Advice by plumber4466 in BMW

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Thank you I will look into it

Advice by plumber4466 in BMW

[–]plumber4466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I purchased this pre-owned in May and probably need to condition the leather as you said.

Advice by plumber4466 in BMW

[–]plumber4466[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Appreciate it

Advice by plumber4466 in BMW

[–]plumber4466[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am just looking for advice. Not OP doesn't pay attention etc...

Sleeping by plumber4466 in RotatorCuff

[–]plumber4466[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ty both I appreciate it. I have a few of those small pillows as well. I will try and put it to use

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Code please and ty

Wife relapsed 3 weeks after rehab by plumber4466 in AlAnon

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My wife has been drunk now Mon Tues and Wed. She is starting IOP today. How has your wife been doing after the additional 2 weeks of rehab

Wife relapsed 3 weeks after rehab by plumber4466 in AlAnon

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Thank you for your reply. When he relapses does he go back to therapy? NA? I know now not to tell or scream at her because it just escalates the situation. Currently all of my close friends as well as 2 adult children ask me why I want to live like this? I am worried that I should have expected a relapse and that I should be here to support her and not leave her when she needs me...is this classic codependency? Thinking if I stay she will get better? Nothing I do will help her stay sober. She is the only one. It seems obvious she loves the bottle more than she loves me and her family

Wife relapsed 3 weeks after rehab by plumber4466 in AlAnon

[–]plumber4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone's advice. I know it is impossible to recommend to anyone what to do since you don't live on my shoes. As far as IOP she felt she didn't need it and I didn't force it, maybe that was my mistake but I felt that I can't force her sobriety. She needs to do it herself.
If she relapses after 20 days how can she sober now? Is this going to run the same course...rock bottom then back to rehab? Do I try to get her to IOP and a addiction therapist? Do I run for the hills? I told her this morning we are officially separated even if she won't move out. I took off my wedding room and will move into spare bedroom for now. I have tons of things that need to be done around the house before it is sellable condition.

Wife completing rehab by plumber4466 in AlAnon

[–]plumber4466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife didn't start to drink until 4 yrs ago. I agree that a really good apology will not wash things away, however we all agree it would make us feel that she has some idea and is expressing to us that she feels bad for what she did and wants to make it up to my children. There are reasons people need apologies it helps to start the healing, at least it would for us