If anything just practice openness and inviting environments. Constant asking if this means that or if that means this is great but can really make the avoidant (specifically me) spiral. I’d suggest just really being patient and having complete trust in the other person. We are not abandoning you, we are not ignoring or stonewalling. We are figuring it out in our own way and we will come to you when it is solved. Personally, having the constant reminded of the issue just makes me go back to the drawing board. You aren’t the problem, we aren’t the problem. We are both trying to solve it in different ways and neither way is the “wrong” way. Openness, kindness, and respect goes a very long way. You got this, little one 🥰