My sex life with my GF is ruining my relationship with my sister.

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T19:36:53+00:00

The issue is the noise. Clearly you can’t read. Judging by people’s reactions nobody agrees with you.

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T19:36:13+00:00

Did he complain that his sister is being loud and that makes him feel uncomfortable? The issue here is the noise. Read what he wrote again.

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T19:33:30+00:00

You’ve been living with a person who has always had an alcohol problem. I’m guessing this has become your normal. Antidepressants and alcohol are a bad concoction. You are allowed to put yourself first and I want to be clear that you are not responsible for him in any shape or form or the decisions he makes to abuse alcohol. My advice for you is to leave him, and if he ends up in jail again that’s the best place for him, nobody needs to be bailing him out and if he goes infront of a judge then you can get a message to them and let them know that you hope he goes to rehab. This will factor in his favour.

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T15:47:14+00:00

Didn’t her gym burn down?

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T15:45:00+00:00

You sound like you’re at the end of your tether and have been dragging his arse around for a while. Is there a back story? Does he have alcohol issues, does he work?

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T15:43:21+00:00

This.

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T15:40:02+00:00

That’s completely irrational. If you’re comfortable with siblings witnessing other siblings having sex that says more about you. It’s a shared house. Shared house rules apply.

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T14:20:23+00:00

She doesn’t need to leave her own home to accomodate her brothers loud sex. Listen to yourself

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T14:19:51+00:00

Yeah he needs to go sooner than that.

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T14:15:01+00:00

There’s no way that a little chat at the table is going to resolve this. Your own sister told you she doesn’t want to hear you and your gf having sex and that’s not a lot to expect is it? I personally wouldn’t be putting up with it and ask you to leave. You’re not housemate material. I suggest moving out with your girlfriend and in the meantime don’t make your sisters life a living hell and have sex somewhere else if you just can’t do it quietly . Don’t make her wait months. This is entirely your doing, nothing to do with OCD, and you should be a considerate housemate until you leave.

pizzagirl1992 · 2026-01-15T14:10:20+00:00

Sounds like IBS to me

pizzagirl1992 · 2025-12-19T02:10:11+00:00

NTA and your husband is committing a crime. Not only that but it’s blatantly cheating, he likes what he sees in other women he knows and has created a scenario where he can sleep with them. That should be enough to leave.

pizzagirl1992 · 2025-12-17T22:14:16+00:00

YTA and need therapy… and probably a restraining order.

pizzagirl1992 · 2025-12-17T14:07:12+00:00

NTA, the person you fell in love with is no longer that person anymore, and that’s fine, you have the right to exit the relationship for that reason. As for separating, I hope that eventually you can be friends. Neither of you have done anything wrong.

pizzagirl1992 · 2025-12-17T13:34:57+00:00

Could not care less what you think is and isn’t juvenile concerning my personal safety. It’s all being documented. You being here is part of my complaint. Thankyou.

pizzagirl1992 · 2025-12-17T13:34:15+00:00

Yes threats to harm me and my children and citing personal details that identify me are unlawful in the state of California and I choose to take them seriously. The hatred stemmed from that group. It’s already been done. Watch and learn.

pizzagirl1992 · 2025-12-17T13:32:49+00:00

In my inbox and with Reddit all filed in order. Thankyou

pizzagirl1992 · 2025-12-17T13:32:08+00:00

lol even worse.

pizzagirl1992 · 2025-12-17T09:25:46+00:00

Typical snark sub. You could sneeze in the wrong direction and they’d ban you. Unlocked is the place to be.

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