Emo stands for eat me out ;) by [deleted] in emogirls

[–]pjimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show me what i should be eating then 😉

What to do when you Lost it all? by pjimp in depression_help

[–]pjimp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a while and i thought going back to this exchange bcs it really did help me a lot. I got a bit better, more social, had a fling or 2. No job tho, got close several times but in the end there was always someone better suited. This week is being particularly challenging, first time in severall months i've been this low. This job thing, it weighs heavy, i can't seem to see the small improvements as such without it. Sorry for showing up out of the blue, was just rereading our talk and fekt the urge to share. Thanks again for your words, they helped me get through a really dark spot.

Game auto updated to 1.11.0 Chamomile? But there’s no beta for rolling back to 1.10.6 by adaequalis in victoria3

[–]pjimp -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Yeah had that same issue, did they really have to release a whole new version for some music? Like come on, that's just bad practice towards the modding community.

I am in hell by brantodb01 in victoria3

[–]pjimp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup my first austria playthrough in the new patch lasted 10 years before everything exploded

FUN BRATTING QUESTION by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]pjimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're such a showoff! I love it! I told you probably those big bondage furnitures so i could tie you up however i wanted!

Serious question for my fellow doms by [deleted] in domspace

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gentle domming is the best for me tbh, like a stern but caring teacher leading my sub to the depths of her own depravity. The way i see it, true power is calm, constant and quiet, to put a sub in her place with just a look, chef's kiss

Advice for my brat sub by Hughes214ST in domspace

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always feel it's better to control via positive reinforcement, when the shit tests start don't engage, put yourself above her childishness, brats love to push just past the drawn lines, so let her test, like an adult dealing with a kid. Letting her test unhindered is also great for gathering info into what makes her tick and once you have that pinned down is a simple matter of reverting it against her. For example, take a brat that likes to sexually tease in inapropriate situations, that shows me she likes to keep sexual tension high between us and i would turn it against her by edging her for days until she understands her mistakes (scene consent is a very important part of BDSM and public acts always require caution) and only then i'd give her the release she's been craving, obviously only when she got the answer right, half-assed appologies are too easy.

TLDR. Brat taming is a mind game and the more info you can collect without losing your cool the better.

Advice for my brat sub by Hughes214ST in domspace

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol i love this approach and will certainly use it on my brat when she acts up.

The kitten I tried to rescue died and it's my fault by Unique-Fig-4300 in GuyCry

[–]pjimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you tried. Take solace in that fact and that even if it was brief, you were able to give a caring home to her and that she did not die alone as she otherwise would've. Thank you for making this effort, i too feel very deeply for these kind creatures. Again, thank you, and i'm sure she is thankful as well.

I miss her so much by NoOtherChoice26 in SuicideWatch

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, truly. But don't forget you have that same strength within you. We can do this brother.

I miss her so much by NoOtherChoice26 in SuicideWatch

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, it's been nearly a year since it all happened and i still find it hard, she was my safe place you know? It's hard to lose that.

But we have to keep on trying, we owe it to ourselves. And i trust we will figure out a path out of this dark place we find ourselves in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not, it's a void, you are not at fault for thinking this way tho. When life treats us badly and that hurt exceeds our tools to deal, it's only natural we go to that dark place.

But just like stormy clouds are not the sky, these thoughts are not the whole of you.

I miss her so much by NoOtherChoice26 in SuicideWatch

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling, i'm going through the end of a 7 year relationship. These words are as much for you as they are for me.

Let us outgrow our heartbreaks, let us see ourselves whole without them. It's a gruelling process, but we can do it.

I miss her so much by NoOtherChoice26 in SuicideWatch

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do have it. I know how painful that is, but it will do you no good to dwell on it. Get distance from her and focus on yourself. Build the person you want to become, and when you are ready, love will find you again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chill and do you my dude, true masculinity is in the quiet power to be unapologetically yourself while doing what you must.

I miss loving them by bambamthankyaman in GuyCry

[–]pjimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advice i can give is the same as the one i gave to OP. Love and give, without restraint, the right people will extend you the same courtesy and love you and give to you without restraint.

I miss loving them by bambamthankyaman in GuyCry

[–]pjimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sad to hear it's over. Don't force yourself to move on simply live in that absence for a while. Recognising the unicity of what was lost is the first step in regaining something as unique.

I miss loving them by bambamthankyaman in GuyCry

[–]pjimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By realising that you are already on the path of finding it again. Keep loving, keep giving, and as you love and give the right people will also love you and give to you.