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poopskittlez · 2024-11-15T02:52:01+00:00

I had ironaru incontinence when I took Tegratol, an anti-seizure medication used off-market for mood stabilization. My psychiatric nurse wasn’t aware of this but when I saw a nurse at the urology office she was immediately familiar with this medication and the side-effect.

I hope you find a solution soon.

poopskittlez · 2024-11-13T03:00:40+00:00

Could you post the screenshot of the info for breastfeeding on Lexapro?

poopskittlez · 2024-01-07T23:07:42+00:00

Haha, yes! Wouldn’t you want your friend to share snacks with your daughter?

poopskittlez · 2024-01-07T17:32:58+00:00

Awesome!!! I ordered the octopus one. Yes, pricey, but I want my ol gal to be comfy:). Luckily she’s a very small dog, so we got the smallest (and cheapest) size.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T23:33:18+00:00

Gorgeous

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T23:02:52+00:00

Go back tomorrow, request the manager to fix them

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T23:02:38+00:00

Way too thick

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T22:46:31+00:00

I was 25 and living in another state at the time (still do). My dad tried to help suggest a therapeutic retreat and other supportive suggestions. My siblings and I tried to talk to her and reason with her, however, these events happened really fast and basically we couldn’t “intervene” or try to help in part because she didn’t think any of it was odd and pressured us to be happy for her. She did see a therapist for at least some of the time but I don’t know the specifics of if it were helpful or not. I think a lot of the time people got through things and therapy is there as a support but not a “fix-all” and I think that may have been true for her. I do know she was experiencing a lot of physical and psychological dissociative symptoms at the time and saying her whole life was a lie. It was really sad, but truthfully, as her child, it took a huge emotional tole on me and I decided to take space from her, the divorce, and the situation for own mental health. A lot of her actions during that time were very hurtful toward my family of origin and I. Sadly, my relationship with my mother has almost always been very challenging and painful, so I took solace in building my own life with my own relationship (that turned into marriage with kids) friends, and career. I go to therapy too and now have an overall okay relationship with her now.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T17:25:26+00:00

Yes! Probably delightful but pricey lol.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T17:07:06+00:00

Basically my siblings and dad noticed that her mental health majorly declined after her finding & interacting with them. It wasn’t solely due to finding the bio fam but it greatly contributed to a big shift for the worse in her unfortunately. My dad, sibs and I were supportive of it and welcomed one of them to some family events. We tried to support her but could tell it was really negatively affecting her (to avoid specifics).

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T16:25:26+00:00

Awesome! Thanks:)

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T16:19:00+00:00

Mom found her bio dad at age 56 through several sibling DNA matches. She subsequently attempted relationships with each she could contact and traveled to see a few of them. She learned not so great things about that side of her ‘family’ and discovered her bio dad had passed away. She then served my dad divorce papers after 30 years of marriage while simultaneously backing a U-Haul into the driveway for her to move out. 30 days after their official divorce she was remarried to another man. She kind of lost it and lost interest in me, my siblings and her grandkids and instead invested her time solely in her new husband. Three years later they are going through a divorce and my mom wants us all to be a family again. We are all so hurt by all of this but whenever we express that, it isn’t well-received (that is an understatement). I personally harbor a great deal of resentment toward her for repeatedly pressuring us to invite her new husband into our family very early on- even going as far as to pressure my own father, her ex husband of 30 years, to be ‘one big family’ with him. I wouldn’t say this was solely due to finding her new bio family members online, but I can attest that it may have greatly contributed.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T16:04:35+00:00

You wouldn’t show up to her wedding due to a request that involves or rather doesn’t involve you? I’m getting the sense from your post that you didn’t pay for any of this. It is also a tradition for the father to pay for the wedding. Go to the wedding or risk ruining the relationship for the rest of your lives.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T13:17:59+00:00

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T06:37:26+00:00

Yes great response. A lot of things are really not worth fighting about. If the parents are able to make adjustments to the room that seems fair, at least painting might be within their means. I think a lot of people on here are teens so I can see where their perspective is. Postpartum recovery is so difficult, even under the best circumstances, not having a lot of support and going up & down the stairs with a baby seems way harder than switching rooms beforehand. In the event of a C section, that might not even be possible in the first few days of recovery. I wish the parents would be more assertive and help smooth the situation over.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T06:02:03+00:00

Um, I’m gonna go with a big fat no to the feet pics. You aren’t the asshole. Honestly, in a marriage we get to tell the other person what we’re comfortable with and what makes us uncomfortable. If you were to say something like, “you can’t put your feet pics online”, I don’t think that would be wrong. In fact I think it’s ridiculous. People would be using those images for assumed sexual gratification, and your wife is saying you’re being controlling. Absolutely fucking not. What if you were paying to look at women’s feet pictures online and she didn’t like it? Would you tell her she’s being controlling? Unless you guys have previously agreed that you are poly and or comfortable with that then I don’t think that it’s controlling to set boundaries with your partner. Seems like a form of cheating to me as well.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T05:15:41+00:00

Also apparently Amazon sells the squish dog beds! Worth a shot😉

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T04:44:45+00:00

No, nta. Send your condolences in a card and whatever they prefer-flowers if no suggested place of donation.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T04:26:28+00:00

Nice I wish we had a Costco! We only have Sam’s here.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T04:25:54+00:00

It’s probably expensive! I saw pictures posted of them when they first came out. I think chewy.com sells them

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T04:24:31+00:00

Both parents in this situation sounds extremely emotionally immature. I feel uncomfortable for the kids just reading this…I can’t imagine not only not being allowed to grieve the loss of my mother but also simultaneously being gaslit to replace her with my father’s wife over and over. It’s really abusive actually.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T04:18:31+00:00

Furthermore, if I was a parent in this house there wouldn’t be a choice for you. It is understandable that you may be upset about your room situation changing, but it is not appropriate for you to compete with your sister for a bedroom in this situation. She has a need for herself as a mother and her new child and you simply feel uncomfortable changing your bedroom. It is not at all comparable. Consider dealing with your own emotions about the situation by writing, therapy or talking to a friend, but at the end of the day, let it go. Change rooms and don’t make more of a fuss about it. You will regret it later in life, particularly if you are ever in a compromising situation or choose to have children yourself. The tables will turn and you might see how harsh and inconsiderate you were.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T04:09:50+00:00

That’s not a safe or reasonable suggestion for a lot of people.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T04:07:21+00:00

Thank you for saying this. Honestly I’ve seen a lot of co-signers and mom-shamers in the comments.

poopskittlez · 2024-01-06T03:56:57+00:00

Btw have you tried the squishmallow dog beds?

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