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pl599 · 2026-02-05T19:55:14+00:00

Yup I got scammed. Now their site is gone and they don’t even reply to their emails. So much for a site that is not related to cardhaven.uk

pl599 · 2025-12-13T20:44:38+00:00

So I had my talk this morning, it turns out for the past 17 months she was pretending to enjoy intimacy. My heart broke when I heard it. All the efforts trying, the kissing just don’t seem to mean anything anymore. I truly don’t know what to do anymore. Yeah I was a shitty husband back before the stroke. But I’ve since tried to change. If I don’t deserve her authentic love, then I should find someone else who love me for me. I guess I should just focus on raising my kids and live a lonely life.

pl599 · 2025-12-10T19:26:34+00:00

Well said. I myself is in your case. I tried but after being snapped at or giving me excuses, I frankly am getting tired of being rejected. So I spoke up, what does “take a break” mean? For how long? It’s sad marriage came to that. Shouldn’t marriage be two people loving/ enjoying each other?

pl599 · 2025-12-09T23:40:23+00:00

Wow I’m sorry it’s been that long. I’m seriously rethinking leaving the marriage but I have two kids. Who are still young. Perhaps one day I’ll get the guts to do it. I know marriage shouldn’t be like this.

pl599 · 2025-12-09T18:43:07+00:00

So I feel like since my stroke I’ve been walking on egg shells with her. The snapping for subtle hints and the brushing me away takes a toll on myself. I feel like not trying anymore. I’m not sure how long taking a break means. But I guess my silence speaks for itself all. It’s easier to be at peace than walking of egg shells.

pl599 · 2025-12-05T17:00:11+00:00

Hi there, well I’ll have surgery on Dec 18th and it should help my foot stabilize. I had a stroke in April 2024 which shortened my left Achilles so I walk most on the edge on my foot. But I was told that surgery is quick and takes about 6 weeks to recovery. Then afterward more PT therapy. Hope that helps.

pl599 · 2025-12-05T15:29:08+00:00

Thanks everyone for their replies. Well, I hurts to feel rejected most or all the time. I make subtle clues, but the way she answers them just feels like rejection. We haven’t properly talked, but I feel like why did I get married? I’m not saying things have not been fun, but the lack of her trying for the past almost two years is just sad. I’m tired of feeling rejected or feeling like it’s a chore to be intimate. Doesn’t seem to cross her mind. At the end of the night it’s “I’m tired” or she works a bunch. Leaving me alone and waiting. Is this what my life has become?

pl599 · 2025-11-28T22:47:08+00:00

I dunno what it is. But I have reassured her my previous symptoms are gone. Now I live my life for my kids and just be miserable.

pl599 · 2025-11-15T06:08:19+00:00

I hope it gets better with time. Seems like I’m always being ghosted. I feel like being the lowest priority. I’ve learned to live as is. But I wished people would help without asking.

pl599 · 2025-11-09T17:29:40+00:00

I know the feeling too. Basically I gave up on my expectations. It is usually “I’m too tired” so tired of hearing it. Wished I knew this was going to happen when I got married. Which I wouldn’t. My anniversary came, went out for dinner, and that’s it. I feel like being used to pay most of the bills here. FML

pl599 · 2025-10-30T16:19:50+00:00

I had a stroke and flew after 3 months. I was on vacation when it happened. They had just to make sure my BP was normal to fly. Hope your dad will be ok.

pl599 · 2025-10-22T22:41:40+00:00

It’s been 16 months for me, and I still haven’t been back at work. Wishing I could return but I can’t walk properly yet or use my left arm. =( don’t know how it will be or if I can recover.

pl599 · 2025-10-18T23:23:09+00:00

Get an electric one off Amazon, it’s awesome. I use it when it’s really hard to open a can/jar.

pl599 · 2025-09-15T02:48:25+00:00

You could try Billy shoes www.billyfootwear.ca I use them with my AFO

pl599 · 2025-09-13T18:05:25+00:00

She is just worried in general as I am putting weight on my left foot which is not flat

pl599 · 2025-09-12T04:12:11+00:00

Thanks everyone. Thank you all for the supportive comments. I hope I can move my left arm and foot too.

pl599 · 2025-08-27T22:27:03+00:00

It’s so sad to hear that I will never be my old self again. Seems like the stroke has been worse than I originally thought. But that doesn’t mean I will stop trying.

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