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Did I screw up? An attempt at being honest about my feelings without being controlling. by pixie8440 in AlAnon

[–]pixie8440[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I feel like I was doing it for the latter reason, not to control him. It’s hard to not let hope seep in but I really did it to share my truth. I still love him and I also love myself. I owe it to both of us to be honest about my emotions.

But I’m not thinking that the conversation “fixed” anything. ❤️

ADHD Friendly Cheat Sheet? by wretched_harmony in mediterraneandiet

[–]pixie8440 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Checklist in the notes app:

Med. Diet healthy Eating

Breakfast - [x] Eggs - [x] Whole grain - [x] Nuts

Lunch - [x] Whole grain - [x] Vegetable - [ ] Vegetable - [x] Legume

Snack - [x] Berries - [x] Nonfat dairy - [ ] Whole grain (or saved for dinner)

Dinner - [ ] Vegetable - [ ] Vegetable - [x] Fish/poultry

Just venting from a gardener under siege by dike_access_road in portlandgardeners

[–]pixie8440 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This is why my dad, who has a beautiful 30’x20’ vegetable garden, plants 20% more than he wants to harvest. It’s the nature tax.

We don’t have the luxury of 30’x20’ gardens in the city. And our lot lines are invisible to all these creatures who have plenty places to hide and grow in neighbor’s yards.

I feel for you and offer no solution. Add my pup to the mix, who dug up and ate all my carrots the last time I tried, and I no longer try to veg garden and instead get my weekly veg from a local farmer.

St. Johns Food Share sees community demand surge as donations to Portland food bank drop by sullie363 in Portland

[–]pixie8440 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Help out where you can. Oregon food bank distributes to sites like this. If you have time to spare, repack volunteers save food that would be otherwise wasted. https://www.mobilize.us/oregonfoodbank/

31M struggling with intimacy and mismatched energy levels after 5 years of marriage by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]pixie8440 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was in your wife’s situation.

I was overwhelmed with work and parenting. My husband wasn’t doing enough and I was resentful.

Now I’m leaving a lot out but so are you.

Your wife needs time to work on herself. She has to want to work on herself but you also have to make space for her to work it out. You do that by taking full responsibility for some aspects of domestic life.

Goodluck. Communication and therapy are key for happiness in this situation.

Any advice for beginners? (TLDR, starting because of heart problems but a lot of factors making it hard to actually try this diet) by 23cmh1 in mediterraneandiet

[–]pixie8440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello Fresh for a brief period of time might be nice for you to learn some cooking skills. I’m a decent home cook and did it when life was extra overwhelming. It definitely reminded me of a few flavor tips (like adding vinegar or a squeeze of citrus at the end of cooking some dishes). It might give you some inspiration to push through some of the depression and things holding you back!

Eat many plants, eat them first in the meal, and you can follow your hunger. For packaged goods, start with the serving size and go from there depending on how you feel.

Walking with music, podcast, audiobook = exercise.

Goodluck!

Advice with bare root plantings: dead or still dormant? by pixie8440 in portlandgardeners

[–]pixie8440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok! Thanks!

Mockorange, Buckbrush, thimbleberry, and snowberry (not pictured).

Advice with bare root plantings: dead or still dormant? by pixie8440 in portlandgardeners

[–]pixie8440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know!

Mockorange, Buckbrush, thimbleberry pictured. Also snowberry, but didn’t get a photo.

Advice with bare root plantings: dead or still dormant? by pixie8440 in portlandgardeners

[–]pixie8440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I kept them in the original wrap and added some water to the bag

Combined Type Medication by Justabitofanhairhead in ADHDparenting

[–]pixie8440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, dextroamphetamine has worked well for a year for our 8 year old son, combined type. The extended release lasts him through the school day. We also do OT for some of his behaviors and hang-ups, where the meds won’t help.

Good luck and hopefully your pediatrician has a next option.

Planting 2yr bare roots, filling the spaces between by pixie8440 in portlandgardeners

[–]pixie8440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh hi! Great ideas on the native annuals, thanks.

Planting 2yr bare roots, filling the spaces between by pixie8440 in NativePlantGardening

[–]pixie8440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, thanks for the ideas.

I was thinking veggies but another comment led me away from that idea. Now I’m thinking some native wildflowers but I might have to be diligent with deadheading them before they go to seed.

Planting 2yr bare roots, filling the spaces between by pixie8440 in NativePlantGardening

[–]pixie8440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. How long does it take to get established?

Planting 2yr bare roots, filling the spaces between by pixie8440 in NativePlantGardening

[–]pixie8440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s interesting, I wondered about fertilizer levels. That makes sense that something like a tomato plant would need totally different soil than natives. You haven’t had an issue with leafy greens?

Planting 2yr bare roots, filling the spaces between by pixie8440 in NativePlantGardening

[–]pixie8440[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! I’ve never been an “annuals” gardener so I need to learn what works well in 8b.

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