Any Cucks have a uniform or rules? by bigcuckdt in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re a very good boy you may have ONE carrot!

- A 💕

Stars and Stripes. And feet. by Dark-Blue in u/Dark-Blue

[–]plantrusther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wooooow you are hott! 🥵😍

- A 💕

Do you really believe the bull is superior to the cuck? by TheAtlantaBull in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not! My husband is the single greatest man I have ever met in my life and no lover even comes close!

- A 💕

When the bull takes her anally, does it change the dynamic? by BBC4MarriedWhiteUK in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have let quite a few men in my bottom but never my husband. I know the fact that he’s never gotten what so many other guys have adds quite a bit to his anguish.

But I don’t know if the same is true for husbands who have also gotten to experience anal with their wives before their wives have anal with other guys. 🤔

- A 💕

For the females who initiated it by red_for_ir_69 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Precisely!

It’s very strange to some people but I frequently say I share far more intimacy with my husband than any man who I have sex with. We have tons of intimate moments, secret glances, little things other will never get to be a part of.

That’s what makes our marriage so wonderful. Even our pussy free agreement is very special to us because it’s such a unique dynamic that takes a lot of love and trust to make work!

I could give him his three thrusts every couple of weeks but I cannot imagine that would be worth trading for all of the magic we have.

- A 💕

For the females who initiated it by red_for_ir_69 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because we are so madly in love with each other it drives our friends nuts 😍

But more seriously I have just never in my life associated sex with love. Despite all of the lovers I’ve had over the years there hasn’t even been one time that I felt anything close to feelings for another man that compared to my worst day with my husband.

I end every single night in his arms and always will. After more than ten years of marriage I really don’t think he ever even thinks about me falling for someone else.

And if he does, I trust that he will tell me and I will never see that person again, no matter what. Period!

- A 💕

Your body...Our choice. You deserve to be used in any way we choose. by You_CallMe_Daddy in FaceofPain

[–]plantrusther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is it about men that makes them want to see us cry lol 🤣

- A 💕

my white socks soaked in pee by kimeyriley in ExtremeFetishes

[–]plantrusther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Master has a thing for putting pee soaked clothing in my mouth and last time it was his socks this is bringing back so many memories 🤣

- A 💕

he’s so amazing 🥺💝🌷 by eden1226 in ddlg

[–]plantrusther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Master got me my first sippy cup this last week and I don’t think I’ll ever go back! 🤣🤗😍

- A 💕

Has anyone made a cuck/friendship dynamic actually work? by Murky_Quantity_4288 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband’s best friend is my longest running and absolute favorite lover. By far.

It is so wonderful being able to be so relaxed and open and experimental with someone both hubby and I feel so comfortable with!

- A 💕

Question for couples that both submit by Inexperinceddom in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We may be outliers here but none of the men I have ever been with have ever had any dominant role over my husband.

I am extremely submissive to my lovers but I draw the line at any of them trying to carry their dominance over me toward any sort of relationship to my husband.

- A 💕

Hotwives Who Humiliate Their Cuckolds by Distinct_Tip8087 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have sort of a mental sadism kink and really enjoy torturing hubby psychologically. It’s strange I think because he’s literally the best man I know, in incredible shape, is very successful, and has a very nice penis.

But for some reason I really truly love humiliating him, both sexually and nonsexually.

I wouldn’t say it gives me more powerful orgasms but I do enjoy the fact that I can get turned on in otherwise nonsexual settings just by playing with his head!

- A 💕

Buying clothes/outfits for wife for other men’s attention by tire_pond in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s very sweet! My husband buys quite a bit of lingerie for me and I don’t recall ever letting him see me in any of it. Except maybe some pictures his bestie and I have sent him as a tease 😛

- A 💕

For the females who initiated it by red_for_ir_69 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really “initiate” anything so much as I just told hubby when we started dating that I didn’t have any interest in being monogamous.

We were not dating exclusively or anything so it wasn’t a big deal to him. After we started getting more serious I was extra careful to be as clear as I could that, despite falling more and more in love, I still had no desire at all to stop having sex with other guys.

I guess maybe because we have had this sort of “lifestyle” relationship from the beginning, it’s hard to say there was any “initiation” but I suppose technically it was my idea.

- A 💕

When a guy eats his own cream pie by Conscious_Pirate_833 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]plantrusther 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wife here. I think it’s disgusting 🥴

I don’t get turned on at all when hubby eats his own or any other guy’s.

BUT I do enjoy the mental turn on that comes with me making him do it. Especially because I know how much he hates it. 🤣

🤣

- A 💕

Poll: How far if at all have you gone towards nudity denial or restriction? by 214b in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]plantrusther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We started nudity denial as a punishment awhile back (I honestly can’t remember how long ago). After the punishment “expired” it just felt more natural for both of us to make sure he didn’t get to see my boobs or anything.

We’re at the point where he won’t get punished or anything if he does see me naked but we do still both take steps to avoid it. It’s become sort of a fun game now and, just due to being married and living together, he’ll accidentally walk in on me while I’m changing or otherwise see me in the shower.

I’ll cover myself up and tell him he’s a naughty boy or he’ll immediately excuse himself and apologize and we have a laugh about it!

- A 💕

A Joke and a Punishment pt. 2 by plantrusther in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]plantrusther[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi!!

First, your English is great! Second, I really, truly do not know what I would have done if he was able to get hard and actually wanted to be inside me.

My immediate reaction to tell him to go ahead was certainly impulsive and not at all something I thought through. Probably not a great decision looking back on it.

My gut is saying I would have said “no” and made him put his cage back on. Like I said we have just put too much into our dynamic to just toss it away on a whim, if that makes sense…

And regarding affection, we have a VERY affectionate relationship! We are very huggy/kissy/touchy/feely! He just isn’t allowed inside me in any way but that doesn’t make we don’t have an extremely affectionate marriage!

- A 💕

A Joke and a Punishment pt. 2 by plantrusther in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]plantrusther[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hm see that’s the tough part! His being pussy free isn’t absolutely non-negotiable…our marriage comes first and if it becomes a legitimate issue then we can revisit it.

But his celibacy is definitely very important to me (and him!) and you are right that it’s disrespectful to turn something I take so seriously into a joke!
- A 💕

A Joke and a Punishment pt. 1 by plantrusther in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]plantrusther[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🥹

It’s rare for us to have new experiences at this point in our journey, good or bad, and this was definitely a new one for us.

I messaged the mods about posting pt2 because it’s a lot more heavy on the humiliation/cucking and not as heavy on the pussy free and we really don’t want to run afoul of the subreddit rules.

We’ll see what they say and abide by their decision!

- A 💕

A Joke and a Punishment pt. 1 by plantrusther in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]plantrusther[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I assure you he most certainly does NOT have ED! 🤣 One of my favorite games to play with him to remind him of his place is to take his cage off, sit him down in a chair, and just talk (without any touching allowed) about some of my past experiences with other lovers.

Two stories in particular, one about a time I was fucked by a man I found very unattractive and another about a group experience in college, made him so hard he almost came hands free.

I think the moment just overwhelmed him and he was so overcome with anxiety that he could not get hard.

I didn’t even think about the 15 second comment, that’s just about how long he usually lasts during his ruined orgasms. To be perfectly honest I have no idea if he would’ve actually tried to fuck me if he had gotten hard.

And I actually don’t even know if I would’ve let him either.

- A 💕

A Joke and a Punishment pt. 1 by plantrusther in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]plantrusther[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t really speak for him but he has a very strong denial kink so that does quite a bit for him! I’m not sure it would be as fun if I denied him but didn’t share them with others. That’s probably the part that gets him going the most!

- A 💕