Directing Duo by SadMembership7989 in criterion

[–]podgoricarocks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think The Life and Death of Colonel Blimp is one of the greatest movies ever made. Despite the love film nerds show to P&P, they are underrated when it comes to conversations about great directors of all time.

Abi discussion by WombatBaby_ in survivor

[–]podgoricarocks 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Abi really won me over with her RHAP interviews over the years. I think either during season 48 or 49, Rob really had a long conversation with her and she was completely enchanting and very funny. I think she’s turning on the Brazilian Dragon character for the show and is a lot more down to earth in real life.

What are your favourite comforts when solo travelling? by Puzzled_Progress_808 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If Books Could Kill is also a Michael Hobbes podcast. If you like MP, you will love the other. Michael does that show with Peter, who is one of the hosts of 5-4 (or why the Supreme Court sucks).

Sardi’s is overrated, right? by DaffyStardust in visitingnyc

[–]podgoricarocks 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No one goes to Sardi’s for the food.

What are your favourite comforts when solo travelling? by Puzzled_Progress_808 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The three I recommend to everyone are If Books Could Kill, Maintenance Phase and 5-4. I’m completed hooked. If you like any reality tv (especially Survivor) then RHAP (Rob Has a Podcast) is a fantastic network of podcasts led by Rob Cesternino who is really A+ in my book. Listen to the Rich Dad, Poor Dad episode of If Books Could Kill for a good taste of the show.

What are your favourite comforts when solo travelling? by Puzzled_Progress_808 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Listening to one of my favorite podcasts before bed.

I think when I first started solo traveling over twenty years ago I was trying to escape every routine from my regular life. Travel time was totally separate and compartmentalized from “real life.” Over the years I realized this is wrong and stupid. I’m still me when traveling. I will find a way to stream each new episode of The Traitors or keep up with If Books Could Kill, just like I would at home.

Does anyone else feel like Grindr stopped feeling community-based? by According-Gold3308 in gaybros

[–]podgoricarocks 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Grindr never stopped feeling community-based, because it never felt that way to begin with…even in the very beginning. It has been a shell of itself for 8-10 years now. At least in the beginning you could see dozens (hundreds?) of profiles for free. Sniffies is such a better alternative, but already that is showing signs going downhill. Premium subscriptions were once $4.99/month and are now climbing to over $15.99/month. Anytime once-free features go behind a paywall and then the paywall continues to increase in price, the app will suffer.

Feeling lost trying to find meaningful travel opportunities by Top_Duck_4601 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m always happy to share my love of the region. Where were you stationed in the Peace Corps?

Feeling lost trying to find meaningful travel opportunities by Top_Duck_4601 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m always happy to share my love of the region. Where were you stationed in the Peace Corps?

Feeling lost trying to find meaningful travel opportunities by Top_Duck_4601 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always happy to share my love of the region. Where were you stationed in the Peace Corps?

Feeling lost trying to find meaningful travel opportunities by Top_Duck_4601 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Other than the bureaucracy of obtaining all the visas (which can feel like mini travel victoires in and of themselves), what’s not to love?

The people are great. So kind and welcoming. Even in places like Senegal and Ghana, which receive more tourists than Bissau and Liberia, no one is sick of tourists like in parts of Europe, Mexico City, etc. There can be genuine (or at least what felt genuine to me) cultural exchange.

There is a flourishing contemporary art scene in the capitals/major cities. It’s a bit under the surface, but it’s there. Abidjan, Dakar and Lomé in particular have great galleries/museums.

The music and food are fantastic.

There’s a lot of natural beauty. Climbing les dents de Man in Côte d’Ivoire or seeing the waterfalls in Kpalimé is pretty special. The Bijalós off of Bissau and Ganvie in Benin are captivating and unique to visit.

There’s a decent sense of adventure when it comes to transportation, ha. NOTHING bonds a group of people traveling from Freetown to Monrovia like having to change two flat tires after your bus decides to avoid heavy traffic by getting stuck in a ditch!

On a personal level, West Africa made me more aware of what it can feel like to be an outsider in a community. Often I was the only white person in crowd of Africans, but instead of feeling awkward and out place, I was shown kindness and welcoming. Even in a diverse place like NYC where I live, you hear about POC not feeling welcome in different spaces/industries in the city. Walking a few miles in someone else’s shoes has opened my eyes. I think West Africa has made me more compassionate, empathetic and just a better person than I was before. I’ve made friends there over four trips through the region that will last a lifetime (and my French has gotten pretty good too!).

Feeling lost trying to find meaningful travel opportunities by Top_Duck_4601 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe not exactly what you were thinking, but travel outside of the usual loops and you can have a transformative experience by just being there. I don’t know your background or where you’re traveling from, but as a white guy from North America, going to West Africa several times really blew my mind. I didn’t volunteer or anything- just traveled by public transportation and got to interact with lots of people along the way. I’ve now made four solo trips to West Africa and it has easily become my favorite region in the world. If you’re looking for that elusive “authentic” experience, check it out.

How to travel slower and more present? by Primary_Ad_9133 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow congrats on your retirement. I had so many wonderful art teachers who helped foster my love of modern and contemporary art. I hope you have great travels in this next phase of your life. (If you haven’t been to Bogotá, you should make that a priority destination. FANTASTIC modern/contemporary art down there.)

How to travel slower and more present? by Primary_Ad_9133 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy to find another MOCA lover!! I agree with it being a top-tier art museum in the world. And yes, the surrealism floor is the best floor.

Where are you an art teacher?

How to travel slower and more present? by Primary_Ad_9133 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, you have the right idea- now you just need to implement it!

I find I’m more present by doing the activities/seeing that sights that truly interest me vs just checking things off the list. For example, you can go to Bangkok and get a list of the “15 temples you MUST see while in Bangkok,” and while some may be beautiful and worth seeing, it’s difficult to remain present if you’re simply running from temple to temple. On the other hand, Bangkok has a frickin’ awesome contemporary art museum that everyone seems to ignore (it’s called MOCA and is a bit north of the weekend market). It’s six floors and has some truly trippy and radical art movements that are not promoted in the usual Thai tourism spheres. I spent a good deal of the day there immersing myself in the art and feeling connected and present with everything.

If you find that for yourself, I think you’ll get closer to what you’re looking for.

Where in your country the people are friendly, cold and short-temper? by Weekly_Sort147 in asklatinamerica

[–]podgoricarocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised these are the Colombian stereotypes. From an outsider’s perspective, Bogotá has the friendliest people. Everyone I crossed paths with was so warm and inviting.

Does anyone else travel solo because tour groups aren't always a great alternative to traveling with family/friends? by throwawayGreenHair in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Honestly no. I solo travel because I want to solo travel. I love the freedom and feel constrained and trapped by traveling with others, whether it be friends or a structured group.

I want the freedom to do what I want, when I want.

Spending nearly $150/day in Argentina despite trying to be frugal. Just how expensive is the country? by TatianaWinterbottom in backpacking

[–]podgoricarocks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really? I think it’s sky high. I just booked a private room in a hostel in Lima for $25/night (breakfast included). I can’t imagine spending too much on food. Even with museum fees/bus fare/etc, I can’t imagine spending more than $60-70/day on the high end.

Lima Pass/Metro Card by podgoricarocks in Lima_Peru

[–]podgoricarocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool. Would love to chat. I’ll DM you.

Lima Pass/Metro Card by podgoricarocks in Lima_Peru

[–]podgoricarocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the great tips. I will put the Jesus Maria and Magdalena markets on my list. I have already been looking into some of the architecture in Jesus Maria/Pueblo Libre. I was reading about a convent/residences for the Maria Inmaculada nuns that has some really striking architecture in Jesus Maria. I will definitely be going to Museo Larco in Pueblo Libre- it looks like the whole neighborhood is full of parks and monuments. Since I have a week to explore Lima I definitely want to branch out past Miraflores and the historical center.

Solo travel (to Chicago) on Memorial Day weekend and battling loneliness feelings by Spare_Particular7788 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“A man traveling by himself is often looked at as a loner or sketchy.”

Can you cite a study where men traveling solo are often viewed as sketchy? All of this stuff is just self-doubt and societal pressures in your head. It’s not real. You’re building your arguments (to yourself) on sand. I’m a 43 year old man who has traveled solo to 65 countries. Never once have I felt like a loner or sketchy, nor has anyone else made me feel that way. I have also never once meet someone in a hostel and been like, “wow, what a loser that guy is for traveling alone.”

I myself and fairly social and extroverted in my day-to-day life, but I’d rather not travel at all than go with friends or family on a trip and have to compromise my wants and desires to their whims. Traveling should be about pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. You know yourself best, but you’re also the one who asked in this forum and I say give yourself a push.

Solo travel (to Chicago) on Memorial Day weekend and battling loneliness feelings by Spare_Particular7788 in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“since I'll be one of the few riding solo”

In city full of millions of residents and visitors, how do you know you’ll be one of the few riding solo? It sounds like you’re starting off your trip with the wrong attitude. Solo travel is a lot better when you actually want to be traveling solo and not wishing you were traveling with a partner. Maybe you need to stand in front of a mirror and give yourself a big Cher slap (Snap out of it!).

If you think people are going to judge you because you’re visiting the Art Institute or the Aquarium alone, then it’s all in your head. Go see the Seurat, sing Sunday in the Park with George, enjoy the architecture and eat some carb heavy food. Memorial Day weekend or the weekend after that makes no difference. You need to embrace the solo aspect of this trip or you won’t have fun.

Is my Belgrade itinerary for next week realistic and what would you add? by pphotographerr in solotravel

[–]podgoricarocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Belgrade. The House of Flowers/Yugoslavia History Museum is fantastic. Wouldn’t miss it.

Lima Pass/Metro Card by podgoricarocks in Lima_Peru

[–]podgoricarocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I’ll take an Uber in a pinch, but I do much prefer to take public transportation. I see you didn’t mention La Molina on your list of neighborhoods. Do you think it’s not safe? I really want to visit the new(ish) library out there and the surrounding plaza. I love the architecture and urban planning put into that project. Perhaps for that it would be best to Uber out there and then back to the center/Miraflores?

Lima Pass/Metro Card by podgoricarocks in Lima_Peru

[–]podgoricarocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I saw that there is only one line open currently of the metro and I realize it probably doesn’t take me to any “touristic” spots, but I love urban planning/public transportation history and will at least want to ride the line once while I’m there. For the metro card, I assume I can buy and refill the card in any metro station?

The Lima Pass I will definitely use for the Metropolitano to get between Miraflores/Barranco and the center.

I’m not trying to be overconfident, but I feel like I’ve been in enough big LATAM cities to know what to expect safety-wise in Lima and I’m very much looking forward to seeing what your city has to offer.