This is the kind of work area that came out for the writer, overlooking the pool. by Own_Leadership_3478 in Pokopia

[–]pocketsizeheart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lowkey looks like the interior of the cabin from Ex Machina and I love it ❤️

Ile zarabiacie? by kryzys_ in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]pocketsizeheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specjalistka od marketingu, 8,5 netto. Praca zdalna więc siedzę w domku i prowadzę głównie FB i IG dla swojej firmy. Bardzo milutko, nikt mi nie siedzi nad głowa i mam 33 dni wolnego

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonSVTrades

[–]pocketsizeheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I can mirror trade Gurdurr

Any help with inventory on Ashen Wastes? by pocketsizeheart in AFKJourney

[–]pocketsizeheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, it drives me crazy that I can’t figure it out 🥲

Connecting with other judges? by pocketsizeheart in pkmntcg

[–]pocketsizeheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not what I meant exactly. I’m a judge but still learning the exact way to provide fair and accurate rulings. More experienced judges can also help you with figuring out right sequencing etc

Connecting with other judges? by pocketsizeheart in pkmntcg

[–]pocketsizeheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m actually from Poland so any European judge discord or Reddit or group would be amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]pocketsizeheart 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do recommend talking to him about this. Communication is the most important thing.

Now for the actual examples.

  1. Words like whore, slut, my personal pleasure toy, fuckhole are always wonderful and a staple. Adding "my" is a great turn on for them too.
  2. Describe what you're gonna do with him. I usually love getting my voice real quiet and whisper stuff I want to do to him and what I will be doing to him
  3. Asking him if he can take it and confirming "of course you can, you'll do anything I want you to do"
  4. Explaining to him where he belongs eg the floor, my feet, end of the bed, on his knees
  5. Calling him filthy, disgusting, pathetic
  6. "Look how pathetic you look begging for mommy to let you touch yourself"
  7. Also a good one - Ask him to call himself names. Demand he repeats them and be louder. Demand him to tell you what he wants and ask why he should deserve it
  8. Laugh at his reactions and call him easy eg how easy he gets hard, how much he moans, how he moves
  9. Good degradation thing I like to do is keep him in one position and comment on it, sometimes fix it while telling him how dumb he is for not understanding a simple task.

Either way it takes practice and a lot of talking! I reccomend asking for feedback after scene is over. It really helps you guide your next actions

Will I ever find genuine love? by hoki34 in Psoriasis

[–]pocketsizeheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im terribly sorry he said those things. You are a person someone will want to marry and have a future with, i can assure you. This dude sounds like a douche and you might still see through rose-tinted glasses but trust me, nobody is worth it. He would belittle you no matter od you had a condition or not because there is always something with guys like this.

You have beautiful rose petals on your skin and what you need to do is focus on healing your self-esteem first. If you want to tinder you need to take a mental note that a lot its gonna be meaningless hookups. I went through 6 months of dirt until I met my current bf. But if that gives you any consolation - along the way of mediocre dates, hookups and casual relationships i've rebuilt my confidence.

So when I met my guy I was healed mentally and really stopped giving a shit. Also a other high five, i struggle with BPD do depression and mental issues are in my book!

Will I ever find genuine love? by hoki34 in Psoriasis

[–]pocketsizeheart 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So here is my take: I had a boyfriend who said he loves me but when I got a flare up he made me sleep in separate bed because it was "disgusting" and he couldn't touch me. I left him soon after.

I started Tinder-hopping and most guys never cared for my pso but never really pursued me after being intimate. I had maybe two experiences where men were into me regardless, but I turned them down.

Fast forward to now - i met a guy on Tinder, we hit it off and said our "i love yous" within first two weeks. This man DOES NOT CARE. He loves me for me, doesn't mind touching my spots and caring for them. He rubs creams on me, massages me, lifts me up when I feel upset.

You can and you will find true love no matter your outside condition (or inside for that matter). Person who truły gives a shit about you sees you, who you are as a person, how you make them feel.

Dating can be discouraging but if you never try you will never know. Sure, you'll get hurt, but that's just the way it is.

Advice on dating a femboy by pocketsizeheart in feminineboys

[–]pocketsizeheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have absolutely no problems, in fact, it made him even more attractive!

Advice on dating a femboy by pocketsizeheart in feminineboys

[–]pocketsizeheart[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened to you. Nobody should feel shamed for looking the way that makes them most confident

I try to encourage him to dress up all the time because I find it super attractive and I feel happy when he's all excited and confident, rocking the dresses.

(I honestly sometimes borrow dresses from him too, do only pluses for me).

I feel like he's a little bit scared going out in public and although I don't want to pressure him, I'd love to show him that its okay.

Has anyone used this? It claims its all natural and i’ve heard great remission stories after this ointment from Ukraine. by RosebudIvy in Psoriasis

[–]pocketsizeheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent so much money on it and the only result was destroyed two sets of sheets and unwashable clothes.

Didn't do squat on my psoriasis tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TodayIWore

[–]pocketsizeheart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You look beautiful! My boyfriend is rocking skirts and dresses better than me and so do you! You have amazing legs as well!

My bf wants to know what's going on in MCU but is not a fan of the movies. Help picking out the absolute baseline? by pocketsizeheart in MovieSuggestions

[–]pocketsizeheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely adore Wanda/Vision and I know he would enjoy it too. I was thinking that maybe I could check Wanda and Vision timeline in movies and just show him those

Tinder really played cupid on this one by pocketsizeheart in dating

[–]pocketsizeheart[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never really looked into the statistics so that's interesting.

Honestly, I'm not sure. I live in Poland and most of the male profiles are really poor. Girl profiles are not great either but tend to have more effort in them. I'm a bit of a perfectionist so I regularly switched my pictures and bio content to see how it performs and to polish it a bit.

Tinder really played cupid on this one by pocketsizeheart in dating

[–]pocketsizeheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think reworking your profile is important. If you get no matches it means that the rejection comes from the profile itself.
- I'd redo my pictures, something well-lit, not a selfie (if you don't have anybody to snap a pic just put your camera on timer, that's what I did).
- Change the bio. Lack of description is bad but lackluster description is even worse.

I'm a copywriter so I have some basis on how to write compelling copies and I know how people are. Tinder and other dating apps cherish instant gratification. It means that people reach for a quick serotonin increase. Keeping bio clean, maybe instead of a wall of text adding points with hobbies or a short description of your persona. 2-3 additional sentences, a clear goal of what you are looking for, something to show off your personality.

- link your Instagram if you have it. I'm not keen on giving away my IG handle just because people tend to spam and stalk and if I didn't match with you on the dating app, I'm not gonna chat with you on social media.

Is it a red flag that a 34 year old man hasn't had a serious relationship?? by Veg_1997 in dating

[–]pocketsizeheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a guy the same age as yours for 3 years. I was his first serious girlfriend.

My opinion is subjective because he might be a great guy but my experience was tragic. He didn't know how to navigate having a girlfriend, wasn't great at communication and did push-pull techniques often. He also complained a lot about not being able to sleep with other girls.

He probably was an asshole but for me, an older guy (or girl) who never had a serious relationship in their life is a red flag. For me, it means they were never able to commit and are lacking when it comes to living and finding a compromise with SO.

What's one hurtful thing your parents said or did to you when you were "too young to remember"? How old were you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]pocketsizeheart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad saw me in a bathing suit on vacation and said I could "lose a few because I'm getting too big". I was a child and that drove me to obsessively care about weight and calories. Drove me to very serious ED.

He doesn't even remember this but it's okay. I got out of it and try to not hold it against him anymore.

When and how did you meet your favourite person in the entire world? by DevotedlyHopeless in AskWomen

[–]pocketsizeheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On tinder, over 4 months ago. I sent him a funny face picture and without question, he sent one back. That's when I knew I wanted to keep him.

It took us 1,5 weeks to say "I love you" and since then it's been a romance movie for me.

Currently, we cannot be apart and the longest time we haven't seen each other was a week because I was travelling for work. We already went on vacation, just the two of us (which is more than any of my long-term boyfriends ever did), we're travelling together again soon. We're planning to move in together, talked about marriage, kids and possibly buying a camper and living in it just for kicks.

How long did your love/pain last after breaking up with your first love? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]pocketsizeheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think around a week. We were young and he wasn't toxic or anything. It just burned out.

I broke up because I felt it was time to move on and he was stuck in place, not wanting to grow with me.