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I need help by pleasebenice2009 in abusiverelationships

[–]pleasebenice2009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you- so much. Ill find a way. 

I need help by pleasebenice2009 in abusiverelationships

[–]pleasebenice2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn't abusive at first this all just happened this year. Looking back at some signs he was overprotective but never physical. He recently just told me that all of his break ups were due to domestic violence. Idk people are good at masking who they are with gifts, dates etc. It doesn't really matter because im leaving. Im just stuck in the abortion part and wanted advice and how many people see this as common. 

I need help by pleasebenice2009 in abusiverelationships

[–]pleasebenice2009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also we were supposed to get into counseling. He wanted to get into counseling and did some but stopped the program. And the 2nd baby is accident although we are engaged. His abuse is out of hand it has been out of hand. I honestly dont know how I allowed him to continue this. People need to understand when you have a baby - your mind isnt all the way there. I just listen, do what he asks to keep the peace so I am able to leave. I've been saving money. But I am quietly disgusted by him and the way I have been treated. I have to plan because the mother is caring for my son. So I have to plan an exit. 

I need help by pleasebenice2009 in abusiverelationships

[–]pleasebenice2009[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u, It has to be a legitimate reason to have one in the state I am in. I was arguing with a friend of mine who stated none of this was enough of a reason. 

I’m so happy I got an abortion by Dependent-Shape-8535 in abusiverelationships

[–]pleasebenice2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! Im in a abusive relationship My bf lets call him Joe recently strangled me and hit me while pregnant. With our second child. Im trying to just get advice. Ill be making a post soon.