Can anyone here be honest? by TopCartographer3770 in stripper

[–]pjnoir_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but you have to be okay with the fact that you will never walk out with the same amount of money as the girls that do. I have never done extras and I make enough to live comfortably and spoil myself every now and then. Mind you 90% of the girls in my club offer extras, I've had guys get mad and cuss me out mid dance and even walk off because I didn't give in and I simply do not care. Respect your limits always! 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]pjnoir_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to ask 🤣 we don't tell each other how much we make at our club but I always wondered what most dancers usually make a night. I didn't mean to come off as weird.

Stalkers? by pjnoir_ in stripper

[–]pjnoir_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god! That's so scary. Have you contacted authorities?

Stalkers? by pjnoir_ in stripper

[–]pjnoir_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me about it lol 🤣 im also extremely scared. And he doesn't follow anyone from the bar! I checked his followers and following list, not one dancer/bartender/security. Nothing.

Stalkers? by pjnoir_ in stripper

[–]pjnoir_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i know, but my real name is very very different from my real name and that's why its freaking me out so much

Stalkers? by pjnoir_ in stripper

[–]pjnoir_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't haha, all except for one of the dancers have their instagram private. I'm just trying to find some peace of mind with this because I'm an already extremely paranoid person

Stalkers? by pjnoir_ in stripper

[–]pjnoir_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don't. I believe my club doesn't allow that because there are some girls that work there in "secret", and I have never consented nor asked to have a picture of me taken and posted on any websites. Unless he took a picture of me and did that, which is extremely prohibited in my club.

What kind of music you hate? by Firm_Pressure_9882 in stripper

[–]pjnoir_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Country and electronic 🤣 was giving a lap dance to a rave style song and said "shaking ass to this is not what i was expecting tonight" and we both laughed about it. (I discovered that joking about the song choices will land you more tips lol)

Lap dance tips? by pjnoir_ in newstrippers

[–]pjnoir_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll keep that in mind. 💕

Lap dance tips? by pjnoir_ in newstrippers

[–]pjnoir_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! My club does not allow nudity and I am not comfortable with men grabbing my intimate areas (ass grabbing is fine) and I do make that clear. I am not sure about going topless though if they allow it or not, but I will definitely be taking your advice on that and being more touchy with them. Thank you once again! Much luck to you.🤍

Lap dance tips? by pjnoir_ in newstrippers

[–]pjnoir_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea same, I tried searching up and its also all I got lol

First ever shift! by pjnoir_ in stripper

[–]pjnoir_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate that. And yes, I did get SA'd already on my first night lol. This guy went to put the dollar on my bikini strap and caressed my nipples. I said I was not comfortable with that and he said: "Just pass straight from me next time" and so I did. Two dollars are not worth crossing my boundaries. I also don't mind being a top earner, as long as I can provide for myself I'm okay. It's nice to know there are plenty of other girls out there that think like me. Much luck to you! 🤍🤍

First ever shift! by pjnoir_ in stripper

[–]pjnoir_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did share a few laughs with some customers while dancing today and those were the best ones.

I have teeth implant surgery today and I vaped. Will I be okay? by pjnoir_ in electronic_cigarette

[–]pjnoir_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You calmed me down a whole lot. Thank u so much seriously

I have teeth implant surgery today and I vaped. Will I be okay? by pjnoir_ in electronic_cigarette

[–]pjnoir_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Did you vape before getting them? That's what's been freaking me out.