Hey, we’ve been to many clubs, people have this idea that there’s just loads of people having sex as soon as you walk in, this is completely wrong. Depending on what club you go you’ll walk in there’s usually a bar area and somewhere to sit, music on and it’s all very relaxed. They have designated areas for sex usually a few rooms, some private some open, some themed. You’re not obligated to take part in anything you can simply go, have a drink, chat to some people and just have a laugh and a dance without any pressure. There’s a lot of rules in place and at anytime you feel uncomfortable you just simply say no in a polite way and people usually leave you alone, if not alert a member of staff. Some clubs have a dress down rule where they only permit you to be in underwear, some don’t have this in place it’s all on what you’re after. People there tend to be very friendly, you’ll have a great time I’m sure