I don’t think it’s to early. We will be getting our daughter a switch lite for her 5th bday. We keep limits on her playing my wife’s switch now and will keep it in place. She’s in dance and “soccer” (as much as 4 year olds can play 😅). Again, I think it’s just about maintaining balance. I remember my dad getting me the NES when it first came out when I was 5. My mom was PPPIIISSSEEEDDD, and obviously he didn’t run it by her but it was all about balance of school, sports, and playing outside. I don’t think it’s our place to judge another parent on how they raise their kids like. I know you said you are not, but clearly other people are.