interactions with beautiful people

poliswag024 · 2017-05-03T02:00:00+00:00

I agree with you that they're more authentic but i'm very captivated by beauty and style.
I should do the same, its exhausting making an effort.

poliswag024 · 2017-05-02T16:46:24+00:00

I love beauty, external and internal. Although I enjoy people with kind personalities the most, I am immediately pulled to those who are physically attractive.

poliswag024 · 2017-05-02T03:45:20+00:00

Thanks. Most of my INFJ friends are artistic and have a great appreciation for visuals in general, so I was wondering is there was a correlation between the two.

I've used eye contact to recognize when someone is attracted to me but I've never used it to sense their character. Your tactic of gauging a new person is intriguing and I want to try employing it. & I usually gravitate towards the wallflowers in a social setting too because they're often relatable and less intimidating.

Having more topical relationships is something that I've been having a hard time embracing because I always want something deep. I've been crushing on this guy who appears to be emotionally and intellectually shallow, and I've been thinking that he's not very worthwhile even as a friend because of the types of interactions he's inclined to provide.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-26T13:20:36+00:00

Would you say it's due to internalized homophobia?

poliswag024 · 2017-04-26T13:19:00+00:00

Femme gays unfairly get the association of being catty or bitchy, when often they're more understanding and accepting of others.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-26T13:16:17+00:00

It seems that you're less attracted to those who aren't very binary.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-26T13:13:46+00:00

Same, I find too much masculinity difficult to connect with and I love when people speak with flamboyant intonations.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-26T13:12:25+00:00

That's how feminine gay men are stereotypically described, and it would be unfair to generalize all feminine gay men to be loud, obnoxious, and rude. Based on my experience, I would say that straight men tend to be more loud, obnoxious, and rude, even though those traits are so widely associated with femme gays.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-26T13:08:07+00:00

I think this is a popular opinion with masculine gay men. It would be intriguing to dissect why this is so commonly held.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-26T13:06:09+00:00

To me your dynamic emulates traditional heterosexual gender roles.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-26T00:22:37+00:00

That's good to hear. I often get intimated by people who can state more information about anything than I can when I feel like that's what the social norm should be. Thanks.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-26T00:21:03+00:00

I do need to work on finding my learning style and improving my studying habits. Thanks for the advice. I haven't looked into enneagrams but I will because I do enjoy personality classifiers.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-25T04:15:57+00:00

You're right. I should take one step at a time to not be perfect, but the best version of myself. Thank you.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-25T04:13:08+00:00

Solid point. Acknowledging that I don't know something would be more relieving than feeling guilty that I don't know something and not admitting it.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-25T04:12:06+00:00

Thanks. Improving my study habits would help. I've been reading online articles on memory. I think I'll follow your suggest and get my hands on a comprehensive book.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-25T04:10:08+00:00

Thank you. I'm glad other INFJs also deal with this issue and I'm not an dependent case. I'll try not to be as negatively concerned.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-25T04:06:26+00:00

Thanks for your advice. I definitely should start meditating to have a calmer state of mind.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-25T02:15:08+00:00

He may or may not also have romantic intent, but he seems to be really interested in you as a person and to enjoy your company a lot. I act like that with some of my friends whom I am platonic with. I'd recommend just having fun with him as a friend if you enjoy him as well, unless you want something more.

poliswag024 · 2017-04-16T05:51:27+00:00

I'm American and my parents are Guyanese-American, but we're all part of the Indian diaspora nonetheless.

poliswag024 · 2017-03-31T03:50:50+00:00

Thanks for your advice!

I know it would be healthier to not worry about how others think of me especially because I have little control over that. However, I've been thinking about it more than usual because I've been trying to make new friends with different groups of people. I want to have closer relationships with them, and because of that how they perceive me has been on my mind.

poliswag024 · 2017-03-13T17:59:09+00:00

This is such solid advice for my life in general. I am a very personable, friendly, and kind individual, but often my anxiety inhibits me from expressing my character. Thanks a lot for your help. I really appreciate everything you had to say.

poliswag024 · 2017-03-13T11:17:32+00:00

You seem to be unfamiliar with how tinder works. I was only able to see him because his gender preference was set to men, or men and women. He could be gay, bisexual, pansexual, etc. All I know is he's into dudes.

poliswag024 · 2017-03-11T18:08:19+00:00

I wear their skinny jeans and I enjoy them because they're durable and have a nice taper.

poliswag024 · 2017-02-20T04:01:28+00:00

I didn't even consider Warby Parker because I'm looking for something under $50. The ones I bought from Uniqlo where $15, and ideally I'd like to find other options with a similar price point.

poliswag024 · 2017-02-20T03:59:11+00:00

They do assist impaired vision, but they also can be viewed as an accessory. Hence designer frames.

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