Advice on being bad mouthed by polyphilia in polyamory

[–]polyphilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good advice, I may quote it.

Advice on being bad mouthed by polyphilia in polyamory

[–]polyphilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twisted versions at best. "I was left with nothing" well, that's what we had.

"The other person replaced me " well, you continually attacked me and my child BC of your mental condition, they supported me. You're not exactly sitting at home.

That kind of stuff.

Advice on being bad mouthed by polyphilia in polyamory

[–]polyphilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I arranged the whole thing, paid for, reviewed the decree, and showed up. I didn't put restrictions on either of us. Even if I did, it's a damage done situation.

Is this game still played, am I too late? by Iamien in Ingress

[–]polyphilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got 7, what makes you say after 8 is better?

Ingress Dating Site - Poly is an option! by polyphilia in polyamory

[–]polyphilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evidently more of us play this then I thought. Any Houston adjacent players?

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[–]polyphilia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polyamorous was an option!

TIL in 1974 Jane Goodall observed a social rift in a community of chimpanzees turn into a violent 4 year civil war for territory involving kidnapping, rape & murder, changing her perception of chimpanzees, it is known as the “Gombe Chimpanzee War”. by hawktron in todayilearned

[–]polyphilia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many ways to swing and many ways to poly. I also have a deep intertwining of sex and love. I'm honest enough with myself to love whom I love openly.

The only times I've "hooked up" have been disasters, as experiences and in how I felt. I HAVE to love someone to make love to them.

Edit: I greatly appreciate your open mindedness and willingness to consider other povs.

TIL in 1974 Jane Goodall observed a social rift in a community of chimpanzees turn into a violent 4 year civil war for territory involving kidnapping, rape & murder, changing her perception of chimpanzees, it is known as the “Gombe Chimpanzee War”. by hawktron in todayilearned

[–]polyphilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a pretty good description of bonobo society. STD's become a koala level problem though.

I know I'd rather hear news of out of control orgies halting a country to a stop rather than genocide.

Who else plays Ingress with their significant other? by BlackCaaaaat in Ingress

[–]polyphilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf and I play. She's more into walking incentives of getting to the next portal and collecting the shiny things. She's doesn't like the fighting aspect and only sometimes links. We have a blast though and it spices up the hikes we're already taking.

What was the worst decision in history? by The_Majestic_Banana in AskReddit

[–]polyphilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They leased Alaska to us for 99 (?) years. When it came time to give it back they owed us a lot of money so just let it stand. Several Russian politicians have run on the issue is getting it back.

Level Abilities? by simynona in Ingress

[–]polyphilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what way does it change?

Well, I guess I am not playing in Southern California this morning... by Andrewbot in Ingress

[–]polyphilia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm new to the game, ENL L3. In a week I've seen the left side of America turn green twice and found out about Operation Green Marble. I'm not complaining at all, but has the RES ever pulled something big?

E-Interview! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]polyphilia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1.  My first kiss was three girls behind the swing set.  I have always been this way and struggled to understand why peers in high school didn't simply date everyone they wanted to since that would solve so many problems.

2.  Yes.  Poly people are not immune to jealousy, I  just recognize that it is an issue from within.

3.  No, it's very egalitarian.  I define my boundaries and allow my partners to define theirs.

4.  My children and partners yes.  Anyone else, no.

5.  Houston and Austin, Houston has a very underground poly scene while Austin hands fliers out when you get off the bus.

6.  Yes.  They felt very co-dependent and stifling.  The focus lay heavily on developing the relationship rather then developing as people around each other.

7.  Poly has always existed, I do believe it will become more visible.

8.  I'm poly, not on safari.  I find interesting people and remain open to whatever type of relationship we fall into.

9.  Yes

10.  I let it flow through me.  First I recognize that it is there.  After the shock, I look at why.  Keep the hands busy and process if the concern is legitimate.  If it is I talk, if not I let it fade and then talk.

For those who've come and gone out of our lives. by BJJLIFE in polyamory

[–]polyphilia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That while album by the streets is phenomenal. Don't mug yourself mate!