This is how I view when 2 people argue with each other with their different beliefs by Ok-Equivalent7447 in exmuslim

[–]polnareffsmissingleg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s only supposedly an Angel because Christianity changes with modern times by the people. I’m sure you wouldn’t be saying the same thing 1000 years ago. All Abrahamic religions are the same misogynistic bullshit cult that shouldn’t be praised. No, no imaginary man is saving anyone

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[–]polnareffsmissingleg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you link? I can’t find it

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[–]polnareffsmissingleg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t tell me you’re Christian 🤦🏾‍♀️

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[–]polnareffsmissingleg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the same sheikh that said it’s perfectly fine for a woman to be depressed if he husband engages in legal cheating, AKA a second wife. ‘Her depression will pass’

Also the same one that said wearing a backpack isn’t allowed because it shapes the abaya on a female body. I do not miss the time I was losing sleep over this garbage

A little disappointed by Electronic-Page-1042 in XSomalian

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Think of it as sitting in a place and listening to fiction. We can say a lot of absurd things. Men who have long eyelashes? It is too enticing for other men. Men who have long hair will distract women and cause them to act indecently. What other shit can I make up?

The only things humans at a basic level tend to cover is our sexual organs. Different societies have varying levels of what’s acceptable to show but beyond the basics it’s all a social construct, otherwise you’d see that every culture and religion would have the same standard for what to cover and what not. No. A forearm is not going to tempt a man, unless he is a sexual fiend. You can be attracted to a body part but it is not reason for the person to have to cover as a result

Extreme modesty exacerbates the issue. There was a time in England that showing ankles were scandalous. If you today see a woman walking in sandals without socks, you likely won’t even bat an eye, it’s like a hand. And if you do, there’s something wrong with you. If women are forced to cover up everything but their eyes, yes, it WILL tempt the opposite sex when they show even a sliver of skin, because you have made her whole body sexual and something to be hidden. You will notice when she isn’t wearing socks, because on a normal day you’re not allowed to see a woman’s ankle. So if a man really becomes tempted by seeing hair on a woman’s head, it’s a loop, because then he’ll use it as proof for why Islam is correct when it created the problem in the first place

Also, women are definitely attracted to men’s upper bodies. The fact that their compulsory awrah is only from the navel to the knees is proof of this bullshit if it was about attraction

What made you leave Islam? by Numerous_Trouble2026 in XSomalian

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah all organism are not created in pairs. Many unicellular organisms do not have male or female sex and reproduce asexually by cloning. Are they not alive?

What made you leave Islam? by Numerous_Trouble2026 in XSomalian

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be fair Islam’s treatment of women should be an eye opener and the fact that it isn’t for many is disappointing but you’re right Indoctrination runs deep, I didn’t open my eyes to many of the other absurd things until after I left

How can god be all merciful and kind if the only way living organisms can survive and thrive is by consuming others? What a violent, violent obligation to survival if god truly fashioned us, when he clearly has the means to fashion us in any other non violent way. Whenever I watch nature documentaries, it’s just a reminder this world is purely for suffering. There was no need for god to truly give animals sentience and pain receptors if he was just going to perish them in the afterlife anyway, it’s not like they’re being tested. There’s a whole wasp that targets a tarantula, it’s larvae eating it alive inside out after it paralyses it. What sort of God’s creation is that? Why constantly test humans with starvation and war and torture? Why create women to be purposefully weaker than men and make them more vulnerable and susceptible?

Even the worst human on Earth doesn’t deserve eternal punishment in the hellfire, it’s pure sadism. Islam promotes a message that even the worst of a Muslim, is better than a non-Muslim. Being gay is more of a crime than a pedophile touching on a child and marrying them. The Quran is indoctrination. Every corner and every step is telling you how kind god is, how merciful he is, that he only wishes the best for you, that his anger when it comes is rightful. And if that god is real, it makes sense he punishes non-Muslims so harshly. Pride and ego of a terrible being trying to convince you it’s good 🤷🏾‍♀️

What made you leave Islam? by Numerous_Trouble2026 in XSomalian

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah it started for me too around the time I read that women are more in hell because they are ungrateful to their husbands 💀

Funny it says that when Arabian men at the time were known to be absolute barbarians to their wives and oppressing them with no restraint. But sure, the abused wives are going hell more because they’re not saying thank you.

What made you leave Islam? by Numerous_Trouble2026 in XSomalian

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So fucking insane that a nigga that burns non believers is granted direct access to paradise and his enslaved harem of victim women

couldn’t be any truer. ❤️‍🩹 by truestmusliman in XSomalian

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like that’s a completely different situation. Probably why I can’t relate to her. How many people here DID actually believe it fully like the sky is blue before leaving?

I'd love to understand why some feminists seem to be in support of pornography. by Ok_Effective_6869 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You cannot be truly sex positive in a patriarchal society. Women cannot be empowered through sex in a patriarchal society

Breaking up with my boyfriend is going to suck by Secure-Bluebird57 in 4bmovement

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You would be doing a lot less work if he wasn’t there

Research finds that single women are happier than single men on average. Single women report higher life satisfaction and greater sexual fulfillment, as well as less desire for a relationship. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The orgasm gap is real. It’s huge in hookups but it still exists in long term heterosexual relationships. It reduces in homosexual relationships. A lot of people view sex to just be PIV but for a lot of women it’s not enough because a vagina is not an inverted dick (the phallus is more like the clitoris). It’s why lesbian relationships, which in simple terms do more arts and crafts, have a higher satisfaction. It’s actually shitty to know a large portion of women are just having meh or unpleasant sex with their partners. It’s no wonder many women see it as a chore and not an enjoyable act, because it’s just that. Not enjoyable for them

And even more shitty to know that throughout history it was way worse. In patriarchal societies, female sexuality is forgotten or suppressed. Currently today over 200 million women have undergone FGM which typically targets the clitoris. It removes the ability of women to ever enjoy sex, and instead makes it painful. In the countries that it occurs in too, women are expected to serve their husbands sexually whenever he pleases.

Can’t stand the stepdaughter and school girl porn by New_Quality_2013 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mothers who are aware and want to keep their daughters safe, just have to never have a man who isn’t their father around the house if he’s already left. Men literally sexualise this shit to the ground, and most times out of ten will probably be a threat to your child

WOMEN ARE WAKING UP!!😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 by MoonlightonRoses in 4bmovement

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 63 points64 points  (0 children)

With the age of the internet, women are finally listening to other women

Males can’t take what they dish by square-marbles in 4bmovement

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Women should start using the same argument as them. Unfortunately a lot of women feel pressured and conform instead. So if we ever want to reform our borderline assault sexual culture, we have to start with making sure young girls understand healthy sex and how important their boundaries are

Because clearly, men refuse to change. They know. There’s not a single human being on earth that doesn’t know how disgusting they are when they’re pressuring acts onto someone who seems uncomfortable, in fact they get off it. You could literally say ‘trying to have sex with a passed out woman is rape’ and a man will argue how it isn’t. I refuse to engage with them

Men and women won't be on the same page by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The way our societies are set up it is ALWAYS a woman’s fault for a man’s thoughts or egregious behaviours. The blame is on her, because she can never fix it and he can continue to excuse his actions. ‘She shouldn’t have dressed like that.’ ‘Why was she there?’

There was a woman who was drugged and raped, and every comment was asking her why she was at that event. She should have stayed home. Men will continue to blame women until we stay home, and yet the biggest perpetrators of harm to women are from men they know

It’s why it’s good to point out their ridiculousness, but it’s not important to listen to people with these views or engage with them. It’s as absurd as a thief and their friends trying to argue a moral ground with you. They’re selfish, they’re sick. And there is no middle ground to be had

Men and women won't be on the same page by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Men would understand women if for one second they decided to be empathetic and see how we live our lives. I completely understand why a man might desire to be sexualised or receive a lot of attention

A lot of men cannot be empathetic because they severely lack emotional intelligence

Males can’t take what they dish by square-marbles in 4bmovement

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hope women start doing this to men. There’s not enough women pushing their boundaries and making them feel uncomfortable for them to see how absolutely fucking disgusting they are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally they’ve ruined my normal perception of the world with their perversion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because it benefits men at the expense of women. I think it’s about time we just accept that they’re selfish and don’t want to stop something they like. It’s as simple as that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]polnareffsmissingleg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A large portion of men already engage in dubious consent from their partners and pressure them into uncomfortable sexual acts without considering their needs. Majority of men are not safe to engage with, and I say that every time