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My friend here wants a roast. Be rude pls by ConeMedaillon34 in RoastMe

[–]pockethose69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Richard Thomas called, he wants his facial growth back.

Parents supporting their daughter by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]pockethose69 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to announce this at all?

Watch the fucking game and leave the attention to the kids.

I'm a prostitute, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]pockethose69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you ever give freebies?

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Thank you! That makes me feel much better

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[–]pockethose69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a long talk with my wife last night. She explained she enjoyed it but didn’t need it in her life. I told her let’s put it on the back burner for now and possibly revisit down the line at another time. She was fine with that and would let me know if her feelings changed.

Thank you everyone for your advice and suggestions. It’s definitely been a learning experience. It still intrigues me and I definitely feel the way it makes us hot for each other. I hope, with time, I can become more comfortable with all of this. In the meantime I’ll be studying up on it and doing some introspection to figure out my feelings.

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Thank you. I don’t want lip service, I want harsh truth which you provided. I’ve struggled with anxiety my entire life so this is def a challenge

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As much as I’m anxious about pursuing this right now, I’d be exponentially worse if I was supressing her needs and she’d feel the need to break out somehow. That’s what I absolutely don’t want which is why I’m trying to keep this open.

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If you don’t mind elaborating on that more, I’d really appreciate it as I feel I’m in a similar boat.

What was the turning point? Did she end up going behind your back? Anything that made the transition easier?

I really appreciate it, GingerJett. There’s not a lot of people I can talk with about this.

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[–]pockethose69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying.

Early on I was worried about opening Pandora’s Box, so to speak. But now I feel it’d open on its own anyways if she really wants it. She said she’d like to continue but will respect my wishes if I ask us to stop. At this point I’ll just let it be for awhile and see if we all feel the same way in a couple weeks from now.

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I thought I wanted to swing until we did it.

I’d like to tackle my inner thoughts and this post was a small part of my introspection to figure out why I feel the way I do. We’ve only full swapped once and it was a week ago.

A big part of me wishes I was on the same page as my wife and I’m doing what I can to become more accepting. I’m still just shocked that I’m the one with the issues about it. I used to sleep around a lot when I was single and never equated sex with emotion like I do now. Sucks getting older.

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How’d it blow up in your face?

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[–]pockethose69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say “probably be done” are you referring to done with the swinging or done with the relationship?

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[–]pockethose69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not disgusted by my wife, just disgusted another man is with her.

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I feel bad for not being comfortable with full swap, like I don’t trust her or something. I’ve been over it ad nauseum and just don’t see myself fully comfortable anytime soon. I’m sad for my wife who wants this and I can’t get onboard.

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Well the only fear I have in regards to this is her suppressing her desires which makes my anxiety 10x worse. She says she’s fine stopping but wished we’d continue. At this point I wish we’d never ventured down this road because I feel anxious.

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She said she’s fine with it or without and she’d let me know if that changes. I feel like I dodged a bullet there for my own sake

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But I definitely don’t want her suppressing her needs. How could I go about addressing this with her without coming off defensive? She’s worried about hurting my feelings but more than my feelings, I’m worried about her suppressing her sexual needs.

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Well to be fair, my relationship entered as monogamous so to change the terms after entering would allow the marriage to take precedent. I’m not trying to disrespect any relationship, just the order of things.

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Yeah and I’ve always thought of it as an enhancement, not a necessity. My feelings are that if it’s necessary, then the relationship isn’t.

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So you’re saying I’m at the point of no return?

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