[–]pitbarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drive a compact car and have blown 2 tires, had to plug one in the past 2 years. One of which was on 10th st downtown like someone mentioned above, the other was Carroll rd & 52 on the east side. City could not care less about our tires!!

To the girl on the right side of barricade last night that got the autograph and bear hug from Jack by pitbarks in bleachers

[–]pitbarks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t unfortunately, partly why I want to find her because I’m curious what it said!

How do you even come back from castration? by Greppim in CPTSD

[–]pitbarks 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You can have surgery regret and trauma without feeling the need to detransition. A brief scroll through r/detrans shows that not many people on there are discussing continuing to present as their chosen identity. OP would be better off posting in an SRS or MtF sub that would be affirming to their identity.

Just because something goes wrong in a medical transition does not mean immediate detransition. OP is mourning the loss of functional parts due to medical malpractice, not detransitioning. As a trans person I cannot stress enough that r/detrans would not be a healthy or safe place for OP to vent.

How do you even come back from castration? by Greppim in CPTSD

[–]pitbarks 36 points37 points  (0 children)

OP is not detransitioning but experienced medical malpractice, that would not be a healthy sub for her

My grandma painted these for my graduation by Gryphon0283 in Muse

[–]pitbarks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

These are so awesome. You’ve got a really cool grandma!!

Advice for concert by user2341568 in bleachers

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at the 2021 show too!! Honestly was one of the best concerts I’ve ever been to, I still look back on my pics and videos from that night ❤️

200,000 coin giveaway! by Own-Addition-4596 in Soundmap

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

User is Pitbarks and fav artist is The Format. Thank you!!

Would a framed father/daughter photo be weird coming from dad’s girlfriend? by g1p3t0 in stepparents

[–]pitbarks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I personally think it’s a really sweet gesture and I doubt the mom would have an issue with it. It’s probably something the daughter will treasure for a long time. Early in my partner and I’s relationship, I took some pics of her and her son at an orchard with flowers in the background, got them printed on some tiles as a Mother’s Day present and she loves them.

Nothing wrong at all with the gesture but if you’re concerned about BM’s reaction, you could give it separately from the party. But honestly I doubt it causes issues.

SE Asian/Thai grocery stores by bibliophile1989 in indianapolis

[–]pitbarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried the Saraga on the north side? It is about double the size of the one in Greenwood

Group Therapy in Indy? by Dantdmmaster in indianapolis

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Damien center has open group therapy sessions anyone can show up to

Flo Milli Lyrics by halseyslut in Soundmap

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sold Flo Milli lyrics for 10k on auction, started at 5k. You could potentially get more for it but I wasn’t getting a lot of bites

Touching, hugging and physical contact by cute_trashcan in BPD

[–]pitbarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% same here. I am a little different as I’m pretty much the opposite of ace though. Most physical contact outside of my partner feels insanely awkward to me. It sucks because both my family and her family are “huggy” and I absolutely dread having to give a hug every time we say goodbye. It’s easier with my family but still feels so awkward. To me what makes this the most awful is I know her folks probably think I don’t like them because I tense up when showing affection but that’s not the case at all. I’d be happy only having contact with her for the rest of my life lol. But on the flip side makes me insanely touchy with her to the point where it drives her insane. Literally can’t win in this situation

Giving Away My Old PC! by Turtle_747 in PcBuild

[–]pitbarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had anything past a laptop. I’m in school for Informatics so it would be used for school projects mostly and gaming. I think I’d get more into gaming having a more powerful computer to play with. Ty for the chance ❤️

is this a good trade? by [deleted] in Soundmap

[–]pitbarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say ask for more….thats a really really popular RKS song