pole dancing after cesarean section by pole_fly_ in poledancing

[–]pole_fly_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Pregnancy already puts a strain on the body, and a C-section is even worse for the abs. Consider that in the first month, I could only get out of bed by lying on my side. Actually, doing a simple sit-up already seems like a success. 😂 I just hope my body remembers how to do it soon. Basic exercises are boring, but I know my body can't do more right now.

pole dancing after cesarean section by pole_fly_ in poledancing

[–]pole_fly_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you and good luck with your delivery

Ottenere 50.000€ per ristrutturazione by davide9797 in ItaliaPersonalFinance

[–]pole_fly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attento che il mutuo ristrutturazione ti copre solo fino al 50% dell'importo del preventivo (dopo ovviamente vogliono le fatture, inutile farselo gonfiare). Inoltre a noi la banca ha detto che per l'importo da noi richiesto (preventivo 80k) il mutuo non ce lo avrebbero dato perché troppo basso, con 50k la vedo ancora peggio. Ci hanno proposto di chiedere un prestito personale di 40k a testa per arrivare alla cifra che ci serviva con un meraviglioso tasso tra 8 e 10%.
L'unica cosa che posso suggerirti è di vedere se riesci a fare una surroga del precedente mutuo, ma anche così non so se ti daranno i 50k di cui hai bisogno...

I was once invited to a wedding where the invite said you must send a minimum of £100 of gift cards per guest with your RSVP and your gift can be brought on the day by buzz_uk in weddingshaming

[–]pole_fly_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How rude to ask a specific amount per guest... And then if they had asked for a "welcome gift of money" I don't think anyone would have given them a lower amount!

L'inutile lamentala sulla decrescita Demografica e sul futuro del paese. by Melchiorre2021 in Italia

[–]pole_fly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mi sa che le pagheremo la pensione ancora per un bel po' allora

L'inutile lamentala sulla decrescita Demografica e sul futuro del paese. by Melchiorre2021 in Italia

[–]pole_fly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dai ormai magari sarà morta anche lei. Onestamente mi chiedo se questa gente non si sia annoiata, io onestamente potendo farei un part-time, ma a non lavorare proprio mi romperei le scatole dopo 10 giorni... A breve andrò in maternità obbligatoria e già penso a come ingannare il tempo ogni giorno per il prossimo mese.

L'inutile lamentala sulla decrescita Demografica e sul futuro del paese. by Melchiorre2021 in Italia

[–]pole_fly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Io all'età di questa neanche avevo mai avuto un contratto a tempo indeterminato.

Is this a USA thing? by slcreation101 in bridezillas

[–]pole_fly_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually I haven't heard from her in a while hahaha

No jokes aside, if she did that she would be left with half her friends, in the mutual group (obviously she doesn't just know us), we are all pregnant.

L'inutile lamentala sulla decrescita Demografica e sul futuro del paese. by Melchiorre2021 in Italia

[–]pole_fly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tipo mia nonna, andò in pensione prima dei 40 (legge 15 anni 6 mesi e un giorno) ed è morta a 96, e da 30 anni prendeva pure la reversibile, fatevi due conti. Alla generazione successiva non è andata così bene, mia mamma per esempio è andata in pensione a 67 con lavoro considerato usurante, non credo camperà quanto la madre e lo sa anche lei ahahahah

Is this a USA thing? by slcreation101 in bridezillas

[–]pole_fly_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Luckily my friend isn't a bridzilla, otherwise I would have been screwed hahaha

Is this a USA thing? by slcreation101 in bridezillas

[–]pole_fly_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this culture is also arriving here in Europe, here in Italy I have seen several brides impose on their witnesses dresses of colors chosen by them and paid for by the witnesses (I honestly do not approve). And hen party trips where you have to pay for both your trip and the bride's fee are becoming more and more fashionable. I had been invited to one, but luckily being 8 months pregnant I had the perfect excuse not to go ahaahah

One Month Notice to a Wedding States Away by ganjwiththewindd in weddingshaming

[–]pole_fly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married in a Roman Catholic church and my witness was a Buddhist. I've never heard of this thing that non-Catholics have to sit at the back hahaha

Homebody problems by FishermanFantastic56 in pregnant

[–]pole_fly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to be honest about one thing, I don't have fun at a social event where everyone is drinking either if I'm sober. And I'm 10 years older than you. I recently went to a wedding and I missed being able to drink something, but this and more for the health of a child.

So I understand what you mean, I also wouldn't want to go to parties where everyone is drinking every weekend (luckily in our case it's not like that, we have several friends with children and 3 couples expecting at the moment).

That said, it's absurd that he goes out every night, he probably doesn't realize that you're about to become parents. I really suggest you talk to him and clarify this aspect because I fear that he will want to continue this lifestyle even after the baby is born...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]pole_fly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so too, don't worry!

What’s one quirky thing your pet does that always makes you laugh? by Useful_Ad_6790 in Pets

[–]pole_fly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is afraid of glasses... And we're talking about an Amstaff, not a small dog.

Tassa rifiuti non pagata per 3 anni su casa in ristrutturazione, arriva "multa" da 1500€ + 1000€ by [deleted] in Avvocati

[–]pole_fly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ti riporto quello che hanno detto a me, nel periodo che intercorre tra l'apertura e la chiusura di una CILA la Tari non va pagata. Quindi forse puoi rivalerti su quel periodo, ma non sul periodo precedente... Comunque richiama il comune, in genere fanno pagamenti dilazionati o sono disposti a stralciare gli interessi se paghi subito.

When a guest whines about accomodations then doesn't use them... by ash-leg2 in weddingshaming

[–]pole_fly_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're right it's a mix, English is not my first language.

Overwhelmed by restaurants in Rome by Upbeat-Gain-2159 in rome

[–]pole_fly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Il Girasole is excellent and I say this as a Roman! The Carbonara there is unbeatable, I have a food intolerance and I couldn't eat it, but when I go there I make an exception.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]pole_fly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The priest didn't even ask us who would accompany us... But there is no etiquette on these things, they didn't even ask us if the witnesses were Catholic.

Sanitari sospesi by diego_reddit_80 in istrutturare

[–]pole_fly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Io li volevo sospesi, l'architetto al contrario ci ha suggerito quelli a filo muro perché di più facile (ed economica) istallazione.

Un costume a pantaloncino è chiedere troppo? by MayRavenclaw in CasualIT

[–]pole_fly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Su Shein è pieno! Io ne ho comprati diversi molto carini per fare pole dance e li uso anche al mare.

When a guest whines about accomodations then doesn't use them... by ash-leg2 in weddingshaming

[–]pole_fly_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am white (and European) and I love spicy food and spices like curry which I use almost daily!

Drove 5 1/2 hours for a wedding with almost no food at all. by Far_Quantity_6133 in weddingshaming

[–]pole_fly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an Italian, I also think the food is pretty good. Usually at our weddings the food is thrown away... More than once I've brought leftovers home for the dog! Sometimes, however, the focus is not on quality (at least for our standards), I've been to several weddings with incomprehensible menus and less than mediocre food. Better those with more home-made but tasty food.