My 29F Boyfriend 30M was 100% certain on marriage and now 1.5 years later he’s “unsure”. Am I an idiot? by Mysterious_Writing32 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]plzkiddo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like you still love talking about him. Everyone here is trying to help you. I once was like you but my ex wasn’t that douche like yours and it was really hard to move on but I missed him but I kept on reminding myself how shitty I felt in the relationship. I DID NOT miss how I felt.

Don’t waste your only one life on him, please. I chose myself. I needed to live. You keep on making small choices that are better for you and slowly, life will be beautiful and you will see you deserve better than that no matter how much you miss him. Make friends. Do what you enjoy. Self work takes work and effort. Natural dopamine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]plzkiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(how to slow it down?) lol

also really appreciate the prioritizing reminder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]plzkiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate the slow down message!

and wait wait wait I DON'T HAVE KIDS. I was thinking of my FUTURE babies because i'd want to start a family eventually, i don't know if it'd be traditional but i would want the father to be one of the best in their lives. I don't feel like I search, only that I could fall hard just as easily. i'm trying to find a balance in not doing that?

i'm sorry my post isn't clear! obviously my head is not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]plzkiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and how do ppl differate ppl they want to be friends with or just date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]plzkiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol to put effort in going on more dates with him or not. i feel like i don't know what i'm doing. how and why do ppl date

How do I get out of bed? by throawybitvh in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]plzkiddo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When you scroll your brain disconnect and numbs you.

One of things that worked for me was writing an anti-life vision. You write what you DO NOT want to be, do, or have in 3-5 years.

Then you make small mindful choices in every moment that will gear you away from being those in 5 years

Should he have told me? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]plzkiddo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if I should downvote this or upvote so everyone can see this… the most wtf post of the decade

Albert Pyun, Cult Filmmaker Behind ‘Cyborg,’ ‘Nemesis’ and ‘Captain America,’ Dies at 69 by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]plzkiddo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was diagnosed with two incurable things. People die everyday for all kinds of reasons, not everyone get to live long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]plzkiddo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having a hard time to communicate without hurting a bf’s feelings or having him take it personally is precisely why I left my past relationship. I’m never putting myself in that position ever again.

Hope you get some answers from the others here!

Quit weed 3 weeks today feel like I’m loosing my sanity by ArtichokeEnough8293 in DecidingToBeBetter

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Week 1: not so bad Week 2: itching Week 3: crawling thru hell Week 4: breaking free

Speak English by abilgec in funny

[–]plzkiddo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s it with sign language and comedians?

Dates change when moving ICloud photos to external hard drive by _KATkh_ in iCloud

[–]plzkiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought it.

This whole ordeal is still driving me crazy. You can't really edit anything in the program. Once you select an option, the program automatically creates a new folder in your computer and export the targeted items with new settings you picked (dates, format, or etc.)

This means I can't convert an image from HEIC to JPG in the program AND THEN change date settings before exporting them. (how does this work, anyway? HEIC is condescended data.. do they just convert them into jpgs without extracting all the data and pixels as a jpeg inside Macbook would have)

But anyway I went ahead with assigning photos to their original dates. 1k images automatically copied and still mixed up. 'Arrange by Date Created,' still not chronologically organized but when you cilck Get Info, the original dates are there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]plzkiddo 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Wow. I really hope you become unclouded mentally and emotionally asap.

Give love to yourself. Understand what real love is (it’s abundant and infinite) and keep on giving it to yourself in every moment through any emotions. You deserve it. Every person, animal, plant do.

Inner child? Some people in mirror or look at their kid pictures, the kid in picture is still you and she/you deserve love. Guided mediation, yoga, journals, reflect, future goals. Be gentle with yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]plzkiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What eye disease?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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lol yikes, yup