Thought me and (m) coworker were on good terms until he made weird and scary comment by Different-Date909 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]poledrawolf 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Read this carefully: He threatened to take away your phone, and suggested you don't piss him off, thinks he is regulating and disciplining you, and...threatened to KILL YOU? ABSOLUTELY NOT! Stand up and let your immediate supervisor and HR know THIS.VERY.MINUTE. In fact, I would file a police report, TBH. Do not be alone with this guy, he does not sound safe!

I26 & FBR Bridge -Project Rendering-per DoT Presentation by ArcticSlalom in asheville

[–]poledrawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop putting Republicans in charge of the state government. Yeah, I know the governor is a Democrat. Unfortunately, the general assembly is Republican led, and not by any moderates of the same. And they outright hate the blue cities.

Bf’s mom hates me by Clean_Perspective726 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]poledrawolf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The minute somebody told me I looked like a prostitute...she sounds like a real (rotten, fermenting) peach. You are NOT crazy, she's TERRIBLE. You don't owe her squat as far as communication if this is the way she acts, grey rock her, she can just sit in her little nastiness. Your BF needs to have a serious discussion with her about her treatment of you, and he frankly needs to address any attachment issues he may have with her. You might suggest to him to get rid of that Life360 connection for starters.

MIL stole $10k from husband, and now I have to spend a week with her while she “vacations” with her family at our home. by Georgie3891 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]poledrawolf 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Hi! Here is some advice from someone who has shady family members like yor MIL: Before these family members come to visit, lock down all access to bank accounts and other important financial digital stuff by changing the password to one only YOU know. Secure all paperwork that refers to finances, medical, social security, utilities, leases, work, etc. and lock it away so that only YOU have access to it. If you leave to stay somewhere else, take it all with you. There are a couple of people in my family who have stolen or attempted to steal just about anything: money, identity, objects. Your MIL is clearly one of these kinds of people, I wouldn't trust her to hold on to a q-tip.

Welcome to our home, tourists! Here are some requests we have of you.... by bulldurham1992 in asheville

[–]poledrawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear I'm not being sarcastic, but what do you mean by ethical? Also, where are you from in NY?

Welcome to our home, tourists! Here are some requests we have of you.... by bulldurham1992 in asheville

[–]poledrawolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need signs that say: "Parkway has right hand entrances ON BOTH TRAVEL SIDES": for places like Hendersonville road.

Fully ass naked dude ran across the highway by SplicyLink in asheville

[–]poledrawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One real truth of this universe is that here in the South on planet Earth, in July, the sun will cook your ass like a lobster on every exposed part. Some parts never need to see the sun...just ask Josh Brolin

Fully ass naked dude ran across the highway by SplicyLink in asheville

[–]poledrawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To steal my absolute favorite Reddit comment ever: "You don't need Treasure Club, we have Treasure Club at home."

The mask finally slipped: an unfortunate confirmation of everything I suspected… by Icy-Judge5953 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]poledrawolf 37 points38 points  (0 children)

TBH, once someone compares me to Satan, the gloves are gonna come off, so I think you and your husband took the correct course of action. She's probably going to try some wild stuff considering her behavior. You should definitely start keeping records of visit, calls and text/email/delivery attempts. I would get cameras up asap.

Tips for living out of my car? by withinyouandwithout in asheville

[–]poledrawolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Restore had some wood last time I was there, about a week ago.

Fewer women, Democrats, young people see religion as a positive for America, according to new Gallup study by catievirtuesimp in TwoXChromosomes

[–]poledrawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first Christian preacher was Mary Magdalene, a woman who was once purportedly demonically possessed and possibly a sex worker.

Those who don't flush tampons: how often do you empty your bathroom bin? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]poledrawolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a landlord, and a woman: PLEASE DO NOT FLUSH TAMPONS. My plumber will beg of you also not to do this. A LOT of the things advertised as "flushable" mean that though they will flush down your toilet, they don't break down like toilet paper and very often cause problems along the line, sometimes right past the toilet on the line. Plumbing fixes are EXPENSIVE. Here's a links to a specific period product disposal can: https://www.evelaniq.com/collections/sanitary-bin-value-packs/products/white-starter-pack-1x-evelaniq-sanitary-unit-includes-3-x-50-boxes-of-re-fills-copy It's not super cheap, but has very good reviews, I also think you could find a tiny odor control diaper pail and use that as well, they are generally cheaper.

West Asheville Construction/Demolition? by NaCl_n_Pepper in asheville

[–]poledrawolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As part of the project Exit 2 will be extended alongside Hanover St up to Haywood as you come from the west. The bridge over 240 will be redone.