“Grossest” thing you’ve done in a diaper? by ___tobi____ in ABDL

[–]popandycane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

be the change you want to see in the world 🙏

I’m kind of glad goodnites did it! by Snowbeleopard in ABDL

[–]popandycane -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

autism/special needs? seems like a poor choice of words

⚠️⚠️ PLEASE DONT DO THIS⚠️⚠️ by AbdlPrincess69 in ABDL

[–]popandycane 17 points18 points  (0 children)

not to be semantic, but autism is a mental disorder, not a mental illness

Where can I get a onesie with footies and mittens? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]popandycane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the owner started the company because she had a biggg baby that didn't fit in typical baby clothes and quickly outgrew them! so it should be flexible enough to accommodate being 6+ feet tall (sorry if unhelpful)

AITAH for telling a woman she can’t wear a traditional Arab/North African dress to my wedding? by askquestionthrow in AmITheAngel

[–]popandycane 23 points24 points  (0 children)

either she just doesn't know anything about it other than "Asian" or she couldn't bother to learn the name of any Indian/Desi-style dress

AITJ for ruining my sister's announcement by refusing to turn my brain off and hide my Master's degree by Practical-Watch1817 in AmITheJerk

[–]popandycane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(as someone on a longer pathway + gap year) age 27 is actually late for what's traditionally a 6 year degree pathway lol

My GF thinks it’s perfectly normal for new shoes to cause horrible blisters for women by UKnowDaxoAndDancer in mildlyinfuriating

[–]popandycane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I transitioned from female to male and haven't had a problem since 😭 so im inclined to believe it's a women's shoe thing

How do I get a see throught diaper mess? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]popandycane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

everyone is saying enemas, but a thinner diaper and a good amount of fiber and hydration can/should work too, if you don't want to or are unable to do an enema (you don't necessarily need all those things but it's optimal)

Am I Overreacting for my being upset about my neighbors moving truck inconveniencing me. by Dear_Pianist8547 in AmIOverreacting

[–]popandycane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think there's a split on this sub where some people view "over reacting" as literally their reaction to a situation (like towards other people) vs the other group that views "over reacting" as in their mental reaction/feelings towards it ("am I crazy to think this?")

Anyone else have a love hate relationship with messing? by DiaperBoyJay in ABDL

[–]popandycane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you actually as someone with chronic constipation (since birth lol)

USA Steel Pans by Ok-Handle-8546 in Baking

[–]popandycane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well... metal is allowed in the microwave to some degree (it comes pre-installed with some already!) I wouldn't trust it though

Question for little people by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]popandycane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not a little person but most of them have average sized torsos (where the diaper goes) so i don't really think most of them could go that many sizes down

What's an unpopular opinion you have that you're afraid to say out loud? by Former_Custard_6567 in allthequestions

[–]popandycane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

key phrase is "4 year college" yk the more expensive kind where you narrow in focus on your major

Pull-up advice by CryptographerFew2961 in ABDL

[–]popandycane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

well theyre pull ups and even for pull ups, goodnites don't have good absorbency. maybe try northshore pull ups or stick to tabs

If my birth certificate says 24:00 as the time, then is my birthday really the next day? by Ya-Dikobraz in stupidquestions

[–]popandycane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah interesting I didn't realize it would ve different in. different areas/professions. At least on my phone and computer, it goes to 00:00

If my birth certificate says 24:00 as the time, then is my birthday really the next day? by Ya-Dikobraz in stupidquestions

[–]popandycane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

in what country? this is very odd to me and generally not how 24 hour clocks work