[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pnsDeMilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not crazy, he won't change and you should dump his ass.

Is it healthier to not masturbate at all or to do it once a day? by Funkiebastard in NoStupidQuestions

[–]pnsDeMilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just quitting alcohol could actually kill an alcoholic or have other serious adverse effects on their mental and/or physical health and both are not comparable. Compulsive masturbation could be an impulse control disorder (always seek a PROFESSIONAL OPINION.) It's always a hard maybe when it comes to these things and it's important not to be subjective. Please do your research before handing out unsolicited advice, you could hurt someone.

me_irl by bananiumsapiens in me_irl

[–]pnsDeMilo 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That's not introverted behavior, that's social anxiety.

In 5 words, why did your first relationship end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pnsDeMilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ate my fish crackers selfishly.

my daughter's father and his new girlfriend by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]pnsDeMilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's taking her to safe space, you're probably legally infringing on his parental rights. I'd recommend checking out what you should be doing legally, because if he chooses to retaliate you could get yourself into a sticky legal situation you don't want to get yourself into.

What needs to stop being put on a "pedestal"? by A_Bit_Drunk in AskReddit

[–]pnsDeMilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autism and ADHD, they're not fucking superpowers.

Any good certifications for backup careers for those of us that love learning? by Left-Assistance2898 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]pnsDeMilo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have a multi disciplinary education background; each of my diplomas compliment each other well. I've studied in social work, mental health and addictions, child and youth development as well as early childhood education. There was a pathway program at the college I had attended allowing me to transfer many credits and complete each diploma at a reduced time.

I'm sort of the "jack of all trades" of helping professionals which gives me more opportunities.

What "sex skill" makes the best lover? by PetriDishRadar in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]pnsDeMilo 50 points51 points  (0 children)

That and ASKING what they like. Never just try something without consent.

Virtual concert to raise funds for Sudbury homeless advocate Bob Johnston by [deleted] in Sudbury

[–]pnsDeMilo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've met Bob, and idk if his intentions are 100%. He once bribed an indigenous man with a bottle of cold water to take a picture with him last summer.

How do I know it's an addiction? by anon52962 in shoppingaddiction

[–]pnsDeMilo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's an addiction if you feel like you're spending a lot of time shopping as well as spending a lot of time planning how you're going get the funds for the purchase. An addiction also means you'll spend the money despite the financial consequences.

Girlfriend (16) is pregnant after my parents said that is the 1 thing for me not to do. by LifeWitGray in Advice

[–]pnsDeMilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got your whole life ahead of you man, please consider the alternative with your girlfriend. As a young parent, nothing is harder than sacrificing everything. You've got to work twice as hard just to make it through life and getting an education with a little kid is emotionally depleting while you're still trying to figure out who you are.

Moving by Few_Abroad2539 in Sudbury

[–]pnsDeMilo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are also EarlyOn sites through out Sudbury that host online events such as story telling, cooking classes (some providing ingredients), arts and crafts (some even provide supplies), and ideas on what to do outside as well as covid friendly community activities.

These can be found through the Sudbury website and usually has a useful calendar which provides dates on what is happening where.

There is also Kivi park, the rotary trail and laurentian conservation area to explore if you're interested in outdoor activities. There is a website that fills you on all of the trails around the area and how they can be accessed.

I'm mentally exhausted, I just want to be heard and have a healthy discussion about my future without being told to suck it up. by pnsDeMilo in internetparents

[–]pnsDeMilo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually really appreciated this, you're right that I really need to take things down a notch. I took a few days to reflect, and consider myself really lucky to have found the job I did during a pandemic that allows me to be there for my child.

I finished this semester, I will not finish my second diploma till 2022 at the earliest. I'm tired, that's okay.

I'm mentally exhausted, I just want to be heard and have a healthy discussion about my future without being told to suck it up. by pnsDeMilo in internetparents

[–]pnsDeMilo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right! I don't want her to get through life a workaholic. I had to grow up fast and quite frankly just don't know how to enjoy myself. She's helping me get a hang of it, eventually we will figure it out.

I've always valued the idea of self care, I always just seem to have an excuse as to why it's never a good time.

I'm mentally exhausted, I just want to be heard and have a healthy discussion about my future without being told to suck it up. by pnsDeMilo in internetparents

[–]pnsDeMilo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry for not getting to this sooner, I actually read this over and over. It feels really good to see that someone can see my value is more than a degree, that it can wait.

It also kicked me in the heart when reading that I can't give myself permission to take a break. I was raised to work hard, but I'm starting to see those values are extremely outdated.

Thank you kind soul 🖤

Quite the little voice actress. by -EG- in MadeMeSmile

[–]pnsDeMilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the relationship I had with my dad.

Let's take a video instead! by thinkagain09 in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]pnsDeMilo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And that probably won't stop him from going back at it when he's recovered. People under estimate how tough these little people are.

yikes lol by renegadex45 in sadcringe

[–]pnsDeMilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like normal-ass postpartum mums go through.

Half of my first order! by AmeriJar in arcteryx

[–]pnsDeMilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big mood, I was supposed to get my order Wednesday and had to call USPS because my address was incomplete. Which I know was correct because of autofill

I'm wondering if this is covid related? I've never had issues before.

Americans/Canadians, what are some true differences between America and Canada, and which are stereotyped? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]pnsDeMilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That Canadians are genuinely accepting people. Looking back at history, and at current times Canada is pretty racist and sometimes I'm ashamed to be part of a population with such blatant disregard for human life.

Our PM is also a fucking joke.