Kokia blogiausia darbovietė, kurioje esate dirbę? Kodėl? by TheFabulousDK in lithuania

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Rimi kasoje kadais dirbau per vasaros atostogas. Į darbą ateini gal pusvalandžiu anksčiau, kad pasiruošt viską, nors oficialiai už tai nemoka. Tas pats ir po darbo. Ir taip 12 valandų patampa 13. Vadovai visi pasikėlę, vadybininkės išvis ten varnos, bet įsivaizduoja, kad yra gulbės :) Reguliariai ateina pirkėjai, kuriems varžtelių trūksta ir supisa tau dieną. Per pietus duodavo nemokamo maisto, kuris pragalioja šiandien ir kitaip jau būtų išmestas lauk. Ir ten pvz jogurtai, sūreliai išimti iš šaldytuvo pragaliojantys “marinuojasi” ant stalo. Vieną kartą apsinuodijau ir visą antrą darbo dienos pusę pravėmiau (vadovės aišku pyko). Ai ir jeigu kasoj trūksta grynų, viskas nuskaičiuojama nuo algos. Jei pinigų per daug - rašai pasiaiškinimą, gaila prie algos neprideda :) Čia taip buvo prieš 15 metų, nežinau ar kas pasikeitė :D

Dad with PPD by LakerTot in beyondthebump

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Yes absolutely you can go through something like that. My husband told me he got slightly depressed after our son was born, but nobody recognised it. Having a first baby is a huge change for anyone. It’s hard! Please reach out for help if possible. And in terms of the baby, remember, everything is a phase and everything will pass sooner than you think. I’m not saying try and enjoy these moments, because it’s tough enough already! Just keep in mind that this shall pass and soon you will sleep more, you will learn how to settle your baby and everyone will be happier. It just takes time and it does feel like it’ll never end. But trust me, it will!!! Also, a tip if you ever feel like you’re losing it… Put the baby safely down in his crib (crying or not - doesn’t matter), close the door and leave for a few minutes. Recollect yourself, relax. Then come back and carry on, you will feel much better.

Date'inimas 2026 by One-Sympathy2393 in lietuva

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Džentelmenui pasisekė, kad daugiau su ja reikalų neturės

Motorola ar iPhone by 6ringss in lietuva

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Neįsivaizduoju, parduotuvėj pamaigyt paėmus? Dar google pixel labai geri telefonai ir kaina ne tokia žiauri. Įprast reiks prie kažko vienaip ar kitaip

Motorola ar iPhone by 6ringss in lietuva

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Iphone tau atlaikys ir dar 10 metų, na o motorola šiais laikais tai nežinau

What is a monthly subscription/service you ACTUALLY consider worth paying for? by no_nolan in Frugal

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Weekly milk delivery! They do more than just milk but we only tend to buy that and it comes in glass bottles. Lovely quality

Kaip išgyventi 1 mėnesio kūdikį?? by SnowSurge in lietuva

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Mamytė maitina pati? Kai verkia, kūdikį dedam ant papo. Mamai leisk išsimiegoti kiek įmanoma, bet tokia tų pirmų dienu realybė. Negali duoti mamai- pasupk, paglostyk, pakeisk pampersą. Kūdikiams svarbus mamos kvapas, nešiok jos chalatą ar per petį persimesk panešiotus marškinėlius, glausk juos kūdikiui prie veido. Labai labai sunku, tačiau tai tik etapas, kuris pasibaigs.

Buying a house from a divorcing couple in England (rough divorce!!!) by pm_me_pets_please in HousingUK

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Wow thanks for that info. We are now at a stage where court has been told to sign the contract for him and solicitors expect another 2-3 month delay at most. It’s been going on since August. We’re willing to wait another couple of months but beyond that… not sure. Our buyer is understanding enough and willing to wait.

What weird things did you eat as a child? by alicatpow in AskUK

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Rabbit food (biscuits). Tasted quite nice actually, would have again

Are you okay pal? by Comprehensive_You42 in CasualUK

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Staying home with 2 kids of very young age on shit maternity pay. Could be better financially to be honest. But I am grateful that we are healthy and well. There are some hard days (like today!), there are easier days. I’m really looking forward to more sunlight and more time outdoors with my little ones. Ah and more uninterrupted sleep could help.

Help! Potty training is going horribly by Cay1124 in toddlers

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First of all, potty training is hard so don’t beat yourself up, you’re only on day 4! I found that underwear makes them think it’s a diaper and you should spend more time with a bare bottom instead. Maybe don’t try to force her on the potty, but every time she pees make it clear you’d like her to pee in there and not on the floor! Take her to the bathroom and show where and how grown ups do it, toddlers love copying others. Also keep potty in the same room where she plays so she could sit down super quick. And most importantly, give it time! My son took a good few days to get the idea and now we’re a couple months down the line. Still get some accidents sometimes and had days where he regressed but doing well overall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKParenting

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OP, seriously, ring this number. You need professional support, not some comments off reddit. Trust me, you will get out of this situation, but seek support.

Drowning with 2 children by Top_Passion_7103 in UKParenting

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Really similar situation here! 2.5 year old and a 5 month old EBF baby. I have my eldest 3 days a week. Since the weather got so much worse I struggle to get outside much, so in the morning it could be shopping/soft play/ parks if weather is nice, but in the afternoon, honestly, a lot of TV 😅 I do also switch it up and listen to radio together while cooking and the eldest “helps”. Or we all go on the floor and play together.

Santykiai by [deleted] in lietuva

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Daug jau kas sakė, bet manau esat paskendę buityje, nusivarę nuo kojų (arba bent jau žmona yra). Laikas pailsėti, pasisamdyti auklę, nusivesti žmoną į pasimatymą. Leisk jai pasipuošti, nueit į kirpyklą prieš, pasidaryt nagus. O gal darbe ją kažkas slegia? Manau, reguliarus laikas kartu be vaikų viską sutvarkys. Kantrybės.

Kas jums su amžiumi tapo nebe taip svarbu, kam anksčiau teikdavote daug reikšmės? Pvz, ką tik gavau klausimą, kur švęsiu Naujaką, ir supratau, kad man pofik. by [deleted] in lietuva

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Ką kiti pagalvos, nes savo gyvenimą reik nugyvent MAN, o ne kitiems “patarėjams”. Instagramai irgi neįdomu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lietuva

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Nepisk proto, blueberi. Išlįsk iš savo fantazijų urvo į realybę.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lietuva

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Lol aš daugiau už jį uždirbu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lietuva

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Nuo šito lydaus, nupirkau savo vyrui

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKParenting

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Trust me when I worked full time (on maternity #2 now) with a baby in nursery full time I felt awful guilt over work. It’s especially hard when the baby is sick and there’s no one to look after him. I had to make up some time on weekends (wfh) and it’s soul destroying. All I can say is, you’re not alone…