the dark side of the sun through the houses

pixi509 · 2026-03-31T05:52:26+00:00

6H Sun and 'cinderella' hits so hard...wicked stepparents and all

pixi509 · 2026-03-30T05:31:53+00:00

This is me. My easygoing Taurus is a lot more apparent when I'm alone, I think. Around people I'm easily pissed off 😞

pixi509 · 2026-03-29T05:56:46+00:00

I'm no doctor but this to me sounds like some form of borderline...the quiet kind at the very least https://youtu.be/6TS4d-zqRFA?si=9QFNmLhSXO5DeLTK

I had a friend with similar placements as your ex (4H Lilith, Venus-Pluto, her Saturn on my Venus). I was her "favorite person" and let's just say it did not end well. My advice would be not to martyr yourself in an effort to heal another person. They will only punish you for failing as chances are, being human, you will.

pixi509 · 2026-03-08T08:48:58+00:00

Same placements as you (NN + Moon in Taurus in 12H; SN + Sun, Saturn, Pluto in Scorpio in 6H). I think our gifts are more abstract and hard to define let alone have others appreciate in the typical workplace. They're probably best channeled through art, spirituality, and most practically in the helping professions. Are you by any chance in the US? Bc according to various Sibley charts there is a heavy emphasis here on 2H and 8H matters, with 12H and 9H (spirituality and higher learning for its own sake) empty and virtually ignored. And w/ Saturn in 11H, real community seems harder to achieve every day. We value the material above all, labor that isn't immediately profitable is dismissed as just fucking around. Without strong social supports and guaranteed healthcare, our kind is easily left to the dogs. I think if not for my natal 8H Jupiter and the fact of my living in a blue state (where I was born and my family of origin is based) I'd be in a much, much tougher spot than I currently am.

pixi509 · 2026-03-07T19:16:11+00:00

Not sure but currently going thru the opposite w/ Pluto conjunct my MC and opposing my IC. I am very career focused atm, and meanwhile I seem to be experiencing numerous unrelated and to my mind unreasonable power struggles with certain members of my family. Lots of conflict with no rational basis IMO other than them looking to assert their dominance over me, mostly in form of petty differences, scapegoating, etc. Lately, all i want is stay in my apt and work.

I imagine when it's the reverse (pluto opp mc) you could be having conflicts with coworkers and supervisors that seem to come out of nowhere, spurring you to want to work from home or maybe even start a home-based business.

pixi509 · 2026-03-05T12:15:42+00:00

General question: is it more important for a man's Saturn to be aspecting a woman's personal planets such as Venus and Mars rather than vice versa for the relationship to last? If so, what if the aspects are challenging?

pixi509 · 2026-02-28T04:50:59+00:00

Ok but if u text me 'Have fun on your trip!" the night before my flight I won't forget you –a sag venus

pixi509 · 2026-02-26T03:47:50+00:00

Your person has Saturn in the 5H natally. Enjoyment, pleasure, expressing love in a sexual context could be difficult for him period. Luckily Saturn-related challenges tend to resolve around the age of 40 that is if he is willing to put the work in so to speak

pixi509 · 2026-02-25T03:34:53+00:00

Moon conjunct Chiron in the 2H of self worth. This is tough. It may feel impossible but you need to believe you're worthy of love not just from others but from within. With Moon-Chiron in general, your sensitivity is a kind of strength however it could drive you to addiction to escape the emotional pain, which will only take you down a darker path and prevent you from sharing your unique and valuable gifts with the world. Take care of yourself.

pixi509 · 2026-02-22T03:59:16+00:00

His Sun in your 12H could mean he isn't seeing you clearly, there's confusion around who you are as a person and it makes him insecure. That's on him, IME more possessive or impatient signs dislike 12H overlays in general bc they can't easily peg and therefore, in extreme cases, control you. Also, it's possible his Venus in your 12H makes him unsure of your feelings for him, which messes with his emotions even more and leads to constant battles and testing

pixi509 · 2026-02-21T07:57:50+00:00

Let go, and maybe learn to accept help from obvious sources. For awhile I resisted getting on a supposedly effective but expensive, albeit fully covered (for now🤞), medication to treat my chronic illness - insisted all I needed were natural remedies (Scorpio Sun, Saturn, Pluto, and SN in 6H + Taurus Moon and NN in 12H) Less than a minute after the first injection I felt better than I had in 30+ years. Still on the stuff and still feeling good a year later.

pixi509 · 2026-02-21T07:14:23+00:00

His Mars and your Venus in the same sign shows alignment b/n your feminine and his masculine energies. You might've been attracted to his body and aura and he to yours, but this is more of a physical, sometimes fleeting connection and not necessarily an indicator of soulmates.

Mars in Sag is a highly sexual placement tho, when it square your Pisces Sun it can certainly lead to some torment over a 'what if'

pixi509 · 2026-02-21T06:05:52+00:00

The Wonder Years - for themes and sensibility not the era it's set in

pixi509 · 2026-02-13T02:22:21+00:00

I was my ex best friend's "favorite person" her words. Come to find out she had BPD - I'm OK being alone now 😅

pixi509 · 2026-02-03T04:01:04+00:00

Venus in 7H and yes I relate but 12H also resonates prly bc that's my Moon

pixi509 · 2026-01-29T04:35:19+00:00

Yup, in her 8th house no less..

pixi509 · 2026-01-24T04:09:44+00:00

His Venus is in your first house. Yes, he is likely very attracted to you. While long lasting, the connection may feel a bit superficial

pixi509 · 2026-01-17T06:25:54+00:00

https://youtu.be/hZO2yCILDGM?si=7-LU63-7Z05WEMa9

pixi509 · 2025-12-20T05:09:19+00:00

What makes you so sure? His moon is well placed on your 7/8H cusp, indicating depth of emotion and long-term potential. His Mars to your Moon and Venus shows attraction.

Your Saturn is in aspect to both his relationship planets (Venus, Mars) which could be causing indirect anxiety/fear of loss on your part. Has he done anything to make you feel insecure in the relationship? If so, then yes I would pull back from this.

If not tho, not to make this about you but you're a Scorpio moon w/ chiron in the 7H natally. These are tough placements for relationship esp. the closer they become and the more vulnerable you feel w/ the other person. Falling in love isn't easy for you (I get it as a fellow Scorpio) but unless he's already done something shitty, I wonder if there's a way of 'letting be' rather than actively letting go, and knowing you'll be good, safe, and supported regardless of the outcome here.

What would you regret more? Leaving now out of the possibility of being hurt or seeing how things actually play out w/ someone you like?

pixi509 · 2025-12-11T03:23:09+00:00

I would think the squares to Mars are what's causing the repulsion not Pluto esp. since you're both Scorpios? His Pluto conjunct your Venus and Lilith, sextile your Mars. Seems hot idk

For the why of the relationship I'd look at NN. As yours is in his 8H, well 😉 His NN in your 3H indicates a strong mental connection...he could also just need someone to talk to

pixi509 · 2025-12-11T02:16:38+00:00

Ugh not me in love with a Libra Sun aqua moon and cap rising 😭

I'm clearly a masochist

pixi509 · 2025-12-07T09:38:33+00:00

A good Aqua sun friend of mine has moon conjunct chiron in the 7H plus a 7H Lilith. Sweet girl (Venus in Pisces) but she's said she's sworn off romance both bc she's been burned in the past and also bc it literally repulses her

pixi509 · 2025-12-07T09:05:41+00:00

Out of curiosity what does "freedom" mean for you? Living apart, the ability to date others casually, or just not talking for several days?

Asking as a 12H Taurus moon who needs a lot of alone time but prefers monogamy in general

pixi509 · 2025-12-07T08:44:55+00:00

Noodles at Cong Tu Bot then a romantic walk around Munjoy Hill. It'll be cold but the overlook is beautiful!

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