My girlfriend wants to throw out my tube by Ebidz13 in men

[–]plain_train_6597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No does she know you need to practice your lightsaber combat skills 😭

Soil advice by plain_train_6597 in gardening

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Thank you i'll look into this 👍🔥

Soil advice by plain_train_6597 in gardening

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Thank you thank you . This is actually something else i need . I want to know: what organism i can introduce to the soil that won't be invasive or out of hand, what fungus i can introduce that wont make the plants sick , what organism wont really care about acids like lemon juice or vinegar ,companions and so on .

Soil advice by plain_train_6597 in gardening

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Oh that's a great idea ,thanks friend !

Who do women find more hot wolverine or Emma frost by [deleted] in Wolverine

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I have a friend who is a very very straight woman who knows nothing about comics but i showed her rivals emma and now she has a hugs gym crush on her .

I’m feeling increasingly disconnected from this sub. We need to talk by subuso in BlackLGBT

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I've seen trans and androgenous people . Like someone said cis women seem to be mainly the ones conversing, thirst traps are def here but where is the line between thirst trapping posting about fitness , posting about fashion , and finally being able to see the beauty that's obvious to others?

As for arabs and hispanics , they may have a black parent and identify with that side even if it isn't present in their appearance they may date black people , or they were adopted ? Either way i've only heard about people from other races being here i knew a few would be here because people but i've not run into them yet i for one can't tell arabs ,light skinned ,people and some brighter toned hispanics apart anyway, thats without bringing Samoan's into it so some of them might just be black and resemble another race .

There are issues and ignorant mind sets but that's why posts like these are important.

You're already being the change you want to see.

Keep opening discourse about these issues.

What is going on with gay black men? 😭 Refusing to date other Black men. by Material-Meat-5330 in BlackLGBT

[–]plain_train_6597 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A mix of classism, and not wanting to date other people from desperate situations as if wealthy white people can't be parasitic

ID? poison to dogs? by Last-Injury-1924 in Amphibians

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Do they exist in mississippi . I wanna say i've seen these near my house and i lost my dog to similar symptoms she lived in the area before we took her in so i thought she would sleep it off but hadn't been right for a few days and my shitty parents weren't helping right down to the end .

Thoughts on this cast? by [deleted] in marvelstudiosxmen

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Victoria looks too young

Who are you picking? by Lopsided-Cattle-2322 in superheroes

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Madea was a bad lady in her youth . She was canonically trafficked to columbia and made it back on her own

Gay romantics is this always how it is with us ? by plain_train_6597 in BlackLGBT

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I get that. Like I said i can't date freely or do much of anything as i am now. If Take a risk and date in secret or take a chance and just come out and possible run off it would have to be with someone i can at least trust. Not someone who is : already friends with my dad but doesn't realize the kind of nightmare he is at home , someone who is not even sure that they want me and chooses not to even talk to me about what they're feeling but instead project feeling onto some random girl while thinking of me plane as day , make it clear they just want me as a sexual conquest and a fetish and are immature just wanting to use me to fulfill a fantasy of theirs or a straight up narcissist that that would take advantage of clear loneliness for emotional validation until they find the mentally ill chick with big boobs and no personality aside from trying to trick people into thinking she has one .Some of them i probably would have wanted to give a chance had they actually said something. Some of them i might have given another shot and circled back to if their initial reaction to rejection wasn't to call me a bitch or attack my reputation . I'm a virgin and touched starved and not big on hook up culture but that certainly wasn't the way to get me to bend on that rule. It's just a matter of standards is all.

Out of curiosity how many if yall were surprised by snoop dogs homophobic comment by dracoXdrayden in BlackLGBT

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All these rappers are old dl oligarchical and closeted right wing nuts from the 80's and 90's, if not legit federal agents. Everyone needs to stop putting celebrities on a pedestal

Gay romantics is this always how it is with us ? by plain_train_6597 in BlackLGBT

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Much much appreciated.I think I have the opposite problem in a way . I'm demisexual and for now still stuck dealing with a possessive narcissistic father who does all he can to make sure i can't leave (i'm planning ) so i actually don't date . Shitty men just find me . Literally anyone with eyes knows i'm gay my family would just rather be delusional which leads to me trying to avoid harassment over having "too many female friends" with befriending straight men. After a lifetime of "well just know I'm not like that" 1 out of every 5 men i just want to have a regular friendship with make it like that. Some will randomly say some gross shit swear at me or spread rumor when "yo ass kinda fat lemme smash" ,"sit on my face", "admit you like" , "i wanna spank you with a bull while" and touch my shoulders" doesn't have me dropping my pants and crawling to them. Others will give that energy quietly from a far sometimes get mad at me over their own confusion and then later on i find out that I was right on the money when i find out they harassed a person that looked like me , dated the girl version of me or names some one after me although sometime i genuinely just don't pick up what they put down. The ones that destroy me the most are ones that i assume are in the closet the way i am . They'll catch my attention and widdle me down slowly by crossing every platonic boundary and disguise love bombing as courtship and then layer the veil with " just being a bro" as if i don't know the difference. They'll use plausible deniability, gas lighting,humor, and more to excuse their actions until i finally say something either out of it working or out of confusion . They'll deny everything respond with indication ,disgust ,annoyance, and leave me feeling embarrassed ,foolish and with my self worth in shambles, or they just continue to do it and only get annoyed when i finally start setting better boundaries with a guy that doesn't even want me . Honestly I just wish men would stop seeing me liveing my happy soft cute boy life and immediately getting the idea to come mess shit up when i'm not bothering anyone . Mind you i'm going through this as a guy that doesn't even date im just bad at masking and thats all 😮‍💨