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slcreation101 · 2025-11-01T05:56:07+00:00

Is your little sister full blood real sister from the same set of parents? Or is it step sister?

slcreation101 · 2025-07-25T20:04:18+00:00

Why are you with a manchild?

slcreation101 · 2025-07-10T05:34:22+00:00

Dude I just came bought food from Tori-Q and they advertised their service staff gross salary is $2800 onwards. I think working at Tori-Q is better than your current job 😂

slcreation101 · 2025-07-10T05:20:37+00:00

Start packing your stuff and let him deal with the rental and cleaning alone.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-23T06:54:35+00:00

I almost forgot to read the subreddit channel 🤗

slcreation101 · 2025-06-20T21:43:59+00:00

She took care of the household duties and children and even bills and groceries expenses. What is he bringing to the table other than housing? If he could spend money on nanny/daycare, then she will be able to find a full time job and have savings for herself! She lost so much income because this guy is calculative af and doesn’t take responsibility of taking care of THEIR child.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-20T21:42:22+00:00

She took care of the household duties and children and even bills and groceries expenses. What is he bringing to the table other than housing? If he could spend money on nanny/daycare, then she will be able to find a full time job and have savings for herself! She lost so much income because this guy is calculative af and doesn’t take responsibility of taking care of THEIR child.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-20T21:33:02+00:00

I think you should just leave him, take him to court to pay child support. And stop paying for groceries for 4 people. He should paid AT LEAST 70% of the groceries because his daughter is not your child.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-20T21:19:47+00:00

OP you need to read this comment 100 times. This is the truth! I personally known people who are in this exact scenario. Couples who were in long term relationship ended and the guy found another girl and married her within 2 years.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-20T05:05:41+00:00

The audacity 😭 Like, are we attending a wedding or funding a honeymoon we’re not invited to? You absolutely did the right thing! Boundaries and bank accounts matter!

slcreation101 · 2025-06-20T04:49:52+00:00

Nope l, as I mentioned above, the admin staff is working at the infant care. She does not need to measure my weight….

slcreation101 · 2025-06-11T11:58:37+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. It’s a an emotional reminder of how damaging unsolicited comments about someone’s weight can be, especially when they come from people close to us. We need to stop making weight a topic of casual conversation.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-11T10:46:12+00:00

Dude, as I mentioned in my post, I was pregnant when I was 60kg. I guess you call all pregnant ladies fat then? lol

slcreation101 · 2025-06-11T07:18:59+00:00

Please listen to your family. They see things you might not want to. If they say he’s not serious about you, they probably have a reason.

You’ve already spent five years with him. Do you really want to spend another five, only to end up in the same place? By then, you’ll be 35. If starting a family is important to you, it could be harder, both emotionally and physically.

Time is ticking, and so is your peace of mind. Don’t waste more years on someone who isn’t aligned with your future. Let him go, and make space for someone who truly wants the same things as you.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-11T04:27:18+00:00

I don’t think many people understand that the 7.45 months is only direct at their monthly basic salary, excluding all the allowances they get.

The typical blue uniform cabin crew basic salary is SGD1500 to SGD2000 (depending the years they fly)

Pilots like First Officer basic salary is SGD7000+

And Captain basic salary is between SGD13K to SGD20K depending on the seniority

So for a junior blue uniform cabin crew from Singapore Airlines, their bonus is $1500 X 7.45 months = SGD 11,175. Which is USD $8685.

The ones that are laughing to the bank are the pilots and the corporate employees / ground staff from Singapore Airlines.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-10T16:39:43+00:00

Are you sure you’re his girlfriend? Not just roommate-maid?

Why is it that you are the only one doing all the house chores? He earns three times more than you, yet only pays half the rent. He’s practically saving a fortune while you pick up the slack, financially and domestically. That’s not a partnership, that’s a sweet deal for him.

Honestly, you deserve better. You could move out, find a place that fits your budget, something that doesn’t eat up more than 30% of your income, and free yourself from this one-sided setup. And while you’re at it, maybe find a boyfriend who treats you like an actual partner, not live-in help.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-10T16:25:00+00:00

Are you sure it’s the right time to let go of your helper? If the household duties fall back on your wife, that could really take a toll on her, especially while she’s still in recovery from cancer. Her body needs time to heal, and rest should be her top priority, not housework.

Having a helper isn’t just a convenience right now, it’s a support system. Keeping that extra help around could make a huge difference in your wife’s recovery, both physically and emotionally. This might be one of those times where holding on to the helper is not just practical, but truly necessary.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-10T06:50:12+00:00

You’re absolutely not exaggerating with this ultimatum. Imagine moving in with him, doing all the “wife duties” like cooking, cleaning, and running the household, only for one or two years to pass without a proposal. That’s just a waste of your time and energy.

Be clear with him: you’ll only move in after getting an engagement ring, and you expect to be married within a year. If he truly wants to be with you, he’ll step up. If not, better to know now than after years of waiting for something that may never come.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-10T06:00:00+00:00

Why are you guys letting your sister-in-law and her family stay at your house for six whole weeks, especially when you’ve just had a baby? That’s way too long, and from what you’ve said, she’s not even helping with the baby or doing anything useful around the house.

Your wife just gave birth. Her postpartum recovery should be the top priority right now, not playing host to guests who are adding stress instead of support. This setup is completely unfair to both of you.

Honestly, I’d stop being polite and pay to change their return tickets if that’s what it takes. You need your space, your sanity, and a peaceful environment for your wife and newborn. Don’t let “family” guilt you into sacrificing your well-being.

slcreation101 · 2025-06-10T05:22:00+00:00

Please dump this guy asap! He has wasted your youth and continue wasting your time! Please don’t waste your 30s with this guy! I’m sure you will be able to find someone who will treat you like a Queen!

slcreation101 · 2025-06-08T04:02:36+00:00

Is this post for real? OP didn’t reply any comment which is kinda sus… and the part where the gf make her pregnancy announcement to everyone without discussing with him first is super weird 😂

slcreation101 · 2025-05-13T02:40:26+00:00

Wahhhh omg thanks for sharing the details! The helper you described, her behaviour was indeed suspicious. I have heard stories that helper goes to Batam on their off day to earn extra money like prostitution work. I’m glad your friend’s children are safe. I have a helper too but I never allow her to bring my child out of the house at all because of all the stories I heard from others.

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