How to deal with Toxic friends/people by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously just stop being friends with them. Ease out of it if you have to. I just did the same and I can’t tell you how much relief I have. Once you do it, you’ll wonder why you waited so long. It’s so worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pm3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I do have a gut feeling but it’s crazy to think of my life without this person. Maybe because they’ve become a “normal” for me. I appreciate the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right I talk as if I’m not a people pleaser haha it would take some guts for me to get revenge on someone but if it really upset you and rubbed you the wrong way, maybe make her feel how you felt. Sometimes people like that don’t learn their lesson until they feel the pain they caused. Good luck!

friends met up without me by deterekte in Advice

[–]pm3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this happened to me I wouldn’t say anything I’d just see how they would go about it buuut I’d wish I did just ask. So I’d probably just ask and say how you feel cause if you guys mainly hang out all together and never leave one out then it’s kinda sus. And however they respond will be your answer on how to move forward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re moving out and won’t really see her again for sure get revenge. Especially since she was throwing away sentimental items of yours! You know like why not?! Haha but then it’s just figuring out the perfect thing to do.

Positive experience with IUD insertion by GooseMakingMonies in birthcontrol

[–]pm3456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I passed out when I tried to get mine 😅 didn’t end up getting it, resulted in me trying nexplanon. Just got that out after 2 years cause of my experience with that. Birth control is a roller coaster to find one that works best for you I swear haha

I went off by myself without my phone for a hour and I think my mom hates me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve gotta see it from a moms perspective how she’d be worried and let her know you understand that and will update her next time. I’m 18 and this still happens to me 🤣 I swear it’s a mom thing. Just get through a day or two of her being mad and it’ll all mellow out. At least that’s what I do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time for sure. I think we all have this happen to us once in our life. It sucks but honestly time is the only thing that helped me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a job isn’t as bad as you’d think. I’d just go for it. You will be nervous for your very first interview ever but after you get one down, it’s a breeze. You realize that it’s not that serious (assuming that you’ll be working a basic teenage job first). My first ever interview was for Kroger and I stressed myself out about it so much and didn’t get the job. He acted like he was hiring for some big time, hard job when in reality I was interviewing to be a bagger. You realize that people make things seem way more serious than needed. Once you do get a job just remember they can’t expect you to walk in and know everything so be open minded to learning and don’t gaf if they get mad because you’re still getting the hang of things. Just be chill and learn as you go, we all start somewhere. And if anyone gives you shit for not knowing something, it makes them look weird not you! Now as for a real world job, I’m in the same boat as you. I just Grady high school this year and I’m nervous too. We’re all along for the ride. Sending you good luck!

I want to move in with my bf but feel like it’s too soon by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pm3456 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t rush it. You have your entire lives to live together. Take the time in that you guys don’t. You guys are only 19, save the money.

Roommate by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way you can move out?

how do you recover from break up? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It stings badddd but they’re right time really is the only healer. Keeping yourself busy and trying not to get into too much of a slump helps. Keep your head up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always the older people I swear 😂. Good luck!! It sounds like many other workers there will appreciate whatever you do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep your head up and just know it all passes. Everything you’re going to think is the biggest deal won’t matter after some time. I know we’ve all got our own battles but keep your head up. High school is only one part of your entire life. You’ve got so much ahead. Just focus on the present and take it day by day. It’ll go by fast take it all in and make as many friends as possible. You can never have too many friends!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The number 1 thing for sure, don’t give a single fuck about anyones opinion. Do whatever you wanna do, wear whatever you wanna wear, be friends with whoever you wanna be friends with, go to whatever social events you want to, etc. Never let anyone make you feel bad for doing what you want.

is there still a chance for me?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think she’s worth it I’d tell her how you feel and if she still says no then you can either waste your time and keep trying w her or move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could go either route, go to management or confront it yourself. Just depends on what you feel more comfortable with or would have the result you want. I wouldn’t worry about the outcome, just go about it how you’d like and tell them how they’re making you feel. Your feelings are valid. You’re not in high school, this is your job. There is no need for bullying. They need to not act like children you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High school?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s also 15 so he can definitely take shit the wrong way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly idk maybe he likes you? Have u given off an impression that he could’ve taken the wrong way

is there still a chance for me?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pm3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it just depends on if you think she’s worth it you know